Ask a psychologist anything.
I'm h-here for you, Anonymous!
>>680301973
Do you like black people?
>>680302055
I like people on a person by person basis. Why would I dislike a whole group of people when I've never met all of them?
>>680301973
Why is it that EVERY SINGLE TIME I start drinking or get blackout drunk I wake up with messages to women I would never dream of hitting up. Basically hit up any woman possible on my messenger wtf?
>>680301973
Why does this creep me out?
>>680301973
I have had a brain MRI and CT (both negative), every time I ejaculate I have a mild head ache, I frequently get anxiety which my quick fix is to pop a valium and try and get on with life, still think im dieing or sick all the time
How do we kill all the niggers?
>>680302134
Don't answer my question with another question, it's rude.
Do you support Black Lives Matter? If so, why?
>>680302151
Because alcohol lowers inhibitions.
>>680302160
Because you put yourself into the shoes of the scuba diver. And it's pretty freaky.
>>680302183
Valium doesn't kick in that quickly; you are using it as a placebo.
As for ejaculation, have you gotten your prostate checked?
>>680301973
How does someone get the strength to live on if they have nothing and no one to help.
If beef is so good for you, why haven't I lost any friggen weight?
>>680302282
I'm not against it, but as an asian, why would I have a place in it?
>>680302322
What do you mean? I'm right here, trying to help you.
>>680302369
It's not, who told you that?
>>680301973
>free help
Lol yeah fucking right
>>680302408
FUCK OFF RANDY
>>680301973
Is it okay if i am afraid of large groups of sandniggers? They all laughed at me and pointed because i was wearing work clothes (pic related), I'm not fat and i have never been mean to a muslim either. Do they really have the right to judge people when we give them shelter here?
>>680302160
That's creepy dude
>>680302429
It's not as if I can charge you on /b/ man.
>>680302445
The name is "Rando".
>>680302369
Go eat some cheeseburgers you sweaty fat fuck.
>>680301973
Why do I like Asian girls so much?
>>680301973
Psychologist are some of the most fucked up people on the planet. Why would I ask you a question?
>>680301973
How big are your tits?
>>680302408
Obviously you haven't seen trailer park boys
>>680302408
You're azn? lmao!
And no reason I'm just curious. You DID say we can ask you anything.
>>680301973
I'm 21 and haven't had a GF. I fucked prostitutes a few times (tho only because mates wanted me to come with them). I'm very happy with my life and i dont feel the urge to go out and find a girlfriend, i don't even think the time is worth to go get a hooker. I thought maybe i am Asexual, but i masturbate daily and actually enjoyed the sex i had so far,yet i value the time i spend there to be not worth it(i'd rather be on the internet/playing vidya/watching movies/anime). As i said im living my life pretty happy but people say im weird. Should i just ignore them and keep doing my thing or is sth wrong with me?
Well well well another one of these threads!
>>680302601
To stroke his ego perhaps?
Can i replace all my psych meds with marijuanas? I stopped taking my meds about a month ago. Also how do i control anger without therapy or classes?
>>680302536
You can always accept Steam games as payment. What do you get out of this anyway?
>>680302408
NEET for 7 years because I have a painful but non life threatening skin disease. I'm scared to leave my home in fear of being in pain. I have aspergers and I lost contact with all my friends. What do?
>>680301973
What do you think of this?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w-BDFEJ8DLA
>>680301973
"I took intro to psych and now I'm a psychologist"
Yeah what's your speciality? What are your accreditations?
>>680302762
Suicide
>>680302408
nigga u always have a place wif us tho
>>680301973
Why am i a sosiopath? Why is it that growing up i thought that everyone around me whas faking feelings. I felt like when someone foreksample where missing home, that they just recreated something that they saw in a movie or something, now i start to relaise more and more that it is just me :(
>>680302771
You should definitely check Clubby the Seal.
>>680302926
probably because your gay desu
>>680302572
There's a lot of schools of thought on that.
It's probably because they are similar to you but slightly exotic; that pulls from two different pools of attraction at once.
>>680302601
I'm not sure what you mean. No one put a gun to your head and told you to enter this thread, did they?
>>680302639
Sure. No big deal. Also, why is that....what is that worthy of laughing at again?
>>680302687
If you are happy and enjoy your life, then just ignore them; it's only bad if it has impact on your life.
