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Is anyone else lonely today?

Please respond, don't let this be a 404 FML.
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>>682813448
always, anon
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>>682813700

thanks man

you made me feel a bit better

and checked
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Always, anon
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>>682813448
you know it
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>>682813838
3838, neat!
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>>682813448
we are always here for you
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No, been playing dank souls 1 for 5 hours (2 hours grinding for darkroot garden) and now i have too many people wanting me to do shit for them. Im gunna take care of my grandma tho.
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Sure am.

As much as I love the internet, I think it makes us close ourselves up inside our homes like never before.

I thought the future would be cooler
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Kinda op. I have a massive crush on a girl who turned out to be a tranny. Still wanna fuck. Shes not interested.
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>>682813448
Only everyday dude. Do you always feel lonely or just today?
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>>682814085

i think about that sometimes, i don't know what i'd do in the evenings without 4chan...i guess i would live with other people because it would just be too lonely

socializing on the internet is good but it does seem to prevent me from truly addressing my loneliness in a constructive way

anyway thank you anons for being here
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>>682814085
The future sucks anon.
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>>682813448
I'm sorry OP, I never get lonely. In fact, I managed to get rid of pretty much all of my friends a few years ago and I am now the happiest I have ever been. Most of my mates grew up, got married, moved away, had kids and dropped out of the social circle one by one. The few that were left, some fell out and stopped speaking to each other, it all jut got too much hard work and drama. So I ditched all but one or two.

I have to say I love my own company. I do what I want, when I want to, because I want to do it. I never have to consider anybody else. I never have to organise a number of people. It's utter bliss. Peace and quiet and stress and drama free.

Learn to see the positive side OP. Learn to love your own company. Get drunk and high. Play vidya, music, get lost in a good book. Do whatever the fuck you want to do.
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I am lonely and depressed. It is hard to get shit done. I am still debating to got to the movies alone.
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>>682814085
Social networking is counterproductive. We have all the means to communicate with each other but more than ever we have all become disconnected.
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>>682814209

i always feel lonely, mostly during the day

but today is special. i sperged out hard on a girl i like b/c she was telling me about other dudes she was banging and she stopped talking to me
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>>682814471
Fuck her bro. Fuck them all.
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>>682814371

this is good advice, i've been alone so long that i usually do deeply enjoy the solitude

then i reach out and get hurt and i have to withdraw from the socializing neurochemicals and return to my solitude
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>>682814471
Women seem wicked when you're unwanted.

Have this for no reason:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NzVW5h-RxSk&list=LLx02GjXPE7FapsNA0rx24rA&index=33
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>>682814640
it's not worth reaching out m80. most people are dicks and untrustworthy and selfish and will make you regret it.
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>>682813448

I'm almost always alone when I'm not at work. And sometimes it gets to me. It has been for the past week or so.

I'm also in need of advice for a bit of a predicament I'm in regarding my loneliness, if anyone cares to hear it.
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>>682814769
>>682814588

thanks anons

that's a good inspirational speech, made me feel better

we all have to take our hits
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>>682815097

tell us, friend
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>>682815097
do go on.....
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>>682815147
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sonLd-32ns4
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>>682815147
Always remember it's not about how hard you hit but how hard you can get hit to keep moving on.
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>>682815147
Sometimes to keep ahold of your sanity you have to let everything else go.
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yeah. lonely here.

diagnosed with disease a year ago.

up until a year ago June, I slayed hordes of vagine and built custom cars.

now can't walk straight, drive or hear well. i'm middle-aged though so I guess I had my fun. waiting to die is bullshit.
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Idk why but this song always puts a little momentum in my motivation.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fEl4rhr9PGI
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>>682815828

what disease, if you don't mind me asking?

tell us about your vagine slaying days...did it make you feel happy or empty inside?

also you can still build the cars maybe?
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>>682815097
>>682815243
>>682815305

So in an effort to combat my loneliness, I've been toying with the idea of making a dating profile. I went on PoF, lurked a bit, searched for people in the area, just to see who I'd be dealing with. And I did this over the past few days, and kept going back to this one girl's profile. Stunning, artistic, overall lovely. Still haven't made the profile.

I did this again last night, and her profile was nowhere to be found. And I dug for it. I even just happened to have it open on my laptop from a few days ago, and upon reloading the page, nothing. So I did what any stoned and drunk aspfag would do in a moment of panic, search for her on facebook using the bits of info I picked up. And I found her. Still no contact, and I feel like I'm in a state of limbo, because I know how weird this potentially looks for me. wat do?
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>>682815147
>we all have to take our hits

We do, but don't let them bring you down.

You always have us. The internet hate machine, the horrible anons of /b/ who makes fun of all the painful shit that happen to innocent people. We are your best friends because we will never lie to you and we will always be here for you when you need us.
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>>682816124
You mean, /b/ will always be here to watch when you kill yourself on cam.
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>>682816091
Tell her exactly what you just told us.
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>>682815147
I had a therapist tell me to do some service work or charity work for others to help with my loneliness. I was really uninterested, but it helped a lot. I started by doing favors for people when they needed help. You can feed the homeless, etc.

