At what age is being a virgin no longer acceptable /b/? Beta fag here planning to live the bachelor life.
Objectively speaking there is none such age where being a virgin should be seen as unacceptable, you'd be governed by your own primal fulfillments of pleasure and it's a blah blah something something sex is a common thing etc.
There is none, you can go an entire life time being a virgin, why should anything be made of it?
There are literally more things than there are the event of putting a penis in a vagina or x, y and z.
At a certain point, sex is just sex -- it's main purpose is to procreate and all the other reasons are our subjective projections.
For a male in the West, 16-18.
For a female, no set age.
Ironically, it's nearly impossible for the average male to lose his virginity at 16. While the average female can lose her virginity literally anytime, anywhere in the world.
Anything past 16 is really sad. Past 18 you should kill yourself. And I refuse to acknowledge that virgins past 25 actually exist because I can't imagine how they wouldn't have either hired a hooker or killed themselves.
25 virgin here. Suppress my sexual frustration by drawing furry wives. That is all
I didn't lose my virginty to an escort, but I fuck a lot of escorts because I'm terrible with girls, how do people 23+ still remain virgins when $150 can get an hour with a sexy girl with big ass and tittys and big lips (both lips) it just doesn't make sense.
Pic related an escort I fucked a month back.
That stingy-Ray operations though.
Also I live in Chi-raq so I don't wanna get fucked up by rouge pimps.
Nah but here's a milf escort I fucked months back. First escort I ever went too.
That is pretty much what I plan to run with. I do not have much to give so I am also trying to be as open to anyone as possible. I hate rejection. I was stood up by my first date last year so I have a bad feeling when meeting women. I should of hung out with my cousins when I was 18 when I had the chance.
At least you had a date lined up, more than I can say for myself.
Rejection sucks but it's obvious that girls will never come to us, we'll have to approach them or be alone forever.
Good luck with the portraits.
I think being a virgin at 18 is a LOT more common than people think. I'm 18 myself and even some of my good looking friends are still virgins. Now, I'd say that not having kissed a girl by 18 is a bigger deal. I'd virgin at 21-23 is when you're really fucked.
It's acceptable when you eventually kill the idea needing to do something because culture expects you to.
As long as you hold onto this need to get laid you will be a pathetic failure. Start ruling for yourself and it won't matter to you at all.
As long as you pay them the pimp won't have any reason to fuck you up. Besides, even if you fuck a willing, unpaid woman (you pay for all sex regardless) there's a chance they'll change their mind and cry rape. It'd be better to take a charge for buying a hooker than for raping some broad. Do you live your whole life not taking chances?
You're in the third biggest city in the U.S., your dating/fuck pool is huge on OKC/Tinder. Keep trying and you'll eventually find someone.
Source: moved from 300k pop. city to NYC, lost my virginity three weeks after moving there
>mfw I see all these fags not losing their virginity yet
>mfw lost my virginity at 15
Also. Spidey Thread. Because why not
This came for me in the mail it works great. I don't care if i die a virgin i got my faggy furry porn and this wonderful device
I don't know how it came to this though.
I look around at work and everyone else is in a relationship, go to the grocery store and see couples.
Finding someone seems so easy for everybody else.
That is my problem exactly, never took chances and still here at square one. Everyone else in my family did everything and the kitchen sink and I thought their lives would be permanently fucked.... Nope.
I was the good kid. Now I have a lot of regret.
You must be doing something wrong, fam. How are your standards? I lost my virginity to like a 4/10 but hey that's something.
Have you at least gotten messaged back? Have you tried OKC? I meet a lot more people there than on Tinder
shouldn't be fucking these subhuman pieces of trash. do not reproduce here, and do not work for the system. the fact that sexuality is even remotely enjoyable is an artifact of a ghosting and failing mind control system reverberating from the local past. you are pestulant. Pollution is all you will ever amount to, so just sit back and consider your disease while you refrain from your TREASONOUS behaviors. Fuck you, pig.
Then fix that. Get yourself a hooker. Then you'll know how to get with girls in normal situations. I lost my v-card to a whore and then it was way easier to initiate it with other girls. Some virgins try to make themselves feel better by saying it's not a big deal, but you really do change after your first time scoring. Your self esteem will sky rocket, it's amazing.
I'd say no older than 24.
