My 3 years boyfriend dumped me for a girl 3 months ago. He met her on a Saturday and he leaves me monday.
I know who gives a fuck seriously?
Nobody. But if some male could give some advices to me it would be great.
I learned by some mutual friends that I'm better in bed than the new one.
Next week, I have to come to his (OUR but he threw me out like a waste of space) apartment for my exams.
I want to FUCK him. How should I do, because he apparently feels really good with the next one.
Should I have to be friendly and make slow rapprochement with "friendly" hugs? Or should I have to be a little filthy and minx and play the funny sexy bitch? Is there any degree where a man's going to don't give a fuck about consequences and shit and is just gonna think "I have to fuck her so fucking bad".
I know I do look really stupid, you are right I am. But all that shit is not fair and just imagine the opposite situation: a nigger stole YOUR girlfriend and you are really ANGRY, you've been cucked. Want some compensation
I am sorry for my mistakes as I am not a native speaker
>why do these newfags still think its 2008 /b/. You literally weren't old enough to use the internet at that point.
A part of me. Don't care I have no Facebook or instashit
Show up in a trench with stocking and have something sexy underneath. Tease the shit outta him and tie him to the bed and as he is tied up take his favorite thing and break it or punch him square in the nuts. Guys dont just magically leaving a girl so this was definitely premeditated but he didnt have the balls to tell you earlier
Cont) btw you should definitely flirt with one of his friends and see how he feels. Act like nothing happened and it really upset him, have sex with his friend. It really pisses guys off
Its a MAN you need to seduce. Doesnt matter what you do he always wants to fuck.
If you were to approach slowly he might still have some sort of control and could say no.
Wear really slutty clothes (your best clothes, not by your opinion, but by HIS. Women always like shitty grandma clothes better, instead of the absolute whore attire that makes them hot.)
Wear a small amount of jewellry,make up, lipstick, and dress as sexy as possible, with as much as your tits and shoulders showing as possible.
Be an absolute madman, act as if you WANT his dick, now.
Let him stare at your almost-uncovered tits and massage his dick through his pants. Guaranteed 100% win.
look him in the eyes and grab his wiener through his pants. dress really sexy that night. I mean like lingerie. and just move from there and give him head. tease him saying he can have more.
You dont have to, just his best friend. Im the vengeful type because my mommy didnt raises no bitch. In war dont get even, dont just win, annihilate the opposing force and make every generation remember that you shit in their pillow case
Haha thank you really much! I don't know if I will succeed cause I am so fucking shy..
Are you sure he is not going to freak out and be ill at ease and go to his parents house while I'm here?
HE IS attracted to me! He leaves me because I was always on my studies.. But he just never talk to me about this and waited for me to change by my own and be more present for him.
But then he met that girl who give him what he wanted from me. More attention
If he only talked to me, nothing would have happened
What the fuck is that supposed to mean?
>use it to his advantage
to do what? To pussy out of hot, nasty sex ? Do you happen to have a vagina?
Sex is the goal, not a tool. If sex is being offered, you say yes. That`s how men work.
If youre kinda hesitant because youve just got a new girlfriend, all it takes is a little sexy clothing and aggressive approach and you can`t say no.
If you keep having second thoughts and youre not brave enough he`ll notice. Do you really wanna have sex with him or is it just an excuse? We all know its just an excuse but make him believe you want his cock, NOW. and thats it.
If you happen to have a nice ass wear yoga pants, show him. I`d go nuts if I saw my ex in yoga pants even though I hate her like no one else.
I'm really scared to fail.. If I fail there is going to be an extreme awkwardness!
Do you think it can work if I act all innocent but ask him "aww can you do me a massage :3" "can you scratch my head?" etc..
That won`t work.
Youre the one who wants to have sex yet you`re trying to force him to start.
I reckon youve never initiated sex... it was always your partner.
Stop being so selfish.
Or not. Its not like you must have sex with him..
In the extreme case it does, just pull out his dick and start sucking. No.Fucking.Way He`s going to make you stop.
Just dont suck on it with force or dry, that shit hurts like hell.
Legit traps are fucking disgusting I hope they all fucking die of cancer.
No he doesn't.. I know it for sure.
On this weekend, I was really cold and not responding to his message like "miss you my darling" etc etc.. I'm stupid and now I regret it.
