So i found out my wife is a pedophile. I did have a suspicion but i needed to make sure. I placed a hidden camera in one of the rooms and captured my wife asking our little daughter to rub her 'there' and no it was not a quick innocent rub. it was long and sexual. so far i have not seen her get naked in a sexual way in front of her. But i'm sure thats not going to take long.
I knew something was up from the way she cuddled with my wife. she always hugged her thighs and my wife would try to ''casually'' push her away.
She works as a masseuse at home which means there are clients getting naked at home all the time although i have never seen our daughter in the same room while she works. Relief but still scary knowing the kind of person my wife is, things could escalate if she finds a suitable partner as she constantly meets new clients
What do i do please give me some serious advice.
>inb4 post the video
>inb4 post massage clients video
Pic related. a snap from one of the videos
Tell the police what you have seen. If you have seen this and haven't reported it, you are an accessory after the fact and could be charged and would, no doubt, lose your kids.
srsly, call the cops, backup all those videos to multiple drives, I MEAN IT, don't lose the footage. You will win custody and here's to hoping you had a prenup, if not you should still be able to keep all your assets and kids, no splitting down the middle, do not settle. Go se a divorce lawyer pronto, show them the video. only give them a copy not the original. Dump the bitch and move on
Turn her ass in or blackmail the shit out of her/confront her high road and low road it would be one thing if she was fapping furiously to it, but shes actively having funzie time with your daughter which means shits getting very serious.
this too, make sure the kid gets therapy, im assuming that things haven't escalated to where she's beyond help, a few sessions should figure out if there are any underlying psychological issues
also post s small clip with audio of her askign so we know you arent full of shit OP
you'd be surprised at what little people have to live for, and how defense people get about children, have you ever gotten mad? like really mad? i doubt it, human emotion is very unstable
OK OP ill bite on the off chance you are real.
As I see it you have 3 options:
1. Do nothing, maintain status quo and hope the problem takes care of its self.
2. Approach law enforcement with your evidence and get a divorce. Take your spawn with you.
3. Cave her head and hide the body, harder but the most direct solution.
I vote 3.
I agree with others about backing up the video and getting police involved.
if you confront her, you give her an opportunity to make up some bullshit story about how YOU'RE the abusive one and that you raped her or some bullshit.
Op, I have very little life or legal experience, but inthinknthe best thing to do is save the videos, confront your wife, and if things don't change, go to the police. Your daughter may be permanently screwed up if you do nothing, and I can't imagine it will do wonders for your conscience either
>inb4 white knight
I like cheese pizza as much as the next guy, but when it's live and there's something you can do to prevent it... I'm a /b/tard, not a monster
>here we go
>the truth hurts so bad
>here we go
The only possible thing to do is bring it up to her but act super turned on like it's really hot to you and find out how far she's willing to go. Record it all if you can and if she's a threat to your child report it to child services.
luck guy, techncailly mother on daughter is at the bottom level of "CP" ..father on daughter is at the top, father on son is 2nd, mother on son is 3rd, mother on daughter is 4th....so its OK..at the very best , ur daughter will learn about sex at a much younger age and will become a rug muncher so you don't need to collect money for her marriage..
Why in the fuck are you complaining! Get in on that tickle time!
I didnt know where else to go. i wanted anonymity, quick solutions without getting censored.
ive decided to go in the direction of psychiatric help and not the police for now. sorry posting audio would take a while and not in the mood for that
thanks for all the advices. sorry for not replying to you all who helped. im just loosing my mind and taking the fact in that this going to break up my family ..
all these faggots in this thread,
anal fuck daughter, anal fuck wife and be happy. are you a fucking homosexual OP? i mean really. nice bait thread too.
as for all you faggots. summer is not here yet. go kill yourselves. baby pussy is fucking delicious.
>ive decided to go in the direction of psychiatric help and not the police
hahah thought so, faggot.
enjoy your wife damaging your kid and then probably turning the whole thing around so youre da bad guy
stop being such a fucking fagggot. fucking faggot ass OP. ask wife to join and stop being a little faggoty fuck. you fruitcake, queer. faggot.
WHO PUTS A FUCKING VIDEO CAM TO SPY ON YOUR FAMILY?
You are one pathetic sad fuck. I hope you lose whatever shit family you have. Instead of enjoying them you are going to the faggot pigs to destroy your family? Good job being a super fucking faggot dumbass. I hope yo lose them if you're serious for being a stingy little fagot.