Live how you want, Anonymous! Only you can.
>>680302713
Good morning.
>>680302749
I give steam games out, I don't accept them. No time for games these days.
>>680302744
No, pot isn't a good treatment for most mental illnesses.
You should never stop taking meds without help from a doctor.
Clearly, you can't, or you'd have already done it; thus why classes and therapy are useful.
>>680302762
What skin disease?
>>680302806
Neuropsychopharmacology
>>680302926
Sociopathy and psychopathy are criminal designations, not medical ones. Not my field of expertise.
Could be ASPD though; have you seen a doctor?
Twenty three years old and a virgin. It was by choice to be honest. Never really hit it off with another lad. Got into an accident a few month back which left me bed bound. Wanted to put myself out there again, as i don't really have any friends coming out to visit.
I have always been a loner, even though people invited me out, i just prefer to be on my own most of the time. Got bullied quite a bit growing up, betrayed, manipulated, used, etc,.
I thought i learned to deal with my depression and anxiety. Thought i finally had my shit together, then my accident happened. Recently went on grindr and there was a nice guy but it didn't really work out. We never ended up meeting and i cried for like two days straight.
I never cry. Well maybe when drunk. I always got through life knowing someone out there had it worse than me... Always thought that you can turn it around as long as you have the willpower and put the work into it.
I have always been good at preparing a face to meet the faces that you meet. Its just that i feel like i literally cant do it anymore. I don't know who i am or how to act. Maybe its cause i'm vulnerable (doing physio but still a while from recover and even then wont be fully back).
What would you recommend? I kind of want to talk to a therapist but it would take so long to go through everything that's happened to be quite honest. I don't want to live in the past anyway, i just want to move on but i feel like everyone can see past my mask now.
>>680302926
>i thought that everyone around me whas faking feelings.
They do.
- Your friendly non-sociopath
>>680302843
I want to but self preservation is keeping me from doing it.
>>680302536
Seems like Sakuya decided to wear her pads today.
Morning. How was your night last night?
>>680303045
I, for one, don't.
>>680303043
Have you been to a doctor? If you have depression and anxiety, they can help a lot more than anything else is going to.
The idea that it would take a long time to go through and therefore it is worthless is.....strange to me. The more material you have, the better they can help you.
The past defines who you are today; if you don't deal with it, you can't move forward. Seek help Anonymous; I believe in you.
>>680303018
Cholinergic Urticaria. I had a nice life good grades athletic loved the outdoors then it all came crashing down.
>>680301973
Does your mother know you're gay?
>>680303063
You should definitely listen more to Self-Preservation Chan she's great at giving advices.
>>680303018
You're in neuropsychopharmacology? What are your accreditations? What lab work have you done? PhD BCAB here but I have a lot of physio background
>>680303015
I dont enjoy sex... tho i have had sex with men and women.
>>680303190
Good morning what's your name? I only know of Alice.
>>680303233
>I, for one, don't.
I believe you that you believe it, but chances are, your emotions are as fake as mostly everyone's. It's some shit you learned by checking how other people do it. It has nothing to do with real emotion.
Why can't I empathise with people? Why is it that whenever I lose a family member, I don't really feel sad?
>>680303018
Bullshit there has to be something you're getting out of this.
>>680303281
I'll give you a shovel you might wanna get a bit deeper.
>>680303018
Because Azn is a shit tier race? Where are you from?
>>680303425
>Bullshit there has to be something you're getting out of this.
Psychologists feel worthless. Helper syndrome is compensation. Plus they only studied the subject to fix themselves. The females are sluts, the males a bit like Himmler.
>>680303233
The thing is that i have an avid interest in psychology. Read a lot about it growing up. Always thought of how people acted and why they acted that way. It isn't that i feel like its worthless, it most certainly is not. I saw a therapist before and she helped me a great deal. I understand why i feel the way i feel. I have had too much time to reflect on it to be honest.
I also believe past experiences shape your character. Fuck it, i think i will schedule an appointment with someone. I fear i may continue to shed pointless tears.
Thanks /b/ro.
>>680303190
Tossed and turned all night. No idea what was up.
>>680303116
Every day is pad day.
>>680303281
>Cholinergic Urticaria
Oh dear. That's terrible, that's a really debilitating disease! I'm sorry Anonymous, I'm so so sorry.