Just the act of doing small things for other people started helping me feel more connected and less alone. I would recommend it, in any way you can or in any way that sounds interesting.
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>>682816091
Dude stop. Don't do that shit now or ever. Not only will it not get you the girl, it ain't right to be that way. I mean, for your own self esteem. Don't do shit like that, you'll hate yourself for it.
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>>682816091

well i'm glad i'm not the only borderline aspfag with substance use issues on here

don't beat yourself up about it, it's a normal thing to do given your attraction to her

i agree with the other anon, follow up with an honest apology and ask if she's interested

could be the start of something beautiful

if not, you'll know she's not chill and you're better off moving on
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>>682816091
I had a look on Pof. Everyone on there is either fat, has kids, or looks like a total bunny boiler. I messaged one grill who I liked the look of, she didn't even message me back. Deleted my profile and now I have given up on grills. Been lied to, cheated on and had my heart broken far too many times. I'm not willing to put myself in that position of vulnerability anymore. I just fap these days and crack on with my life. Been 18 months now since I got laid, this is the longest I've been in 17 years of getting laid. It's my 33rd birthday next month, I'm thinking of going fucking a hooker, if only to ensure I don't make 2 years without pussy.
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>>682816355
Don't listen to this advice, unless you want to freak her out.
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>>682816318
Exactly. Even when we cannot help you any longer, we will at least watch you die without trying to explain it with some bullshit like everyone else would.

We don't need to explain to ourself or each other why that anon decided to kill himself, because we all know why.
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>>682816597

i'm 28 and i haven't been laid in 2 years and, oh, i think 5 days now. 2 years 5 days.

still got to enjoy the pleasures of 2 brutal "let's just be friends"

and lots of porn
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>>682814377
Do it! I went to new star wars movie alone and it was a fun experience.
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>>682816549
>well i'm glad i'm not the only borderline aspfag with substance use issues on here

isn't that most of the faggots on /b/?
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>>682814278
Our brains crave interactions that require input from body language and social cues. This is why I think online friendships are lacking.
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Ye anon, always.
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>>682816091
Just make sure you're punching your weight on her level. If she seems like she's got a lot going on with her it could and probably will be too much for you to keep up with. This is what causes second guessing and insecurity in the relationship. It's toxic poison that only results in broken hearts, mainly yours, and a collection of empty bottles at the end of the night.
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im always lonely my /b/ro. The only time im not lonely or okay with being lonely is when im doing drugs, which i never even have money for because i have other responsibilities before drugs.
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>>682814377
>>682816764

Yeah man, listen to this guy. I'm the lonely 32 y/o fag in a few posts above who likes his own company. Some people at work tell me I'm weird for going to the movies or out for a meal alone. I say why should I stay in and not go to the movies or for a meal just because I'm currently single and all my friends have moved on? I can either stay in and be miserable about it, or carry on regardless and enjoy myself. I don't give a fuck what anybody else thinks about it.
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>>682816597
Life is what you make it. You can give it, you can take it or waste it chasing bitches when you could be making something of yourself.
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>>682817177
Are you sure you're okay about it?
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>>682817177

i like going to movies alone when im in a good mood

if im in a bad mood though it's not really a good distraction
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>>682813448
I like to go out on walks in the middle of the night.Where I live,it's very near the sea and the village is dead,so you can have an experience in solitude
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>>682817316
Agreed. I've had everything from relationships lasting a couple of years, even living with me, to one night stands, and everything in between. The last couple of hook ups I had I was the other guy in a love triangle. Shit's dramatic and toxic. I decided almost 2 years ago to take some time out and work on me. Best decision I ever made. I've never been one for wanting to get married or have kids, but now feel like I'm out of the pussy trap altogether. The pros just don't outwiehg the cons. I look at all the guys at work, pissed off doing girly shit or kiddie shit while I get to be in my bachelor pad, drinking bourbon, smoking weed and doing coke, playing ps4 and watching movies on my projector. Life is fucking good.
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>>682816091

"hey, this might be one of the weirder things to happen to you this week, so I apologise in advance, and completely understand if you outright block me. But if you'd allow me, I'd love to tell you the story of what brings me here today."

If I were to go through with this, how is this for an introduction? I do get a bit longwinded when I type.
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>>682817402
Absolutely. Why would I not be? What makes you say that?
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>>682817177
Anon from star wars movie here. I'm considering going to concert alone, what do you think? I used to listen punk rock (yeah i know it's shit i don't care), and i've been to few concerts with my long gone frends.
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>>682817667
That sounds pretty chill bro. Getting out in nature does wonders for the soul. There aren't many places to go where I am late at night. I'm mostly drunk and stoned so I can't drive out into the countryside.
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>>682817973
Because most people wouldn't be.