I had a buddy back in college who lost his virginoty when he came back from a co-op (he was 24 when he graduated his undergrad ) , and him and his ex gf had broken up, and he enjoyed premarital sex with many a woman that final year of college.
I had some Bad Dragon toys, flashlights, ect. I threw it all out when I found out relatives were searching my room. Now I have the money again and things have calmed I can't justify getting it again since I am really worried about my social life, especially ever getting a gf. I really planned on getting some, even bought a chest with a locking hasp. Oh well. Good luck. It is best to be happy anyways if you are truly happy.
I have pretty low standards. I've never gotten a message back.
Don't you have to sign up for an account on OKC? That's a bit embarrassing for some reason. Doesn't it also cost money?
I mean... I could have dated a bunch of times, had like 5 girls approach me during highschool and ask me to go out. Kept saying no because they were straight 3/10 or lower.
All the girls I was interested in were either dating or refused me.
Now I'm almost 25 and don't know why it came to this.
>Got out of over a year long relationship last summer with a "Grey Asexual"
>spoiler alert that's the most bullshit kind
>Get new girlfriend a few months ago
>Get text last week
>"I think I'm asexual"
I'm going to kill myself.
It's not to late to be the bad kid, you were already the good kid now go find your self a bad bitch of backpage and smoked blunt after as a job well done, I do that all the time after I leave from fucking one, best feeling ever.
It's cool. I was 20 when i lost my virginity cus I just never really went after a girl cus it wasn't a big deal to me. Then I fucked a friend of a friend and it was meh. You just have to put yourself out there more and stop being so autistic.
Will consider one by 27(currently 25). I want to test myself first to truly know if I can get by myself.
BTW I literally have a v-card... Enjoy.
Do you have any friends?
I think that is my problem now at 25. I'm mot meeting anyone by just going to work 5 days a week.
Everybody I ask says they meet their gf through "mutual friends".
Life is miserable with or without sex
For instance, i lost my v card at 18, i'm currently 21, have a gf, have sex every week, and still i feel depressed and suicidal
However, i admit that it would be worse if i was still a virgin
if you havnt had sex by the time youre 21, you should see a psychologist because clearly your socializing skills are broken. you shouldve ACCIDENTALLY slipped and fell into a pussy hole by then.
pretty much just dont be fat and have some hygene. dont wear my little pony shirts either
I actually have a hard time looking at real porn vs the furry/hentai because at the back of my head I feel bad because they are "real". They have actual lives which might be fucked up, taking dicks everyday and pretending to enjoy it but you coudn't tell from the pic. Drawings are just shared ideas. I find myself enjoying drawings more because it releases those bad thoughts.
I dunno, that is what I think if that makes sense.
OKC and Tinder are fucking trash. its even worse when youre in main cities because the amount of girls just looking for self gratification drastically increases. i myself get laid regularly, but i have never once scored on either of those trash apps. all the hot girls are being spammed to death and never reply. its just ugly fat bitches aggressively chasing cock. fuck no. would never lower my standards to that point when i can pick up decent 7/8s in clubs or bars.
what we need is a grinder for straight people. ban the ip/phones of anyone that doesnt put out and ban the dudes that spam the same msg to every girl on the site
girl i lost it to at 18. I dont think that age is too bad. I dont see why people would pay for sex when you can get it for free.
>22 goig on 23
>Only reached 3rd base
>Relationship of 7 years has gone to shit
>Ex moved on so quickly it has driven me to suicidal depression
>Only autistical trivial shit is the reason I havent killed myself yet
if you're choosing to be one, like those religions nuts. then there isn't one.
however if you're just being autistic, I'd say 20-25
by that point you should at least be able to buy one
Yep. My social skills are fucked. I used to have "friends" but they just wanted to be around for the free shit and money.
I grew an extreme bitterness for people that left me alone at 25. Now I get sad when I walk into the art store and girls clenching against their boyfriends and I stand their in plain clothing and a hoodie. Bought $50 worth of spraypaint and hit up a canvas later that night.... I was also off my meds so I really wasn't in my right mind. Therapy has not done shit these past ten years but made me more aware of my own faults.
i have had sex with an estimated 25 or so girls. i'm 28, and from age 17-25 i was with one girl. the past three years have been awesome.
I Am psycho-paranoia-phrenic. Doc just doubled upped my crazy pill dosage.