So he met this girl who was really turn on by him and she talk to him, trying to turn him on
As I wasn't talking nicely to him, he thought that I don't give a fuck about him and kiss her
literally just grab his dick through his pants and get super up in his face and say you miss his cock. hold on to it and if it starts to get hard keep going. call him daddy and shit.. works every time on me
I'm president of the usa and I moved out when I was 17. One time I fought with the green beret in pakistan. Killed like 56 sand niggers. Shit was so cash and totally 100% true.
Thank you for understanding me, I know you all think that women are sluts and you are right but in that case I assure you that the slut isn't me
I was always there for him when he needs me, but it wasn't a good period for me. And he prefer to leave
I don't care if you're a female but this is to any that might be reading: JUST SAY "LET'S FUCK". Guys do not get hints, we hate your shitty little games, we don't like teasing. Just be up front and fucking ask you cunts.
Well my gf is phd student and its a fucking pain in my ass. Hysteria crisis and shit. I'm still there tho but you gotta know WE DONT GIVE A FUCK about your performance-low esteem problems because for men, this kind of pressure is permanent. Women are surrounded by emotional pressures, so they cringe at them when they show it.
TL DR youre a bitch and your shit's retarded. But youre smart so why care ?
you're pretty, OP. This is some girl bullshit that you have to fuck him again or whatever, I get it. But yeah, honestly, if you grab his cock and look sexy at him it's extremely unlikely he will refuse. It could happen, maybe, but I don't think I could refuse any woman who did that.
Aw thank you..
I entirely agree with you: IT IS STUPID
I know it for sure. But it's like I have to prove something to myself, I feel betrayed. I don't want to be the poor cucked girl in this story. I want to be the winner, I always want to be the winner
It's dumb but it's me
I am not emotional hahaha, It's my fucking ego. In my entire life I never trust someone. But I wanted to give it a chance and say "fuck it maybe love is possible" but now I will never trust someone again and hate the entire world.
all these dubs
I get that, too. Being assertive means not being a victim in whatever situation you're in, and if you're going to be a surgeon, odds are you are already assertive/egotistical(sorry, but it's normal), etc etc, so it makes sense.
start sucking his dick, what's he gonna do, avoid a BJ? no way.
>besides, you're better in bed, and I'm sure he remembers the good times
Fucks off kids, because its way past your bed time. I go to make dinner for my wife and kids and you fucking kids are on about newfag and faggot and anarchist? Why in the fuck would I need to see some random girl's tits and how exactly does that get me off again? Fuck! Just to get off most nights I have to have the wife piss in my mouth or fart in my face while fucking me with her dildo, but for you kids, you see some random girl's tits and you cream your drawers? What type of fucking common green fucks are you people?
(Shame on me what is dubs?)
Yes I am egoistic, you are so true in fact!
I want to be an esthetic surgeon cause I am perfectionist and for me it is an art. And I really love sciences
So when he will be on the couch I will put his pants down and start sucking him? x)
So awkward, I don't know
I am not emo, my father was schizophrenic and completely insane. So maybe I am a little disturbed and really wary and suspicious about people. Because of that it is really hard for me have normal contact with friends etc
>Yes I am egoistic, you are so true in fact!
I'm not criticizing, it's just a characteristic that's common among people who are driven to get the education to operate on people. A whole staff of nurses etc revolves around you, so it's normal.
Just grab him there when you hug him and take his pants off, something like that. Yeah, it'll probably be awkward. This is an awkward situation, so I think that's normal, too. Once things have started, you sound pretty lusty, OP, I 'm sure you will have no problem once things are underway.
>dubs are when your post # ends in repeating digits
Started fucking when I was 9. Because it got harder and harder to fuck by age 11 I turned to porn. Wife's a bit of a porn addict herself. she pegs my ass sometimes. What can I say, life's good at getting better when you're 41. When the kids spends the weekned by her parents house, I don't war pants at all. Wife jerks me off whenever and fucks me in the ass when ever. We're okay with shit too so there's none of that enema bullshit. Gotta go drop her sister home, so if this is up, i'll post, if not, laterz.
