Feel nervous about talking to girls.
Have even no situations with interactions with girls. Have some male friends, no stress about people I know, but.. FUCK, I hate myself, I want good relations, feel love, have sex, and there are 0 girls around me. I know my english sucks... But help me /b/rothers, what do? Any videos? YT channels?
WANT TO BE JUST NORMAL COOL GUY WITH GIRLS AND I AM A LOSER.
Make some online friends, this was my the first step of my own de-betadization.
Next, make female friends irl. I don't know how in your case but these 2 things helped me to get out of my confort zone later on, and get ask a girl out.
ok thanks, but need something deeper, need to work on myself, need to believed in some shit that makes me whatever and also fucking crazy fucker
Yeah easy to say/write, but thanks anyway
They are just women...not something worthy of being nervous over. Talk to them as you would your mates just tune it down a bit. Start with small talk then just ask them about themselves. Women will tell you everything about them. Just ask!
Ask what she likes, doesn't like...whatever she says get her to elaborate more. Women will literally talk FOREVER once they feel comfortable and you seem genuinely interested. Yeah first few times will be weird but it gets easier. Each one is just practice for the next.
What are you in to?
is horrible advice from a betafag. Doing shit online just makes you a closed freak, especially this fucked up site. This >>682848163 imbecile should NEVER be dispensing advice.
Now feel like nothing, feel hate. But I play instruments, create music but very amateur (hiphop), love to drive a car, work in it, not much money.
don't want to post my pic
I think you are right
post something constructive
I have twice...both comments about just talking to them and each us practice for the next is me. You know the only 2 helpful ones you have ignored...
I have fucked more women than you have fapped to young buck. Take my advice and just get out there and start chatting birds up!
>don't want to post my pic
Then fuck off.
You get nothing.
Of course I'm right, but then you just lost my willingness to help you anymore. My instructions were clear. Who knows? Your life might have changed for the better had you been able to follow the simplest of instructions here. Now instead, go on talking to you betas and the countless betas here on 4chinz, and get bad advice, and go on being a loser the rest of your life.
Clue: you probably just missed the advice necessary to capture the perfect woman and be happy and loved. Now you will just be a broken loser the rest of your life.
pretty much this. get a job that requires you to talk to people, build your confidence up. look up good conversation starters, act confident and talk about THEM. not you. women only care about themselves and men who act confident
build it by talking to people, maybe playing some sports/working out. the rules and simple, have not changed since the dawn of time
He seems to want coddling or special snowflake treatment. You and I the only 2 alphas who saw an anon we felt sorry for and attempted to help kicks us in the nuts. Makes NO sense!!!
bc u sound rather pathetic op, i recommend start chatting online first, like okcupid or plentyoffish, and start with 4/10 and fat chicks. theyre more than willing to chat with anyone and will give u a feeling for what its like to converse with a member of the opposite sex
Just relax, nigger. Girls aren't that special just because they have tits. You don't have to impress them or act in any specific way around them. There are no cheats or special moves/lines. Just don't rape them and don't act desperate.
About how to meet them, just go to a gig or any type of event you're interested in. Join a board game club if you are a geek. When you start hanging with people more, some of them will be girls.
Be friendly, not rude or pathetic.
Go out, make friends.
Yeah exactly woman love to hear themselves talk.
Also i recommend talking to every woman you meet even if its just hello, this will give you more interaction with woman. Talk to woman at checkout counters or anything like that as usually they would rather be doing something else then working.
The hardest part is breaking the ice. My strategy is to just go up to them and tell an extremely cheesy joke with good wordplay that they will get quickly. From there just talk to them like you would anyone else. The key is confidence. Everyone talks about how they don't have it but even if you don't it's easy to fake. Seriously. It's a game, a play. ACT like you are a confident male and eventually it will become natural.
I'm an average guy, good looking face, I guess. But I'm 6'1 and 130lbs soaking wet so I'm basically a skeleton. But this mindset gets me a healthy amount of dates.
All social interaction requires acting. You play roles. You always have to fake it till you make it.
To succeed, you must accept it for what it is, be familiar with the rules and then hack your way towards your goals.
Yeah and I'd like to add something else on top of all this.
Wear clothes that look good on you. Don't be a fuckwit and just wear whatever, unless you can pull it off. I mean, if you're not planning on doing shit that day it's fine but if you're actively going to ask a girl out make sure you are wearing clothes that suit your body type.
Like I said in my first post, I'm skinny as fuck and so I dress in ways that make me look good and not like the Holocaust survivor I appear to be.
Are you ready, OP? Here it comes.
Maintain eye contact. Try not to look away or at her tits when you talk to her.
Keep the conversation about them, not you. Girls love talking about themselves and listening to her bullshit is like foreplay to them.
Confidence, I cannot stress this enough. Take the initiative and approach her first.
Smile. It's easy. They love it.
Hygiene, make sure you don't smell like shit, look like shit.
To build your confidence. I suggest you practice talking to girls at their place of work. Like a librarian or something. You'd be surprised how much a girl will tell you when you ask them if they like working at said job.