>>680303313
I've only done some synthesis work; I left to greener pastures. Sorry if that's disappointing.
>>680303333
That's Sanae.
>>680303389
Yeah, except no. People smile when they are happy; that is innate. Even Ray Charles did it, despite never seeing a smile in his entire life
Your philosophy just doesn't match science, Anonymous.
>>680303425
Says who? You? You aren't me; don't tell me what I can and can't do.
>>680303398
Empathy is a skill; it needs to be worked out to use effectively. Also, how old are you? If you are around, say, 20, a lot of the family members you lose may simply be ones you don't have many bonds with, depending on how old your parents were when they had you.
>>680303534
Going to just ignore you now that you've shown your ignorance.
>>680303596
I don't feel worthless, but good armchair psychology Freud. Also not why I picked up the subject.
>>680303333
Holy bazooka are you cereal? She's like super famous here geez have you been literally living under a rock or what?
>>680303682
>I don't feel worthless, but good armchair psychology Freud.
Sure dude. Right back at you.
>Also not why I picked up the subject.
"Picked", not "completed", right?
>>680303682
You're not a psychologist are you lol. Undergrad?
>>680303658
You can do it anonymous!
Feel free to contact me at [email protected] if you need further help; my name is Alice.
What is the best possible question I could ask you, and what is its answer?
>>680301973
Why the fuck does my doc tell me to get more exercise and prescribes me shitty pills that don't work right, and nothing else?
Then a year later when I haven't improved, he simply comes to the conclusion that I must not be depressed if the pills aren't working right?
>>680303018
What is aspd? If i see a doctor ill be listed. Not fair for my daughter
>>680303682
>ignoring people
I bet you run away from bullies too.
>>680303825
What am I, a guard in a logic problem?
>>680303849
...listed? What country are you in?
>>680303843
What did he prescribe you? Lay it out for me.
>>680303843
>Then a year later when I haven't improved, he simply comes to the conclusion that I must not be depressed if the pills aren't working right?
My psychiatrist thinks I'm not depressive because I admitted to working out and taking walks.
Don't you ever sound different than his textbook.
>>680303682
Thanks for the reply, I'm only 18. I guess I should have written sympathise, I always get the two mixed up. I can tell how a person is feeling, it's just the caring that's hard. I've lost close family members, and I've had to force emotional responses at funerals because I was the only one not crying.
>>680303849
Don't do it. You'll lose everything if you don't get therapy for it. It's better to just hide your ASPD from everyone.
>>680303966
lol wut? You think anonymoss is gonna do something bad to poor little Alice's email?
>>680303682
Is it a debilitating disease or am I weak as fuck? For years my family kept telling me it was in my head and i needed to just get over it. No medication my doctors have given me helped. I feel helpless anon
>>680303682
Things are warming up wait let me grab some popcorn. Oky doky feel free to argue now!
>>680303937
Im in norway. Doctor pasiant cofideceiality mean nothing here.
My mother is very abusive to me everyday (emotionally, physically and mentally). Everyone says it's my fault because I'm a bad son no one understands me and I don't know what to do anymore. I act out because I want my mother's approval but I know I'll never receive it.
>>680303966
I gave out my full name and address five years ago, doxxing myself when I became Alice.
I'm not afraid.
>>680304006
You may simply not express your emotions or sympathies in the same way. As long as you can empathize, you are probably okay.
>>680303943
Unfortunately, that's a big problem with general doctors.
>>680304055
It's real. You've been to a doctor, right? Gotten a proper diagnosis?
>>680304071
I'm leaving for work in 10 minutes, so don't get too settled in.
>>680304156
I'm sorry, I'm not too confident on the Norway laws. There's not too much I can do for you.
This thread is going too fast how do you keep up?
Just recently i broke up with my 1 year relationship with my gf, it was kinda like an abusive relationship becuse of her jelousy and etc.
And now, sometimes feel bad, even knowing that our relationship was a ship-wreckt
What`s happening to me?
Sorry for bad englando
>>680303966
We just found the white knight of this thread.
>>680303966
Do u belive thats his main e-mail?
If you knew someone was just fucking hopeless and would never get better would you tell them? Or would you just keep charging them for sessions that you knew for a fact wouldn't accomplish anything?
>>680303937
>What did he prescribe you?