Just making sure you're okay anon. I care about you.
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ох ебать, куда я попал
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Currently in a jacuzzi with my good friends and a bunch of girls.
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>>682817966

no offense but it's a little autistic

try this: "i'm sorry for messaging you but i found you on (dating site) and wanted to get to know you. feel free to block me if this is too creepy!"

whatever im an autist too, it's like the blind leading the blind
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>>682818238

you had to go and fuckin' blow the thread

normie mcnorman
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>>682813448
Me too anon
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>>682817992
Yeah I've done this too. The only thing I don't really like doing alone is going out to a club. I'll go to the local pub for a few beers on my own, but I know the regulars to chat to and join in the craic. I've been out to clubs on my own before and always end up getting bored and coming home early. Anything else I enjoy doing just as much alon as with others.
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>>682818267

None taken, I'm literally autistic. It's par for the course for me.
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>>682818156
I truly feel sorry for those people. I am very much at my happiest with my own company.
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>>682813448
im always alone
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>>682818570
That's great. I wish you all the happiness.
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>>682818570

good for you man, it can be a beautiful and comfy feeling, can't it?
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>>682818238
gonna need a pic with timestamp
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>>682818640

tell us your woeful tale
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>>682818678
Thanks anon, you too.

>>682818685
I think the word 'peaceful' most describes it. No stress or drama and absolutely everything just the way I like it. Shit's chill.
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>>682818894

i get to that point, and i do agree that it's superior to the relationship bullshit, but then every two weeks or so i just kind of get bored and buy a bunch of beer at 11 PM and get blasted

i guess it's working for me

would like to not get so bored
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>>682818434
Well I like alcohol, and I can socialize better with strangers on it. Even if they are not taking me seriously. Maybe a few beers wil help berore concert. But thanks for your advice /b/rother.
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Any of you guys have chilled out lonely guy music?
Recently I've just been listening to Black Sabbath and moping around.

s'nice
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C1JQ1NseBl8
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>>682819107
I rarely get bored, so I can't really offer you advice on how to not get bored. I find between movies, series, vidya, internet, books, music, playing guitar/piano/drums, fapping, cooking, eating, getting drunk and high I have plenty to entertain me.

Do you more mean that you get lonely rather than bored? If I want company I tend to either play vidya online or come on here. I do have one friend left who comes over on a Friday night to get drunk and high every week. I find that with a bit of ps4 online and 4chan is enough socialising for me.
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>>682814183
he*
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>>682819415
I would do that bro. Go for a couple of beers and grab a bite to eat before the cencert. Grab a couple of beers while you're there. Maybe you'll get talking to some people, maybe you won't. But don't act as if the success of your night depends on it. You can still enjoy those beers and the concert by yourself just as much as if you were with friends/a gf.
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>>682814183
ddont man
find a real girl. you can do it
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>>682819973
this
also there are always lonely girls who strangewly enough like creeps like you and i
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>>682819672
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9Pp9DC56hh8

This album is killing me inside recently
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If anyone wants to talk and just pass the time reply to this post I seriously just want to hear another human talk.
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>>682818267
To be honest this sounds just as bad as the last post. You don't tell them you're sorry for messaging them and saying "feel free to block me if this is too creepy!" is basically telling them to block you because you do actually sound creepy. Playing the beta card usually gets you nowhere.
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>>682815989
I was diagnosed with some autoimmune diseases a year ago. my immune system started attacking my inner ears (cochleas), and balance nerves (vestibular nerves).

Also, my immune system started attacking my liver.

Vag slaying days were fun. I've been in love a few times, enjoyed it. fucking a variety of women, after a while, did indeed make me feel empty. if i'm able to recover enough to start dating again, I'd like to find 1 woman for a long term relationship.

I'd like to build another car sometime. I built old cars, 60's Impalas. They can be a pain in the ass. Maybe something newer this time. If again, I recover enough to drive.

I don't know your story as I don't know which posts - if any itt are yours. just keep truckin', keep your head up, and try to smile once in a while boss!
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>>682819973
>>682820190
Many thanks guys. I will search for a good show in my city.

>tfw you lurk /r9k/ and fuckers don't give you great advices like /b/
I need to lurk feels threads here more often. And sorry for my english im drunk af right now and not native english speaker.
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>>682813448
heh
most evenings alone, have few people who would give up a nut to help me but even they are bored with me. had some "friends" earlier in college but they grew disgusted with me and bailed. 25 and kissless virgin btw, don't even pity myself just too down to start doing anything, waiting for my hour before the boss
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>>682820331
Remember this game?
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>>682820499

fuck you're right
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>>682820609

those 1960's impalas looked sweet, it's ridiculous how much the model has changed...cars were cooler back then

you too, thanks man, hang in there, better days are always on the horizon
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>>682820331

hey man i'm here

i guess you can't hear me talk but you can type with me
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>>682820958
Yeah it was amazing
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>>682820609
I wish you all the best in your recovery bro. You sound like a cool and genuine guy.
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>>682820331
What's your story anon?
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>>682820296
Chilling
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>>682814417
/thread of threads
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FEELS! WE GOT FEELS! HERE HEY EVERYONE FEELS!