"OH NO WIFE IS DESTROY FAMILY SO IM GOING TO CALL COPS SO THEY CAN COME CALL CHILD SERVICES AND DESTROY THE FAMILY"
You fucking retarded faggot.
Guys help I'm married and have a daughter and when my husband isn't around I get my daughter to feel me up I've even gotten her to finger me and eat my pussy it feels so good but I'm scared I think he may know what's going on what shall I do
Maybe if you "rubbed your wife there" properly, she wouldn't need to use your kid.
How does it feel to know your 4yr old daughter gets your wife off better than you do?
I think the only solution is to kill yourself OP and let your wife find a real man to fuck her and your daughter.
Oh noes! Here's what you do. You get a
You get a video
You get a video camera, and you let it watch you as you do motherly non-pedoey things.
Then when he asks, you just, you just show him the video as proof that you didn't do nuffin.
If you had any concern for your child's well being you would get her out of that house and away from her mother. I can assure you that your wife had been sexually abused as well if she is promoting this type of behavior. Go to the Police.
He'll have video proof you dumbass
OP assuming you're still here. Have a trusted family member watch your kid(s?) when you go to bring this up to your wife. Have multiple copies of the video just in case and have some be inaccessible to her. Bring it up to her, and assuming you still love her since your going the route of therapy, try to be as supportive as possible and let her know you want to get her help before it progresses and that you don't want her hurting you kid or destroying your family. I'm not an expert but usually pedophiles are former victims of other pedophiles so there very well could be some underlying mental trauma your wife went through in the past. If she refuses or tries to turn it on you, then you get law enforcement involved and present any evidence to them.
I think he's on to me I'm just gonna ask for a 3some he can eat out our daughter while she eats me out I don't know if he's ready for that but my daughter has said she wants daddy also brb I'll see if he's ready
Im worried she'll bring out her positive energy/body energy/ and get herself out of this since she actually havent yet gotten naked sexually in front of her. If this happens then i definitely will loose the case. She'll get custody too.
Should i wait for more evidence?
if ur mad u hav no concept of will, and couldnt' harm anyone anyways, because youd be fuckin around. evven if you KILLED someone, you couldn't even have done anything but sent another poor soul to death. think about it. you're no better than a retarded kid playing with blocks, or fighting with some blocks for some indissert reason. why don't you just accept your mother lesbian relationship, and leave, to make sure youre not some uptight nerd that has no basis for even opinion at all. obviously th daughter would be cool that he[s devern be without some brainwashed pappy ruining her fun. have u ever herd the term "eat me"? wdell, it's morfe likely shell kill you, fot being such a buzzkill and a faggot. that's how nazi cultures start. you wouldnt want to be a nazi would you? even your personal gravity controlled by the white, acting like a flat who wouldn't get beyond what was appropriated by his locality. i think you guys should all go to hell
OP censor the face and post what you have, or at least the fucking audio so we can tell whether you have enough or not. OR fucking type out what you hear her say and exactly what you see.
the longer you wait, the more damage is done. The longer you wait, the more damage you can do to her to insure she's gone for good when you divorce her.
But knowing you and your fear of 'breaking up the family' you'll take her back anyways, after she'd fucked men and their children, and she will run all over you.
Listen here, nigger. You didn't break up the family. She did. It;s her fault.
Are you retarded? Do you have a video with audio of you wife asking your 4 year old daughter to rub her genitals? If you do, then there is no way she can use hippy bullshit to somehow win a court case and take custody of your child. Fucking retard.
squemish emoes can't foster a healthy mother daufhter lesbianism without having a cry fest and rsorting to some indoctrination from like 1960 that theyre only aware of though like some trace feels humor. these people need to be exterminated
Well OP, there's two major routes you can take, depending on how strong you are, and what kind of risks you're willing to take.
First one may require a friend for later, but basically
1)Put a copy of the videos and pictures on a flash drive in a safety deposit box, and an extra with a friend or relative, and possibly one with a lawyer.
2) Drop your daughter off at school or whatever, just don't let her witness this.
2) Confront your wife, and I'm not trolling when I say you have to punch her in the face. Literally beat her, maybe break a wrist with a steel bat, the point is you have to give her a BIG negative stimulus, and make her scared. In the future, she has to be able to clearly remember this trauma when she's tempted to relapse.
3) Tell her you have video evidence, and if it ever happens again, if you don't kill her then you will be certain she spends the rest of her life in a cell.