Shit you name it, i've been on it at one time.
started with celexa, then added abilify. and over time ive had lithium, zoloft, serequeal. I can't remember all the changes we've done.
>>680303682
>Says who? You?
Yeah me, you could be getting paid for this. Don't do anything without getting something in return.
>>680303966
> implying /b/ is still dangerous
This place is a neutered shell of it's former self. What's a summerfag /b/-kiddie going to do? Send her some gore that he saved from the last gore thread?
>>680301973
When I was a kid I used to hurt animals. I don't anymore, but why did I do that?
>>680304183
If you realize the problem, you also realize the solution: if someone isn't going to give you what you need or want, either you will suffer or you will change.
I'm sorry Anonymous. I'm so so sorry you have to go through that, that all you wanted was something and it's impossible to get. I wish I could be your mother, if only for a moment, and tell you how much you mean to me, how much you are worth, how proud of you I am.
But I can't do that. No one can. So as sad and terrible as it is, you need to seek something else to fill that void. Therapy, hobbies, something.
Or she'll tear you apart even when she's in the ground, for the rest of your life.
I'm sorry Anonymous; I know that isn't comforting. But it's the truth. Don't let her break you.
>>680304194
Yeah but they only prescribed anti anxiety and anti histamines. The Anti Histamines stopped working after one year so quit them and anti anxiety didn't do anything to me.
>>680304395
becuz youre crazy
>>680304273
He said he was into neuropsychopharmacology, not a psychologist who works with patients
>>680301973
My feelings that suicide is the only option for me are getting more and more intense as soon as the sun has set.
At 0300 I am usually ready to jump/slice/swallow but I never go through with it.
why is it getting worse when it is night?
So yeah I don't know what I'm doing with my life.
Currently I do 2 things sleep and work
I work in a nightclub getting minimum wage at part time hours
I scrape rent by the skin of my nuts most months
Be last night, miss work, lost track mod days, need to pay rent Thursday but don't have enough, probably fired, might even be homeless.
I have no motivation in life, but I want out of this shifty life. I'm throwing applications at IT support roles but hearing nothing back,...
My life sucks and its all my fault
>>680304022
That has worked for me for a long time.
But now i have a girl friend who is constantly crying because i cant open up to her, i want to tell her im open but nuthings there but i feel like icant.
>>680304194
Awww that is a shame, well i knew this had to end sooner or later, see you tomorrow then, really hoping to find another amazing fight.
>>680304220
I've done faster.
>>680304250
That's normal; don't give into it. It takes up to 2-4 years to get over a relationship.
You can outlast it Anonymous; you deserve better. I believe in you.
>>680304273
I don't believe people are like that; I don't buy into the idea someone can be beyond redemption.
Also, that's not my career Anonymous; I'm not a psychiatrist.
>>680304292
So mostly SSRI's huh. What about welbutrin and trazadone?
>>680304309
No I couldn't; I'm getting ready for work. Who is gonna pay me to be on /b/?
Also, I do things without getting things in return all the time; your philosophy doesn't match me.
Can you explain the difference between sociopath, psychopath, ASPD, Borderline personality disorder, etc? Also, how do you know if you have one of the dark triad?
>>680304682
>welbutrin and trazadone
oh yeah, those too.
>>680304682
thanks mr psychonaut
>>680304554
Because you are alone with nothing but your thoughts. What was your diagnosis? You went to a doctor right?
>>680304716
Sociopathy and psychopathy aren't real; those are criminal designations. The dark triad is the same.
For information on ASPD and BPD, please consult your copy of the DSM-5.
Alright guys, got to go to work
See you again at 8PM EST
With love
>>680303821
Thanks alice, i might just do that. My name is mike.
>>680301973
>psychologist
How do you feel about the spectrum disorders in the DSM-V?
Are you ready for the shift to ICD-10?
Where did you attend college?
What is the maximum allowed dosage of risperidone for a new patient?
Please explain the predominant symptoms of peurperal psychosis and the appropriate diagnosis code.
>This should be easy for you
As well name 6 medications used to treat anxiety with no repeat chemical similarities beyond a margin of 1/2.
>BA Developmental Psychology
>WSU 2015
>No work
>Nothing better to do than counsel 4chan in my free time and call out people's shit
I'm a tranny but don't know where to start/get estrogen.
>>680304814
Thanks for the help
>>680301973
Why is hillary clinton such a lying cheating cunt?
