HONEST OPINIONS PLS
Pretend you're in college. How would you react if a girl you liked got drunk and slept with you.....
then a few hours later slept with your roommate?
I'm the girl, I was a virgin before it happened and I was black out drunk. I think the first guy hates me now, does he think I'm a huge slut? We weren't exclusive at all and he even had a three way with two of my close friends the week before, but he got SO MAD and told every guy at the school I'm a huge hoe. (Even though he was my first for everything)
I'd be fucking annoyed due to the fact that it's implicative I wasn't good enough. Like when I fuck a chick, I want her to need a night of sleep and still have shaky legs in the morning, not get out of my bed and go fuck someone in the next room
He claims to be drunks and "it was their idea" for the three way
I don't think he expected a relationship cause I asked him where we were heading whenever we made out and he just said he "wanted to have fun"
but he acted so jealous when I slept with his roomie (who is also his best friend) and when he saw us kissing he banged his fist in the wall and started yelling about him kissing "his girl"
thing is, I find both of them sexy but I like the first guy better because I obviously knew him better
assuming bait, nobody would ask a bunch of angry virgin guys this question and expect a legitimate answer
>ITT: OP is trolling for supportive reply to OP so he can join in the "feminist bashing"
his problem is that he should have stopped being emotionally invested in you the moment you got blackout drunk and fucked two dudes in one night
so not only are you a slut, but you lost your virginity to an emotionally dependent little bitch
I've lost weight since this pic tho
tell that story to your dad and see how much of a little princess he still think you are
don't fool yourself into thinking you aren't a whore, you fucked a dude and went for seconds with his roomate without even cleaning the cum from the first (most likely)
virginity or not, that's whore behaviour 101 and you passed with flying colors. congratulations slut, enjoy college
alcohol + sex = bad idea
it can ruin your life if you have bad luck. i wish you the best, i really do
don't ever do that shit again,, you shouldn't have given away your V card just because of reasons. you have to make it special or at least, fan-fucking-tastic, and if your are drunki, you wont feel shit about it, you'll just be horny
>I'm the girl, I was a virgin before it happened and I was black out drunk. I think the first guy hates me now, does he think I'm a huge slut? We weren't exclusive at all and he even had a three way with two of my close friends the week before, but he got SO MAD and told every guy at the school I'm a huge hoe. (Even though he was my first for everything)
you need to straighten out your shit
Probably this. You hurt his ego. Only thing to do is tell everyone you fucked the other guy because first guy was hardly noticeable or some shit. Turn the tables on the faggot.
You fucked up anon. Best thing you can do is completely ignore him for being a little whiny faggot or go back to him apologies and tell him the truth. Either way that guy sounds like he'll turn you into the girl in the op pic.
I don't have a dad
both of them had HUGE dicks. when I had sex with the second guy I also screamed so loud the whole boys floor woke up and gathered in the hallway banging on the door
doubt it, this is probably made up
if this was a revenge sort of deal he would be posting photos of the actual girl from her fb and shit, instead he's using random images from the internet
how the hell do people "smart" enough to get into college get themselves into such stupid ass situations as this?
I legitimately BARELY remember it, just flashes and pieces. I get blackout drunk super easily, every time Idrink.
I think I lose better, pic me 15 lbs lighter
Looks like you're asking the wrong question. Why should it matter how I would feel if I were in this situation. Who cares. It's you and your friends that are in this situation. You should talk to them (him) about it.
But if you really want my opinion. Good for you. Fuck who you want when you want.
A quick tip from my experience. Talk. Talk about what you expect from each other. Make sure before you have sex that everyone involved knows if it's a one time thing, beginning of a relationship or something in between.
By the sound of it, you two did talk and you made no commitment to him. He even suggested you two were just "having fun".
I would give anything to be in a free spirited environment like you seem to be a part of.
NOT SAME GIRL
LOOK AT NIPPLE COLORS
Fair point, I'm a heavy weight to the point I need to drink 500mL of 30% liquor to get drunk. Still, I've gotten drunker than some women which you can gauge by whether they/you vomit or not.
>remembering shit I read from books and then applying it to real life
>plus a less than 100% success rate
doesn't take brains at all. if anything they're just as "smart" as car mechanics
it LITERALLY happened omfg
It's definitely the same person, just a year apart and weight fluctations later
Have you even been blackout drunk??? I've made out and asked to have sex with some NASTY guys I would never talk to. Last week I went to the hospital cause I drank too much partying... I need to stop, I cannot ever stop at one shot, I begin to chug
The last text he sent me was "lmao your just a slut never talk to me again" :'( I really liked him he was my first. Honestly I just want to win him back.