You can say I am ugly, it's your opinion you are free
Don't know why I post it but then
honestly why would you want to fuck him
don't wanna sound like a white knight cuck but that's the worst thing you can do
he's already made a choice, he isn't going to leave the new girl and take you back
if you fuck him then he gets to keep the new girl and sex from his ex, you would just make him happier
You probably don't normally just grab a guy or whatever, so it's gonna feel weird as hell. You're still doing it right, whatever it is you do, but it will feel goofy. That's just for a minute or two, though. You can take a little awkwardness for a minute or two, anon, and trust, if you're coming over there alone with him, it has crossed his mind that he might be fucking you.
If he didn't want it, he'd have that girl there, or a buddy, or he wouldn't be there at all. He wants to bang the shit out of you, you're just helping him by providing the spark.
Good luck, OP. This is like shooting fish in a barrel, nothing to worry about.
This dipwad dumped you. If you have to go study with him, then go study, and then leave. If you wanna get laid, you can go to any bar and find someone who cares as much about you as the assbite that dumped you. But no matter what, you're not getting him back -- don't be naive.
Don't sleep with him, he won't date you again unless he breaks up with the new girl. And you would be stupid to get back with him because he will just do it again when he finds someone else
It's obvious he didn't love or care about you he just settled for you till he found someone else. It might suck/hurt but just move on with your life and find someone else. You're the girl so it's easy as fuck to find someone to date compared to us guys.
Don't fall for the I didn't know how much I loved you till after we broke up, that's just mind fuck games.
Srsly OP, you have done it wrong. You should have posted TITS and stay anonymous and not YOUR FACE without tits. Now you can't post tits anymore because the danger of being doxxed is too high.
yeah.....you are thinking like a girl
men aren't that complicated, you'll fuck him and that's the end of that
>I want him, when he will be with his new "love" to think about what he done
not one guy thinks that way
I don't want him back I swear
And I know he really loved me. He was always doing what I wanted him to do. I wanted a dog, he doesn't, but I bought me a dog..
He offers me flowers etc.. He was Always texting me and worrying about me
But the last months I wasn't there for him and don't shows him affection
My English fucking suck I know
OP is an example why its better to be an alpha
gf cheats on you, you're done. let the relationship deteriorate, you're done
if you cheat on your GF she cant get over her feelins of inadequacy and jealousy. She'll be the dirtiest bitch and crawl back just to know she's got one over on the othr girl. She's happy because she made you cheat, but you're happy because you got two girls on the side, and the now ex you dont even have to care for anymore, its just free sex
the best part? she'll keep repeating this, because she can't get over it. You'll always be on her mind and she'll want to do it again and again to satisfy the thought in her own head you're with her, rather than the new GF.
Ayy, similar thing happened to me Monday. 4 years wasted. Shit sucks.
Get off the computer and go hang out with friends, find old friends and meetup, drink with them, have a good time.
You've gotta get your mind off of it.
Also, make sure next time the apartment/rental/whatever lease or rental agreement is in both your names.
Mine, she flipped from "You can stay here" to "You should look for somewhere else" to "Get out in 3 days". If it wasn't for both our names on the rental agreement, I wouldn't have a place to live right now. Landlords just laughed at her and made me a drink.
Anyhow, go out and have fun. Trying to get revenge or payback might make you feel better temporarily, but it will make it harder to let go.
You gave us enough information to get an idea on where you're coming from.
I also get the feeling you're a demon in bed. He's going to miss that.
He will regret not marrying you for the rest of his life, OP. I can guarantee you that. You're a hell of a catch, and he blew it.
this was not me
Best possible advice imo. What's the point of fucking him ? Are you this needy ? Get some self-respect.
By the way you don't look bad, you will find somebody else. Your world is changing, get over it.
Girl, you're awesome, first off. Secondly, assuming the girl isn't with him, you know best what he likes. Fuck the shit out of him... rude him til he bleeds and once you cum, walk away with a smile on your facell.
Fyi, this won't make you feel better until you're over it but once you are, you'll smile looking back on it
I'm truly sorry for you. But you were really lucky to be on the lease!
Unfortunately I don't have any times to see my friends or to hang out..
I also had to move in my parents house.
It is really shitty situation
I know I have to move on, but I still don't understand how is it possible to do that to a person you used to love madly
you are such a typical spurned GF.
I don't expect you to listen to this because you're a women and you treat men like handbags
waaah the new girls wearing MY handbag.!!! I want to take it back because that makes me happy. HAHAH take that you skank.