Don't die on my now lonesome thread
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Has anyone in here ever been in love. I don't loving the idea of being in love but actually been in love with the person, not the idea?
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>>682822741
I have been in love and currently am. It is a great feeling if the person loves you back. If he/she does not however, it can be soul crushing.
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>>682822741

I think so, once my senior year of college. then maybe once again during a 4 month relationship at age 24.

it's quite a secure feeling, there's no jealousy

but then you start worrying about the future

and you take a job somewhere else

or she moves away

or things change

people change

i dunno man
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Be good guys in rl bros
Help old people, Blind people at the trainstation, smile and so on

Improve yourself, learn new things, travel, become happy

It really helped me to come out of some down years
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>>682822961
If you have to say you think so then you probably haven't
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>>682822741
>met a girl
>we are like bound souls
>things got serious
>we are hanging out everyday
>i think i'm in love
>this goes for a 2 months or so
>she went on a summer camp for one week
>hey anon this is my new boyfriend chad
>mfw
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>>682822926
How long have you two been dating?
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>>682818753
i just like being alone. ppl are too damn confusing.
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>>682816597
POF is a pile of wank, just like most other dating sites. They have a list of things you need to tick off before they even want to speak or see you. Like most anon's here are saying. Just focus on yourself, that old adage of if you feel good on the inside you feel good on the outside rings true. However wank it sounds, then out of the blue some ditsy cute girl will catch you're eye.
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>>682823314

why do they do it anon

why do they do it like that
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>>682823406
idk man, i never been able to love anyone after that
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>>682823356
We've been together for almost 8 years now. Lived together for most of those 8 years.
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>>682823116
Oh and don't date Western girls.
They are shit wifes
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>>682823314
Two months isn't enough to realize you're in love in my opinion. That's the honeymoon phase that fades eventually. It's after six months, when you actually have to put work into it that you know whether it's worth it or not.
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Lonely? Lonlier than I have every been.

I had my birthday 3 days ago. It was the one day of the year I always was made to feel special when my Mum called. Mum died last christmas and Dad died straight after.

Lonely does not cut it.
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>>682823314
only one solution : steal chad away from her and show her it's her loss
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>>682823540
Kudos to you dude. That sounds pretty secure to me.
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>>682823649
This made me feel sad. Happy birthday anon.
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>>682823639
Well we were friends long time before, those 2 monts were something more.
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>>682823831
Thanks, I guess I'm a quite lucky guy.

It feels amazing to know that I always have someone who got my back no matter what.
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feels likem im literally going insane lately
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>>682823649
Happy belated birthday guy. Found the perfect stripper for ya.
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>>682823649
My thoughts are with you anon. Stay strong.
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>>682823516

my high school girlfriend cheated on me during freshman year of college i couldn't have an erection for a year after that
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>>682820331
I am here reading you alone in the dark
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>>682824053
Put the bottle down anon.
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>>682823543

asians aren't a cakewalk either my friend
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>>682824035
No guessing needed there m8
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>>682824053

talk to us
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>>682823649

jesus lord my friend

jesus

what are you going to do
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>>682824053
>>682824163
Nah don't put it down. We can all drink to brighter days.
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>>682823314
This happened to me 15 years ago. She later regretted. Too late. Maybe the love of my life.
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>>682824053

alcohol hurts the sanity in the long run
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>>682824104
Damn thats fucked bro. How things worked out? Are you still together? Personally i dont think i could forgive such thing.
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It would b hard to b lonelier than I, op.

Happy Cinco de Mayo!
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>>682823889
Ahh I gotcha
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>>682824327
Very well then. Put your glass away, we're drinking from the bottle tonight.
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>>682824488
Yeah but it feels so good right now.
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>>682822741
Yup but cancer happened, and not the shit you find on /b
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>>682824532
I'll have a drink with you all. Currently sat alone drinking Zubrowka bisongrass vodka and coke. Cheers!
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>>682824502

oh no no she's been out of my life for almost a decade. this happened at age 19 and im 28 now

but it still affects me, i still carry it with me

i was literally cucked
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>>682824532
>>682824327
>>682824683

Havana club and coke for me .
Cheers
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>>682824683
cheers

it's not often i find a new type of alcohol but that sounds cool and novel
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>>682824683
Well polfag here, Żubrówka is ok tier. Im drinking beer tonight.
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>>682823649
Happy Burfday
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>>682824683
>>682824845
>>682824859
>>682824875