He knew cause I was super loud when I fucked his friend/roomie. THen he saw me naked in his bed the next morning (he high-fived him, even though the night before he was pissed)
Sounds like shit I did in my frat days.
Whatever. I never judged the girls who did that kind of shit, I just would never date them. It's college get over it. He's probably just but hurt because he actually liked you.
THE NIP COLORS DON'T EVEN MATCH
TIMESTAMP, IT'S EASY FAGGOT
> he expected a relationship cause I asked him where we were heading whenever we made out and he just said he "wanted to have fun"
typical guy move. don't take it personally.
are you latina or asian. super hot either way.
seriously, don't worry about it.
>The last text he sent me was "lmao your just a slut never talk to me again" :'( I really liked him he was my first. Honestly I just want to win him back.
>just want to win him back
yeah, you don't want to do that. sorry. fwiw no one stays with the guy they lose their virginity to for very long.
Girls need to learn one thing about guys. Tell us what you want, how you feel, and anything else that concerns us. We don't read minds and we don't communicate through the ridiculous bullshit doublespeak women do.
>does he think I'm a huge slut?
depends on how much of a bitch he is. if he understands that nothing is set in stone until there is a commitment, maybe you'll be okay.
either way, chances are pretty good he doesn't see you as relationship material - just slutty fuckmeat that'll throw itself at anything.
He's got every right to be mad at you
You're a whore, plain and simple.
Why dont you focus on your education instead of getting black out drunk and being a stereotypical college slut?
In before single mom within 2 years!
Time stamp faggot.
I'd be extremely heartbroken and feel really betrayed. But then very much later on, like a few months later, I'd realize maybe it's okay because at least I learned from that and really dodged a bullet there and learned that she isn't a person worth having feelings for.
lately I've been feeling really slutty but idk it just turns me on, but I hate losing him and feeling disrespectedd
Be slutty, or be respected. Choose one.
It's college. Have fun fucking people and getting schwasted. Then graduate and become a functional adult capable of having monogamous relationships. Or don't. I don't care. Nice tits btw
acceptable response, keep showing tits
You're in college. this is the one time of your life you can slut about and have it be kind-of acceptable, and you can always call it your 'wild college years' later in life.
That said, that guy is clearly not the kind who'll put up with you fucking other guys and him at teh same time.
Your choices are:
1) stop slutting around and be with him. He's a bit hurt but if he liked you before you could convince him, it'll take a few weeks
2) keep slutting around some more and dont be with him.
Take your pick.
yeah I'm just saying she shouldn't chase after this dude just b/c he took her vcard.
anyway OP is smoking hot, but I'm too tired to lurk this thread waiting for more.
I'm glad op is slutting around a bit, just wish she would lose the "need to get guy back" shit...
good advice here. anyway, I'm, out
I think I've been taken advantage of drunk. I know I ask them for sex but I can barely even slur the words out and they have to carry me back to my room to have sex, plus all my friends warn them (the guys that have slept with me when I'm drunk) that I'm too far gone.. yet they do it anyway. Idk.
I wanted him to want more, but it was too late. I wouldn't have slept with his best friend/teammate/roommate if he had been clear from the start he liked me!
I'm already a destructive person, drinking makes my urges just more apparent
I wish he showed it cause I liked him:(
LOL my NIPPLES CHANGE COLOR!!
BUT I WANT TO MEET MY FUTURE HUSBAND IN COLLEGE :'((((
He doesn't need to think that, you are already a huge slut to have done such a thing.
If you kill someone, there's no need for some nobody to think you are a killer, you already are a killer by your acts. Thus, act like a slut, become a slut. Done.
You disgusting piece of shit.
Stay slutty if it makes you enjoy it. I'd even guess you'd enjoy it more if you were not blackout drunk.
You both seem a bit emotionally immature and lacking of experience in the human relationship department. You two are just not going to happen and if you force it, it won't be enjoyable.
You can't control how he feels about you and after this he's not going to want to fix anything. Take responsibility for your own actions and accept who you are. Keep in mind that being slutty is probably not a good way to find boyfriend material.