Let me tell you, I have been in this situation on both ends (gf cheated and went back to ex)
also on the other side, I split with another gf, (because I cheated) found new gf and then had ex BEGGING me for sex like she never did when we were together.
She'd come round to "pick up stuff" and then end up poking her ass in my face saying "fuck me now" "does your new girl go deep like I do" "does she let you cum in her butt? you can do that with me. Be rough with me" etc. I couldn't say no. But I felt like she was pathetic for that, more than anything. Considering the circumstances she should of dumped my ass, instead of coming sliding back giving me what I want.
you lose your self respect, he gets free sex with two chicks. And he doesn't have to waste $ on you. It's a win for him. But a lose for you
It might get you off, the thought of him pounding you instead of her, and you feel smug knowing he's still gone back to you but thats NOTHING to be proud of- he's a guy. He would go back to anything if the sex was easy. You haven't 'won' him back, you've already lost his love. Any woman can get his D.
at the end of the day, she's the one who you're guy is making love to now. He chose her. He's stroking her hair, kissing her neck, licking her pussy. Sliding inside. Maybe coming inside.
You're just a cuck offering yourself up because that's the only way you know how to cope.
If you like sloppy seconds then cool.
>I know I have to move on, but I still don't understand how is it possible to do that to a person you used to love madly
Agreed. You think you know people, but you never really do.
>>I know I have to move on, but I still don't understand how is it possible to do that to a person you used to love madly
That's easy. That passion that fuels love turns to hate when you're spurned or rejected or whatever. This has been building for a long time, and when that girl came along, she was just the trigger.
I don't believe that this came out of nowhere, OP. Tell the truth. Things have gotten stale/weird/whatever for a while, haven't they?
This kinda shit. My gf double majors, and she has a lot of stress. I am pre-med with a management job and shitty parents. I don't really give a fuck about her little stress problems. I'm under immense pressure all the time but you don't see my ass complaining about it. It makes me less understanding when she wants to complain to me. I'm like "No I don't understand where you're coming from at all"
Thank you very much, I don't know if you really think it but thank you!
I don't know if he will regret.. He seems to be really happy without me. Thanks to me he has an apartment, a job etc..
When I met him he lived in his parents house and did nothing
Wont work , your just gonna call rape as soon as he does something and he knows it becouse he isnt a fucking retarded girl ... nothing you can do will get him to fuck you becouse your a manipulative bitch and he's been with you long enough to know ... also becouse he probably browses /b/ in his free time along with a large percentage of guys
Mmh.. Just before he left to go with his friends for the weekend, he was SO CLOSE to me, "I love you so much gonna miss you" blabla
On the road, sent me a lot of message "love you darling" but I don't respond to him
And then he met her, she was talking to him, giving him attention
Trust, I really think it.
I'm in my 40's, and once in a while I think about the women I could have married or whatever. He'll never forget you first of all because you lived with him 3 years, but he's also never gonna find a girl like you again, not to mention the whole doctor thing.
Maybe he won't regret it today, or tomorrow, but I will guarantee you when he is older he will tell himself "fuck, what was I thinking?!?!" when he remembers you. If he can even stand to feell the regret when you come up in his mind.
His actions and his words don't match, so I think that indicates deceit on his part, or ...I dunno, but it doesn't add up. Sounds confusing. I tend to agree with the other anon, he was a cheating scumbag.
>this isn't the first time he hooked up with a girl
>nobody leaves for the first person they meet
I prob spend a good 30 min EVERY goddamn day listening to my gf moan about work colleagues, tough exam, money problems. I'm thinking welcome to the real work but nobody actually cares!
90% of the time women don't even want advice even if the solution is logical you just have to listen or pretend to listen and wait it out
. GF complains she *really* doesn't want to go to work for 15 minutes, says she's feeling sick, crying etc? well as a man the solution is simple - call off and don't go, but the GF whines "NO I can't do that!". well then STFU
Maybe he was drunk.. When he came back, I knew he did something wrong. I heard an extreme shame in his voice and by the way he looked at me
But I didn't react and not even giving him a word.. I think I didn't know what to do bu my attitude tell him that I didn't care at all
So he left, going in his parents house and call me two hours later saying that it was over
He said to me that we weren't happy together blabla
I discovered the truth by myself one month later, but he kept telling that she is only a friend!!