Other than that, I really need to get into some social groups. Might go to a furry convention on the north side this summer. I really want to do meetup.com but the shit here is boring.
Now I may be mentally ill, but those are danger grounds anon.
You are a good guy anon
i fap to a lot of hentai too but mostly loli
but almost all my fantasies are with lolis
I have rejected 3 girls that went out theyr way to invite me to go out but and i rejected her i know that it could be my last chance but idk why i dont feel attracted to adult girls
>"I think I'm asexual"
"well there's only one way to find out"
I bet. This board truly amazed me the past week. I found out guys been having average-small penises and still scored with women, proving the 8"+ trolls wrong(also found out I was above average). Now this thread makes me want to redpill tomorrow.
So much of my life was personally imprisoned because I followed dumb stigmas that should have never regulated my life.
>attract women online by my looks.
>meet in person and share my life and personality
>they laugh like I am telling a joke and leave/stop replying back in less than a week.
Fuck. This is a curse!
It is literally not hard at all to lose your virginity.
If you haven't lost it by 25 then either;
>You never EVER leave the house
>You still live with your parents
>You're a literal NEET
>You're socially retarded
>You're extremely unattractive
>You're entirely too insecure/think too much
>You're addicted to porn.
All of these are fixable issues. Literally go to wal-mart, buy some free weights, get some protein, download tinder, and fucking be as confident as you can fucking be. LIE TO YOURSELF. Tell every girl you encounter that you're fucking stunning and you know it and they'll eat it up.
Learn how to flirt and be funny without being fucking creepy/autistic.
The big fucking thing to remember is, if at first you dont succeed, TRY TRY AGAIN. If you don't even fucking try then you are a fucking aspie.
Good luck /b/ros
Source: 26, at least 20 girls sex. I've lost count tbh. Used to be a social retard/aspie/gamer/anime nerd. Still am but I learned how to fucking socialize and be confident.
Will do, here is another treat. I guess everyone is leaving this thread. Gonna go to bed soon.
when i turned 16, i realized that i had 365 days to lose my v-card in order to be a macho badass. took more effort than it should've because i wanted to be in a relationship before i smashed, but still got it.
There was one girl who asked me out and I rejected her because I wouldn't have time for her and I didn't want to do that to her. Now I regret it because she's with another guy. What can I do to see if she still has feelings or to see if she might be still interested?
im alone already but i dont feel lonely idk why probably cuz i spent 6 yrs being a neet i actually feel better with less people around me
also never buyed a bodypillow or any other sexual toy
stay in contact and be a friend. be sure to preen but make it subtle, and treat her a little better than other people without making it obvious. you'll know then, and since women are less faithful than men by nature, you might have a good taboo time.
Hopefully your family won't virgin shame you like they're doing to me. I wish I did lose it, but I literally thought I could not find a woman in high school. I was a football starter for three years, lifted weights and did wrestling..... Still couldn't impress a girl.
18 here and I haven't even kissed a girl yet, but im still optimistic. #1 reason is that im insecure about everything about me, im only 5'3", my acne is terrible but ive been trying to fix that, and im just ugly in general. used to see my friends get attention from girls all the time and just made me feel worse, and was bullied a lot as a kid over my looks. ive been feeling a lot better about myself in the past year now, so im just waiting to graduate high school next month and see what the world has to offer me.
Dude, I won't give you no normie "be confiden" bullshit. I literally see all kind of guys that look like all type of shit and still get women.
THAT SHIT still boggles my mind. So, don't pressure physical appearance that you can't really change. Make up for it I guess.
I lost it at 14. I think the limit should be in your teens or early twenties. Because honestly, if you don't lose it (to the right girl, mind you) then you won't be well adjusted to society. Because when you actually lose it while older, and you're inexperienced, then you may lose your partner or be mocked. Learn while you're young. Get a gym membership, and improve yourself any way you can. Refuse to be a beta. Get out into the world, man
>you may lose your partner or be mocked.
I'm already 25 and plan on having several bad relationships, no biggie. If all hell let's out I'll pop a bag of popcorn and watch everything burn up in flames.
It's either that or never have a life.
The 3 times I've tried fucking my dick didn't stay up. 27 y/o semi virgin, never trying again
Dude viagra is easy to obtain. All yu have to do is talk to your doctor and get a prescription. 80 for 8 pills, you just cut them into quarters and it'll last you for quite a few encounters.