I just really like him.. I crave sex too much and now I have noooo one
lol if u rly liked him u wouldn't have fucked his mate whether he was showing interest or not. u fucked up op. Either change ur slut ways and try to show him ur in it for real or just keep doin wat ur doin and let him go
persian.. typical oppressive family?
cmon you are a hot girl, you can get sex any night you fucking want.
you are clearly here being an attention whore. thats ok I guess, but you don't need to be.
fwiw I'd pound your pussy endlessly
quit drinking before you get to have your first abortion.you'll also get herpes slagging around like that.
it's common sense. there are plenty of other substances that are more worthwhile than alcohol yet people still use it. why? for dumbass reasons like being social or trying to be socially accepted. even if they know no good comes out of being shitfaced, they still do it, thus being stupid.
sure i was generalizing/exaggerating pretty hard there, but still, people who choose to drink are not using their head
I have a fused labia and hey my dad is muslim from Iran so maybe
Well I gained 20 pounds the past 3 weeks cause my gag reflex stopped working and I lost my adderall plug :(
old pic btw
Wasted virginity lol
It has no fucking value you dumb shit
If she would want any kind of longer term relationship with me afterwards, she would need a DAMN good apology. And even then I doubt it, since how can you trust a girl who casualy has sex with your friend/roommate ever again fully??
But then again, I would not fuck friends of girl I want to be serious with either.
So best thing in this situation is to forget it, and let it stay as a one night thing and move on. Maybe after time passes, you might become fuck buddies. But serious relationship ?? Not likely.
If you don't want to feel like a slut who lost respect don't be a slut whose not worthy of respect. Stupid cunt.
like being fucked up without being a dipshit?
>pretty much legal
like being buzzed with a mood lift?
both have no overwhelming aftereffects
well that is something interesting, but yea, men are frail when it comes to sex, less you planned on just being his object, you probably shouldn't have expected to be his first and his roommates second. Probably a communications major or something
I just ate an entire bag of frozen meatballs, a box of cake mix powder, a chicken ceasar salad, three apples, four bowls of cheeriors, and a banana
I get urges to binge eat everyday, but when I can't purge or fast I gain weight
MY LIFE IS OIUT OF CONTROL IDK
I want to be prescribed vyvanse for binge eating but I also have a history of anorexia so idk if my psych would gimme them
fucking lucky ass. I live with my dad (i'm 18) and he said if I get prescribed for any meds he'll kick me out, but i have serious problems, I have really bad anxiety, depression, suicidal thoughts, and adhd.
>slutting around hard
>binge eating and purging
this all seems fine and I'm sure you're not just weeks away from dropping out of college and being put in a rehabilitation centre for a while
I enjoy my beers when I have my meals
Don't get me wrong
I love my weed but mainly use it to medicate instead of stimulants
Due to said stimulants I have a terribly high tolerance and can't use recreational easily
I'm an all or nothing person, plus impulsive. I can't do moderation at all.
But I can do self control when it works, like last month I did a 12 day water fast, it was amazing
Fuck it, enjoy your sexuallity, if you're ment to be a slut then be so. He's a piece of shit for doing what he did, you are just a slut. Btw did you consent o have sex? Did you enjoy it?
No, I am not at all a pear shape. My hips were 30 inches around at my lightest (85 lbs)
I didn't go to any of my finals because I felt too fat and embarrassed by my weight gain. I think I just failed all my second semester classes. I've already spent almost a year in treatment/psych hospitals but it's getting bad again Imight go back
idk if I liked it but I remember moaning
Stupid bitch. Gain some fucking weight. Worried about not being skinny? I hate bitches who purposely keep themselves skinny because they're fucked up in the head. No guy wants a disgustingly skinny bitch. Just an hero already...
sounds like you're about to drop out, yeah.
with your variety of fucked-up college might not be the most healthy place for you. you'll probably engage in some self destructive behaviour regardless but college lays it all out on a platter for you.
That said, post more nudes of you right now. I like an exposed girl who is uncomfortable with her body.
fuck him! i say have as much fun as you want to. get experience! enjoy life!
and fuck all of the hypocrite faggots here who think guys who do it are heroes but girls are sluts.
>was in a relationship
>was in a
Past singular, ayy lmao. You'll get tired of the shit relationships bring after a while and just need some pussy. I felt the same way when I was in high school too :^)
So far what ive taken from this thread is op is a pretty shitty person with little self control and probably body issues who likes to put herself in bad situations. I also dont believe you were a virgin when that happened. He clearly liked you before that otherwise he wouldnt have gotten jealous, but guys can get over things outwardly pretty quickly.