Heineken for me tonight.
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My life is like skyrim.. an endless quest of solitude..
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>>682816091
if you are handsome then go for it, if not don't even bother unless you have something in common to do with her or frequent her common places
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Anyone else know that feel when you have ways to make yourself happy but it's like someone has just come and drained the happiness out of everything. I'm on discord with 5 friends playing games and pretty much feel like i'm on an island alone.
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>>682820331
Howdy fam
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>>682825090
Cheap vodka and dreams of having coke for me tonight.
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>>682825315
Only alcohol, gives me plesure now. I have some friends but interaction with them sober is imposibru.
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>>682823880
>>682824066
>>682824094
>>682824296
Thx guys,
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>>682825522
Coke as in soda or coke as in cocaine?
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Newfag here, I had no idea the people on here could be so deep. I love this thread.
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>>682825714
cocaine. Nothing better than an all night coke bender.
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>>682825844
Welcome newfriend
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>>682823543
This, my hand to Allah.
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>>682824875
It's the best vodka I've had over here in the UK.
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>>682813448
Yeah In a sense anon. I am too I guess. In a weird way. Its like I have a gf and 2 kids, and I still feel alone. Sometimes I want to be with them or hang out, and they are all cursed with glutton. I send them to a faggot ass private school, they have nice shoes clothes video games etc. gf gets to enjoy nice house and shit, and they never fucking want to go out and do what the fuck I want to do, so I got tired of it. I barely know them anymore. They just live there, Locked in their rooms playing vidya or hanging with their gf doing makeup with their hotass hs friends, and gf wants to chill at bar all the time. I have money for a down payment for a new house in Dallas TX. Far away from LA and cheaper. Im thinking of jumping off and running...
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>>682814369
mine probably too
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>>682825844
Have a seat newfriend, tell us your storry
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>>682825844
Welcome to the scary dark side of the internet. The place media warns you about.

We are just lonely people, just like everyone else.
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>>682822741
yes. fuck man i am. but somehow loving someone didnt make things easier for me. i cant see my so all that much and we've got our future ahead of us and it seriously worries me so much. i dont want to lose this person because of distance or anything. but i generally worry too much about everything.

if you love someone and they love you back it gives you so much warmth and strenght to keep going with everything. probably saved me from yet another damn down in my life.
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>>682814371
this is me
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>>682826124
This fucking sucks.

Fuck them. Let them waste away, ungrateful fucks.
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>>682823649
hey man. happy birthday.
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>>682826124
I know it's hard but put the hammer down anon. If they are shitheads right now they will probably be shitheads when they grow up. Once they respect you things will get better. Don't be a nigger and leave your family, even though it's so much easier to run. It's just not the right thing.
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>>682826380
yeh thanks dude. they are my kids, I love them. But its hard becoming so distant. I dont know what happened to them. Probably my fault, working and shit all the time in diff countries.
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>>682826124
Feel for you man but you can't just up and quit, your gf (wife?) would run you dry, especially with the kids. Don't know how US laws work but seek some help or something from an outside party like a lawyer if you're serious.
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I stay up till 3 am every night thinking solely about how much my friends don't talk to me like they used to.
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>>682825844

welcome to the horror-show that is /b/

this is what we're all really like, after the rekt and gore threads and traps
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>>682826689
Yeah, dont leave forever, just enough. Make them see how much you do for them and how ungrateful they are.
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>>682826124
aw man before you run off at least try to improve their character a bit, teach them a lesson.
I'm imaging tricking them into thinking they're going to some fancy resort but instead you go backwoods camping or some shit. Make them feel their real dependence on you. Don't back down or anything you make them sleep outdoors and without bars for at least one night.
Or maybe your car "breaks down" in the middle of nowhere but luckily you brought along sleeping bags and hotdogs.
This is probably why I shouldn't have kids, I like fuckin around with people too much.
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>>682813448
I'm always lonely.. I have people around me but I still feel lonely.

I'm sorry you feel lonely OP. It's one of the worst things
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>>682817966
checked
and i think this looks kinda good,
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>>682826124
This is my biggest fear 2bh
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>>682813448
loneliness is all i've ever known op
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>>682826853
Fucking horrible. The worst thing is that you have no idea how it got that way and what to do to make it better.
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This is /b/, we're all lonely.
Don't worry anon somebody. Somewhere. Loves you or will appreciate you for what you do.
Good luck with love and love anon.
Check em'
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I'm a brown dick in a sea of white vaginas
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>>682826156
I'm in the second year of college and I'm failing pretty much all of my subjects. I ditched all my friends because they're really obnoxious and I still miss a girl that left me over two years ago.
Do you ever get over someone that you loved more than you've ever loved yourself?
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At least this thread kept me company whilst trying to pee. Fuck you normies with your perfectly fine bladders and kidneys.
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>>682827328
Meant life my bad.
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>>682827350
Yes. I don't love myself anon.
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>>682827263
Ow the edge
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>>682827350
/b/ro i hate myself, maybe thats the reason i cant fall in love anymore
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>>682827379
>/b/
>normies
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>>682827655
that or just don't need physical or mental connections with other human beings
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>>682827476
Really sorry to hear that, may I ask why you feel this way?
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>>682827693
But love is about loving someone else, not yourself. In love all that matters is the other person. I could get hurt. But as long as she'd be fine I'll be fine
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>>682827731
/r9k/ shitposter, don't give him attention
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>>682827731
At least you don't spend 15 minutes trying to pee. Try explaining that to your boss/girlfriend/mother
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>>682826124
You don't have a gf. You have a parasite.