4) the reason you need a friend or family member for this plan is that from now on, your wife can not be left alone with your daughter, not until shes 16 or so. Get a neighbor to come over during the day, tell your boss the situation and see if she can come with you to work, whatever you have to do.
this first method is risky because your wife may eventually molest your daughter or someone else's, and she will almost certainly cheat on you. you need to know if you can live with yourself, if your daughter having a mother is worth that risk
the second option is simply go directly to the police, get things taken care of NOW. Sympathy or "help" for your wife is not an option. She had her daughter's love, and she took advantage of that. she will take advantage of peoples kindness or anything less than hard authority and consequences.
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Get a divorce, moron.
You obviously got a fucked up wife.
Take the daughter and ask for full custody. If she takes you to court. Show them that video.
You'll get 100% custody and will never have to see your wife again.
Rofl at "masseuse at home".
Homey, are you really that oblivious. Nigga, that means she's a prostitute. Maybe not giving up the cooch but certainly giving hj's and likely bj's too if they tip well.
Lemme guess, she operates on Craigslist as well....
It sounds very very difficult to keep the mother away from the kid for...what, 13 years?
She'll have to be alone with her many times. And if you involve a friend, the friend could turn.
And the mom will sabotage like HELL some how. Whether that means getting rid of daddy, or orchestrating events to be alone, or simply brainwashing the kid in the random small moments that she will undoubtedly get with her victim.
I agree with your second choice. It's what OP needs to do. This family is broken already. It cannot be salvaged.
So guys, here's a thought we haven't considered. We could take this to the police ourselves. This is the same /b/ that is always pulling off crazy detective work and brutal vigilante justice. I don't know how to do it myself, but I bet one of you fags do
What the fuck Is happening to my /b/ros...
Police? really? turns out /b/ is full of white knights and fags.
The lucky bastard just won the lottery, fuck your daughter senseless like a real b/tard
I think the safest route is to hire a lawyer and get their councelling first. As soon as possible, since like many people have commented, longer this goes on, your daughters psychological damage will keep on getting worse. Show the lawyer the tape and follow their instructions, which most likely are calling the cops.
I don't think confronting her and going the psychiatrist way will help. In neutral case she still might continue her ways and you already can't trust her so the relationship is pretty much ruined, and in worst case she will try to turn everything against you to make you lose everything.
Don't hurt her, don't make threats, contact a lawyer and work from there. You need to get your kid out and that woman out of your life.
>healthy mother daughter lesbianism
just need an approximate location.
Then you can search local masseuses, find pics and see if you can find hippy chick with a stupid belly tattoo, probably on facebook. Somebody like that probably has twitter, facebook, blogspot, instagram, websites, etc.
Be a dad before a husband.
She's already fucked your kid up.
Do you really think your daughter will forgive her? And what if she just gets sneakier about it?
Just go to the cops and stop thinking about how your need for a wife out weighs your kids innocence.
OP needs to break this cycle of sexual abuse in the wife's lineage. It's obvious she's had this done to her. And perhaps she's done this to other children OP isn't aware of. HOW MANY MORE CHILDREN NEED TO SUFFER BECAUSE YOU CAN'T BE A MAN OP?
Like I said, it's a very risky strategy, and requires constant diligence. It's all about how much this guy thinks his daughter needs a mother.
Closing statements OP: either way, you have to start acting like your daughters only parent now. whether or not she should be put in therapy is dependent on her mental condition, i leave that up to you./ but by far the most important thing is to not let this consume her life. You need to have a long talk with her, after you've confronted your wife and gotten her taken away/whatever, explain to your daughter that grownups make mistakes. sometimes grownups do bad things. Just like how she shouldn't do things with her private parts or with other people, and especially not touch them or let strangers touch her, mommy was doing a bad thing by doing that. make sure she knows its not her fault and she's not in trouble because she didn't know it was bad. be ready for her to cry and take her for ice cream.
the long game is that you have to spend time with her, get her started on some fun hobbies. I recommend stuff thats constructive or might give the two of you time to talk if she wants to talk. things like model building, kite flying, papercraft models, reading books to her (little house, Tolkien, harry potter) are good for this. videogames, movies, active sports, maybe a pet of some kind for when you want to not talk. but putting her in therapy every day for the rest of her life is going to make it the only thing about her that she knows. you need to give her other things in her life to from a personality around.
its not the end of the world man. I'm sorry to hear this, but you'll do okay. god bless.