The guy sounds like just as much a shit dumbass as op with all the "slut shaming" garbage and probably doesn't deserve a good relationship until growing up a bit more. The only ones who give a shit about sleeping around are people in relationships, religious nuts, spurrned lovers or people who just can-t get any.
You both probably deserve each other for being dumbasses but if you wont control yourself even a little it would never work out
If you can't stop from constantly craving sex from random people and banging everyone. then you can't have a relationship. Just fuck everyone you want until you get out of university then if you still cant stop hoping on every dick then continue all the one night stands until you get an STD or pregnant. Then die alone.
Here are the facts:
A: You're a whore for sleeping with both of them.
B: You're a whore for posting yourself on here.
C: Your friend is a whore for sleeping with those girls.
You're both whores, but you did two whorish things, so you outwhore him, and therefore you're the whorest whore of the two of you.
If you want him, then keep fucking him. Keep fucking him until you're swimming in his veins, and you're all he thinks about when he pleasures himself, because he is so used to your body.
Keep fucking him as the other women come and go. You're in it for the long haul, they're just passing through.
Lol! Medfag here. Here's some simple solutions to some of your issues.
1. Stop being fucking retarded.
2. If you're worried about gaining weight, I dunno, maybe you could get off your lazy ass and go take your final examinations? Do well on them? Be proud of yourself for accomplishing something? Exercise? Be healthy?
3. Quit goddamn whining about how other people cause you to do shit. You're in college, you're an adult (should be at least), you're responsible for your own actions and you're own consequences.
4. Stop being so desperate for attention. I'm sure you're incredibly annoying in person.
5. Make something decent of yourself, find a productive or generally fun hobby.
6. Learn about other people and cultures instead of solely sticking your nose up anyone's ass who may relate to your clique.
> And last but not least.
7. Fuck off dumb bitch. Idiots like you make whatever college you attend look like shit.
People are so goddamn whiny today over every little personal problem. Do what you have to, deal with it, learn a lesson, and move the fuck on.
I seriously don't know why you complain about your body, I find it attractive as fuck, and i mean a little more weigh can't hurt you, I say you live your life OP, after collage you can erase and start again, with me if possible =D
well... your mistake was being a ho, his mistake was being loud about it. Just be mean and tell everyone he doesn't know the meaning of a one night stand. Youll still be a hoe, but he wont be such a knight in shining armor.
Coming from pic related
If you were a girl I was interested in, and you slept with me and I took your virginity, then you slept with my roomate..I would never talk to you again, and if my roomate ever spoke to you i'd kill him. You are a slut, being drunk is no excuse. It just takes the filter off so you can do and say things you would already want to do. You are a whore, and that's what they think of you.
Drinking and fucking is already leaning into hoe territory its why guys like getting girls drunk, drinking and fucking two in the same hour without them clapping hands at there climax is very hoe territory. Just learn from the experience when your drunk you dont remember shit and anything can and will be used against you but maybe you like it that way hoe, now stop attention whoring.
I'm sorry to hear that anon.
Don't get attached though, I understand how attached you can get to your first but life moves on. I was my gfs first and she puts up with way too much shit. She's in too deep. Stop looking for love and let things happen for you, live your life. As soon as you have everything built and planned out, crash! Some mother fucker will fuck it up and that's when you find your true love. Never let them go after that.
well OP since something like this happened to me I'll give you my pespective
The fact that he 'liked' you isnt going to help you much. Since we tend to have a higher expectation for people we are interested in. If you were just some random chick I woudnt mind at all. However if you are going to fuck my best friend right after you had sex with me you are out and fuck you. I mean be honest would you want to date someone who fucks your best friend? He probably hates you right now so just accept it and move on no biggie. Just dont press the issue I have no idea why you girls have this tendency to get in our good graces once you fuck up royaly. Its over get over it.
>at my lightest (85 lbs)
No one likes skeletons
Guys like women who look and feel like women.
Eat some warm and healthy food and stop obsessing about yourself.
Make yourself busy enough to not dwell on weight garbage, which is always just in-your-head shit.
Don't listen to these jerks OP, that's what collage is for, you be happy. And fuck that guy you deserve beer. Did ya'll try anal when you were drunk? Also pic of sharpie in pooper pretty please!
>no guy wants to date a slut
>the difference between you and him is that he had to earn that threesome
what the fuck are you talking about?
if you're not higher than a motherfucker, you must be about 15-years-old, 'cause that's some stupid shit lol
All girls are sluts. And yes the guy is mad at you. And he has good reason.
You deserve what ever is coming your way.