>gf wants to chill at bar all the time
She goes there to get railed by other dudes.

Definitely time to run.
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>>682827921
Go to a doctor and do something about it.
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>>682827854
I don't know. I've just been feeling down lately. Don't succeed in high school been failing all or nearly my classes. My mom left my dad and blames the both of us for being tyranic and I feel like it's my fault. Also feel like shit since I used to be DMG and now I'm Gold Nova 2. Been coming more and more to /b/ to feel normal as if I fit in this is my home by now.
>not a newfag
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>>682827883
Some poet in my country said that: if you dont at least like yourself you can't love someone else.

And i think it's true cuz i would hate to ruin some girls life by marrying me
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>>682826542
I know dude but I just... Im just tired I have to go look at a service call.>>682826813
>>682826813
>>682827009
>>682827120
hey guys. thanks for caring bros. it felt really good to get that off my chest. Sorry i didnt reply, I had one of my employees come and drone on about office drama. I have to let somebody go and then Im going to go for a walk before I go home. Thanks guys really... I love you.
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>>682828072
I have and there's nothing to be done.
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>>682828200
Checked and what country is it anon?
I'm not that poet but I'm curious.
But yeah, I guess that's why I can't get into a stable relationship pfff it's not the fact I'm in high school and high school relationships don't last a week
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>>682827943
yeah naw, not like that. i own it with 2 other people I always know whats up over there.
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>>682828363
I love you too anon.
Also old thread you might wanna see
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>>682828412
Then can you at least show them that it is a medical thing?

It's not your fault, so you shouldn't feel bad for it.
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>>682828541
thanks got to go check out a call then ima walk home. maybe stop off for a couple rounds before i turn in night bro
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Pizza is love
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>>682828571
At a work day spending 1 hour on toilet breaks whilst spending 8hrs a day working.. My boss doesn't give a shit if it's medical I'm not productive enough.

My partner knows about it but still is annoyed because when we go out and there is no restroom near or I take too long in a restroom she gets bored and always nags about it.

I dont have the heart to tell my mother I'll probably die before she does.

I spend most my time at the office because I cba to go home to a nagging wife and I can't stand looking my mother in the eye knowing she doesn't know what I know.
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>>682828766
Checked wow you are lucky OP getting a lot of dubs now.
See you
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>>682827883
You are totally wrong, love is about finding someone you feel secure with, I mean someone that make you feel confident. If you don't like yourself no one will.
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>>682813812
If it can help you guys feeling better, I'll show you a act of kindness by linking you the blog of this pic artist:
http://1041uuu.tumblr.com/

have faith bros, I can personaly assure you playing this game named Starbound on multiplayer will help you fight lonelyness.
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>>682828443
Estern europe, but it's not important. Well i done some reserch, it's just a saying here actually.
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>>682829006
Sorry I don't share your opinion
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>>682829095
Ah okay I see
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>>682828908
You should probably see someone about this. Shit's been hitting you hard.
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>>682828363
If you cose to leave, at least try to make this easier for your children. I was raised without a father and i know the pain.
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>>682829006
You cannot truly be in love with someone else until you learn to love yourself. Usually the other person makes it easier for you to love yourself if they truly love you. It goes both ways too.
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>>682829114
Still it's the truth. You hate yourself, nobody can love you.

I know that because whenever I'm depressed no girls seems to even look at me. Still I'm good looking.
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When Im sad, y eat pizza, but... not the normal way.
First, i put the pizza out of the package. Then, with a spoon, i take out all the cheese and ingredients. When is all out, i put more tomato in the pizza, and a lot of Emmental cheese.
It smell like shit in the oven, but tastes really good.
To eat the pizza, I take out he cheese again, and put it aside. I eat the mass and finally, put the cheese in a burrito.


Give it a try, it will make you happy.
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>>682829544
That's what I think too and have experienced so far
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>>682829372
Like who tho? I've been to all the doctors I could... All I can do is wait for a transplant but we all know that's never going to happen with these waiting lists. I'll be dead in 1-2 years. I've written my will already..
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>>682829557
Okay. I guess I gotta agree since girls don't talk to me when I'm feeling down.
>still I'm good looking
how much out of 10?
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>>682829730
I hope you'll be fine for a long time, awesome you !
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>>682829557
This. When I was going through the lowest of my depression it really weighed on my girlfriend. She tried to be there for me but eventually it got to be too much for her. I hated her after she left but eventually I understood why she did it. She was the kindest girl I've ever known too.
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>>682829730
Come live in Canada with me. Health care is free
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>>682829730
Fuck man I'm sorry.

You seem like a nice person, and I'm sad that this happened to you.