Thanks. I try to do stuff different than I usually do. I really need to make the transition back to digital though.
Might do another furry poster and throw in some abstract stuff on the other posters to keep a good workflow.
I'm happy being myself and if that's not good enough for a woman to want me as a companion then I'm not interested either.
I will continue working at my job (which I enjoy) playing/writing music, playing disc golf, traveling, and generally being content.
If I never cross loves path
I think I'll be ok.
It really depends on what you are, more than anything else. The virginity thing is a myth, from my point of view, but if you were incapable of finding your way into somebody else's pants in your teens, you can rest assure that you have failed already, not at sex, but at being a man.
Either you settle for an ugly/fat beast, and hope for the best, or go to therapy because there must be something wrong with your head (you're probably gay, autistic, or something like that).
If none of this applies to you, or isn't feasible, be honest with yourself, and reconsider. If you still think virginity is your problem, and sex is the magical solution, just hire a hooker.
If you understand, that what you really want is a stable relationship, you must find a job.
If you already have a job, and still can't find a partner, you must lose a lot of weight.
If you are in shape, have a job, and is 100% sure you are not autistic, you must be extremely ugly, so if you still don't want to settle for a 2/10 being a 2/10 yourself, but also don't have enough money to buy your way into a better pussy I really don't know what you want/expect.
tl;dr: OP is a faggot
I lost my virginity at 19 and I wanted to kill myself because I felt like I was the last man on earth who hadn't fucked a girl.
Looking back, I think if you are a guy and you lose your virginity in college, then you're ok.
If you go through college as a virgin, you probably are going to have a tough time losing it normally.
As a lot of other people have said, if you're worried about losing it, then just hire a prostitute. They DO NOT give a shit about your performance, about how you look, about the fact that you are Grey Paladin Wizard of the highest order. They just want to get paid.
If you pay them well and tip them well, they will drop a nuclear fucking bomb on your virginity.
23 y/o Virgin reporting in, AMA.
I've resigned myself to the life of a 40 y/o virgin at this point. I'm more than content to just keep doing what I enjoy and not worrying about anything else.
I see a lot of guys fight hard to at least make it possible in their late 20's. That is what I am aiming for. I'm 25 and don't want to quit yet. I never even gave a fight so I'm pulling out all the stops, procastination and shit.
I don't have any interest in paying a prostitute.
I don't have any desire to actually loose my virginity at this point.
It might be hard for you to understand, but I am literally content with being a virgin.
Anyone else here dealing with virgin shaming outside the Internet? My family are filled with assholes.
>ugly acne-ridden fuck in high school
>had little to no game whatsoever
>repelled women like the plague
>depressed most of the time
>didn't go to junior or senior prom
i'm now 25. lost my virginity at 20, have fucked over a dozen girls.
there's hope for everyone
Projecting much anon?
I saw the thread and thought it would be fun to read through and maybe post.
Besides, I know myself, I don't have to lie to some chucklefuck over the internet to satisfy anything.
lost my virginity at 11 to a 12 year old girl and her 16 year old cousin
had about 5 girls, 2 men, and I eventually just got sick of it while bouncing back and forth between the last two women
people put way too much importance on it socially, but mentally it's important for development to be intimate with a woman
i'd say as soon as you hit sixteen
Keep telling yourself that. But the more you try to justify it, the more pathetic you sound. Just accept that you're unhappy with your virginity and that you wish you were having sex instead of being "content" with your fate as a grand wizard.
don't feel hopeless, young faggot. i didn't get laid until this year and i'm 26. i started dating this chick who likes fucking other chicks, so we have a thing where we can both go fuck other people as long as we both approve. it's chill as fuck
Who gives a fuck what other people think? Honestly. Find someone you love, wait if you want, bang if you want ... who the fucking fuck cares?
Don't let some faggot tell you you're good or bad for being a virgin or not. Fuck. Do what you want.
Nah, they'd still treat me like shit regardless. My life is headed in a better direction than theirs(job, college, better job ect) but they're really being despots. They just use their ability to get pussy to put me down.
Eventually they spread a malicious rumor through my current job that I am a virgin, never had a gf and people at my job started to fuck with me as well. I told HR and my supervisor. I ended up leaving and finding an even better job.
Why can't you understand some people are just dicks?