He admits it only two weeks ago!!
And he also said, he still has feelings for me
Exactly, 15 minutes, feeling sick, crying, screaming, biting objects. Sometimes punching herself or trying to hit me. Acting like everything was normal a couple of hours later. She pretends its my fault or shit I say but well I just feel weird for her
>>I discovered the truth by myself one month later, but he kept telling that she is only a friend!!
>He admits it only two weeks ago!!
>And he also said, he still has feelings for me
I dunno, but if i were trying to keep the door open to an ex-girlfriend for reconciliation, I'd probably say something like that.
He wants to bone you in the worst way. Like I said, he'd never be alone with you IN YOUR OLD APARTMENT if he didn't want to make something happen.
Now that I know the truth, he said to me "I want you to get out of my life etc.."
He really wasn't okay in the beginning to let me be in our apartment for my exam.
I have had some arguments and he couldn't say no to me.
He said to me "don't tell anyone!"
"what do I'm going to say to her (his next)?"
When we talk together, we always fight in the beginning and laugh in the end..
>>When we talk together, we always fight in the beginning and laugh in the end..
sounds like you have a lot of passion, anon. Like I said, I'm sure you're amazing in bed, and he knows it.
He said to his friend "lol I only regret her for sex"
But if it's true I don't think we would have stayed together 3 years
Also we were really knowing each others, I know him by heart, he can't lie to me
When we were together, we used to a really "childish" behavior
For me he was a part of my family, it is strange
He presented to me his truly Catholic grandma which was at 1300kms away
I could honestly see how someone could find you attractive. If they were into horses and whatnot you know.
He obviously can lie. That's how he meet someone else and was with them long enough to realize he needed to leave you.
>just move on to someone who will appreciate you.
>let him be stuck with a bitch that fucks horribly.
>he'll think of you and regret it
>then he will have to live with that shit >mean while you still get sex from who you want and get to move forward with your life.
>He said to his friend "lol I only regret her for sex"
In my experience, people are usually motivated by a variety of reasons, and each one may be true, but is just part of the larger truth. I'm sure he regrets losing the sex, but that's only part of it, I'm guessing, or the only part of it that he was willing to show to that particular friend at that moment. I don't for a second believe it was some kind of great revelation of ultimate truth or anything.
You're French, so still culturally Catholic even if you don't attend mass, I'm guessing? I went through RCIA and got confirmed last year.
The guy never married you after 3 years...that seems like a long time for a test drive.
I believe you, anon. This is a complicated situation when you spend years of your life without any commitment other than a rental agreement.
Sorry to be harsh, but if you didn't want truth you wouldn't ask /b/.
I installed a keylogger on my computer that I left on our apartment
One month later, hacked his Facebook
He sent a friend request to her on the evening of the 22 February, came back 23, dumped me in the evening of the 23
please shut the fuck up and stop pretending you'ce ever had sex.
Listen yeah great he's a man and all he wants is sex. WRONG.
Honestly all you can do is dress sexy, something new he hasnt seen you in before, flirt, and make a move. You gotta risk it to get the biscuit. Good luck but do not try to appear like anyone you are not and do not cry.
You dont understand how unattractive crying females are.
Most of us are atheist
He is 100% polish and he demanded me a lot of times in marriage
He said that he relly wants to have children with me
But I don't want to get married nor to have children..
Yes I just want the truth..
Maybe one day, we will have a true discuss, without any lie
You're a cunt, the new one's a better match for him, obviously stated by his action. Stay the fuck out of his life, you seem like a very irritating twat, and I'm sure he's glad to have found someone he actually likes.
>He is 100% polish and he demanded me a lot of times in marriage
>He said that he relly wants to have children with me
>But I don't want to get married nor to have children..
sigh. so you were fundamentally incompatible. I'm sorry to hear you feel this way, anon. Family provides a meaning and fullfillment to life that we don't get anywhere else, even if we work in our dream job.
My family was pretty terrible, so I never wanted to have a family. I changed my mind, though. I hope you do too.
Same here. But I'm only 19, maybe later he Would have convinced me..
Now I'm sure I don't want any strong link like children with someone who can change his mind when one pussy shows up
op, i think your sexxxiiii!! if he dont want you, i do!