I still hope for that transplant tho.
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>>682829799
I think a solid 7 or 8 but well I'm skinny as fuck
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>>682829921
This thread makes me feel so many feels. I'm gonna cry
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>>682830019
Okay ^-^
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>>682829884
Thanks bro

>>682829977
It's free here too. Sadly kidneys are hard to get these days

>>682829988
Thanks
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>>682830163
Ah okay the Canadian fag here.
I really hope you get better.
Otherwise it'll be a terrible loss.
You know what your story kinda makes me think of? Alex by Mark Kalesniko. It's a comic please do read it OP.
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>>682830397
I've not heard of that but I'll look it up. I hope it's not too sad
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>>682829557
this
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>>682830066

it's okay to cry

for some reason it makes me feel all panicky and out of control though
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I'm feeling so lonely
I'm 20 y o and my ex-girlfriend left me like a month ago, I'm still feeling bad and feel like I won't be able to find another girlfriend for a while.
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>>682823314
let me guess you never fucked her.
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>>682830066
Her name was Dana. The only girl I've ever truly loved and that was over 5 years ago. I think about her everyday, even when I was in relationships after that. She married someone from Wales a year ago. My heart sank when I heard about it. The saying goes if you truly love someone you will do anything to make them happy. That's what I did. I stayed away even though all that I ever wanted was to be close to her. There are plenty of fish in the sea... yeah but there's only one like Dana.
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>>682813448
i just do other things and it takes my mind off of it
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>>682813448
You are not alone op
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>>682830551
It's not sad. It makes you think. A lot. All the comix by Mark Kalesniko make you think a lot
>>682830559
haha there's tears in my eyes right now. Not panicking tough.
>>682830713
That is the saying. I'm really sorry that it didn't work out anon. I wish I could help in a better way than writing this reply.
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>>682830713
This is what it is

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=76Mbnuwk2d4
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My partner left me for 'not showing enough emotion'. This after my partner got very aggresive with me but I gave it another chance. I learnt my lesson there.

My parents talk to me alot but I cant seem to connect with them. My brother moved out a moth ago and the house has never been this empty. I sleep with his stuffed animal sometimes and pretend he's still here.
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>>682830704
Grow up my friend, It's not all about fucking. I fuck a few girls after that but i never loved them. Keep this thread mannerly.
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>>682831313
How old is your brother?
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>>682814471
:(
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>>682831559
He's 24. I'm 21.
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>>682831313

what do you mean "very aggressive?"

i almost only talk to my parents these days
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>>682831676
He kicked and pushed me then threw me out to walk home. 25 kms
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>>682831646
And you sleep with his stuffed animal?
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>>682831862
I have a tattoo with his name as well. Whats your problem?
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>>682831775
Are you a grill or a guy? I don't mind but i'm just curious.
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>>682832042
Girl
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>>682831862
Anon is obv female.... Its a bit more normal in that light
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>>682831775

well you're better off without him

relationship violence is bad news
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>>682831862

GET OUT
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>>682831956
Idk man I guess to each their own when it comes to family.
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>>682832246
Nah man I just got comfortable
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>>682832106
Now that makes a little more sense
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>>682832162
I guess but I feel so lonely
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>>682813448
when are you NOT lonely? please, OP, give me a break.
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>>682832106
I once was aggressive with a girl but she was a total whore, and she actually liked it. But I felt bad after all that shit.
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>>682832612
You have the power to scroll on guy. Just ignore it if you don't like it.
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>>682832588

in my experience the loneliness tends to fade over time, you become stronger and more armored

of course that's just about the time when you think about trying again...and open up again...and get hurt again
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>>682832781
I just want someone to hold me and be nice to me not someone that hurts me
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Were any of you guys lonely when you were 14?
I am and nobody talks to me. I'm not a goth just somewhat look normal. But I still have no friends. I feel so alone that I come to /b/ everyday to feel at home
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>>682833006
I don't want to get hurt again but I don't want to be lonely either
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>>682833011
How would you rate yourself on a scale of 1-10?
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>>682833132
Like an 8
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this
>>682828541
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>>682833066
Kid, high school is a battleground of fear and loathing. You have to realize that you're not the only one going through it and at that age everybody feels insecure even if they don't show it.
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>>682814371
Hell yea this 1000% op. You don't need other people to not be bored, be happy with yourself before you even consider random other fuming people. Do what you want, have a great time doing it, and people will come to you because your so fucking awesome and their lives are boring toxic drama shit.
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>>682833406
Heh. Thanks anon. I kinda feel better now.
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>>682833212
Would you say that you have some guys in your friendzone?
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>>682833599
I have no friends..
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>>682833011
She also craved a nice guy, but it turned out weird
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Guys I gotta go meet my psychologist, not OP please don't let this thread 404
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>>682833510
Honestly don't be afraid of what you're going through don't be afraid to take chances. A lot of people regret not doing more when they were that age. Do what we all wish we could have done.
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>>682833715
Why not?
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>>682813448
Lost the girl I thought I was gonna marry this past Saturday. I feel the lonely /b/ro
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>>682814377
Fucking do it ya puss, Dont be afraid of people. Most of them are inferior anyways.
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>>682813448
If you faggots are lonely, go out. Simple as that. go out into a bar, nightclub start talking to random strangers. YOu'll prob. fail cuz you have social anxiety and no self esteem. But that comes after a while. Just do something. Without doing noone will ever do something for you. Doing iompresses people. Doing distracts you form your own personal problems. doing makes oyu happy(if you do things you like) just do things. Doing is happyness in nowadays society. And by doing i dont mean playing pc games. I mean doing a real hobby like cars repairing, building something. doings something real with your bare hands.
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>>682813812
What u on about fam?
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>>682833715
8/10 girl with no friends, what sorcery is that?
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>>682833984
Because I spend my days working 10hrs and after that play vidya whilst eating pizza and hating myself for not working out. How do I have time for friends
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>>682834078
I know that feel guy. You're not alone here.
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>>682834171

i'm the one who said>>682814471
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>>682834132
Go do sports, sports you like, not for the health benefit, also for fun.... like bicycling? why not go outside bicycling, instead of driving around in GTA V mountains?. Like swimming go swimming.... avoid Gyms, at least for me they are demotivational, no fun in there.
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>>682834230
How old are you?
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>>682834078

that is brutal. i guess try to take it easy with yourself, give yourself time.

tell us the tale?
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>>682834180
I wish I had guys friendzoned so I could at least ask them to come over and hold me while I cry and have sex afterwards but that's not an option for me. Fml
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>>682819415
Dude fuck beer, get yourself a flask and some good whiskey. Alcohol is like a magic socializing drug for me, but beer makes me lazy.
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>>682834515
I already said that. 21
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>>682834230
Get rid of videogames, throw away your comp, keep an ultrabook or something for important stuff. Instead of videogames try to discover stuff and sports you like. Start doing things. You have to decide completely. First the hard work then the fun. Preferably the hardwork should be fun.
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>>682834230
Oh yea you should use your free time to plan ahead what you want to do, what are you personal ideals? how do you want to change and influence the world? or do you want to help people? Do things you really like. Things that give yourself selfesteem. like charity for example.
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>>682834705
Nigger I work in IT. Why would I thow away my laptop.

I'm not fat so I dont have to work out.. I just dont feel healthy though
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>>682834652
Then make time to go out to the bars and chat with random people. People are always more open with a few drinks in them. Being an 8/10 that plays games and is down to earth is like a godsend to most guys. It won't be that hard to find someone and I'm honestly surprised you don't have anyone lined up.
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>>682834574
Don't use alcohol for socializing your health and psyche gonna make you regret it sooner or later. Im 23 and had a pancreatitis, no alcohol for the rest of my life. I ended up realizing im a socioal awkward guy when not drunk. YOu should get rid of alcohol, its heatlhy, keeps you smarter and alot of girls like it.
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>>682834574
I only drink beer and vodka. I can handle hard liquor m8, and I love vodka with all the living cell in my body.
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>>682835021
I'm an autism. No social skills. Kill me now
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>>682835154
That's the nice thing about being you. You don't need social skills. The guys will feel like they need to do most of the talking anyways just to seem like their interesting.
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>>682834936
Then eat healthy. Avoid sugar,alcohol, eat only vegetables.

And your IT job, well depends on if you like it or not, but you have computers around you all day and sit in front of TV and PC after work too. YOu need some balance. Don't work outor osmetihng, you need nature and sun in your face. WE are still human beeings, organisms,animals. we need the freedom of nature. go in the woods as often as possible. Enjoy the things around you.
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>>682835154
Where are you from?
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>>682835068
This. I've been drinking for 6 years straight now. I feel like shit now and unlike me five years ago I'm not witty or socially pleasing to be around. I thought it was the solution but it became the silent problem.
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>>682830163
Buy a kidney in china or india?
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>>682835308
Idk I'm scared of guys and mostly meet them online.

>>682835368
I do like the woods. It's almost summer as well. Might be nice to go for a walk.

>>682835419
England
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>>682825108

Here's me
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>>682835419
>>682835692
South west here, any where near me?
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>>682835068
I drink like once every two weeks, I find it really helps me unwind, especially if I'm feeling really up tight (that feeling like your mind is on rails)
>>682835124
For some reason vodka fucks with my stomach where gin and whiskey don't, but whatever works m8 just make sure you are getting lots of dat h20
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>>682835814
Nop
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>>682835692
I'm scared of women but I still go out to the bar because it makes me feel like I'm not alone. Even if I'm just a wallflower I feel better with the company.
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>>682835154
ok thats hard to live with :/ i know an autist aswell who already had a girlfriend though(dunno how strong yours is, but sometimes its even worse if you always think about it). I myself got laid already, but unfortunately never had a girlfriend(beeing 23 yo) why? cuz Trauma, Dominant Mother and shit) I am an emotional cripple that is really scared of girls, i often dissociate when talking to them. Im still fighting. Its a curse i want to fuck girls, and i want to love one and be loved by one. I realized though, by doing things for my own. i'll prob. achieve it faster than desperatly searching for one. Its like i can stare onto a mountain as often as i want which is fun for a while, but i want to climb it. And to climb it i need tools and muscles. so before i climb it i have to get those first.
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