>>680301973
What should I have for dinner tonight?
In all seriousness, how does one feel self-worth? I'm constantly putting myself down and the only times I can feel anything close to confidence is working out at the gym, or at least I feel decent for a time before I'm saying to myself that I'm going to die alone or that I should kill myself.
>>680304415
I wish you were my mother...
>>680304827
Sorry friend, but I've got to go; if you've got no work and nothing to do, how about sticking around and helping these good people while I go to work?
*vanishes*
>>680305006
Conveniently leaves.
>>680304818
I'm gonna call you "The mighty carpet that's loud at eating".
>>680305075
Retard alert
>>680305075
she leaves every day at 8:45 dude
>>680305075
>>680305174
Yeah this ain't the first thread shes run
>>680303281
Try raw vegan diet.
>>680304814
How can u say its not real?
When i am empty inside?
>>680302369
Because your still eating sugar and carbs you stupid cuck stop drinking your calories go on \fit\
>>680304814
>What was your diagnosis? You went to a doctor right?
I did not and I have no diagnosis.
But when I was 16 my psychiatrist said that I had a depressive phase. I stopped seeing her 4 years ago.
My parents want me to do therapy again, but I have never even considered going to a medical doctor.
But yeah, the thing about being alone can hardly be right, since I am alone about 90% of every day, making the nights not much lonlier.
thanks for doing this btw
>>680305075
Shhh don't be so loud the others may discover what's really going on here!
>>680305139
Who are you calling a retard?
>>680305242
Thanks mate I'll look into it
Why choose this field, and are you happy with the career decisions you've made thus far? Seems like you want to be a clinical psych.
>>680304827
You have a BA and still think psychosis is a relevant word in psych. Stupid AF
>>680305075
I don't think I've ever met someone as dumb as you.
How do I surreptitiously help every girl I know with her stupid fucking body image issues? Compliments are probably making it worse.
>>680305314
go to a doctor idiot
Happy birthday mein führer
Heil Hitler
>>680305721
You're late the """"""""""Doctor"""""""""" is already gone.
>>680301973
why do i always hate my self and as a result have no confidence?
>>680305848
Cause you failed to realize that she left minutes ago.
>>680305848
Not OP but BCABA PhD here, you've been socially conditioned that your actions and input is worthless. This could be from childhood bullying, or perhaps you're quiet or timid so when you do or say something it's not noticed; a lack of social reinforcement has often been clinically shown to elicit similar results to punishment.
Break out of your shell, talk to new people. You might be surprised
>>680306735
ye no one really notices me lol and if i am im what i have to say is ignored. but i have been making new friends recently its been a personal goal of mine and have been feeling better. thanks for the advice
>>680306735
>BCABA PhD
The stories and information posted here are artistic works of fiction and falsehood.
Only a fool would take anything posted here as fact.
>>680304309
maybe he/she just wants practice, which you can get pretty much best at such a board
or maybe this is a field study he/she is trying to sell / use as his/her final work
who knows
>>680307061
op is female you retard
>>680307040
watch out guys we got a badass over here
>>680307138
as i did not care and know i wrote his/her btw he/she
now i know ill use female forms
>>680307196
>filename
>>680307266
confirmed tard
Any advice op?.
I feel sad, hopeless sometimes..
My gf, doesn't seem to have any type of trust on me, before she was my gf a few idiots broke he hearth, we, right nos have 4.5 years un oÃr relationship and she doesn't change her perception about me.
>>680307549
>
>>680307596
I know, I tried a few times before I met her, I was under medication and shit..
>>680301973
Why do i like brother sister incest porn ... i dont like fother daughter or mother son ... just brother sister ... i dont even have a sister
>>680307725
You can't do anything right can you?
>>680307331
who isnt a tard on /b/
>>680307881
no one is only you
I would agree that while most psychologists chose the profession to help themselves, like I did, and this is based on my opinion lest studies otherwise prove, we are bound by identity expectations from the moment we first breathe, no one escapes identity, if you cannot create one, your brain will which usually splits your personality.
When we learn that no one can help best than us ourselves, we take action based on experience, we conjure facade to fill the niche that we call life.
Why do we go to /b/? This place is a reflection on what we become, what we were before, and what we will be. The more we browse, the more repetitive it becomes, sometimes, a big thing comes up, we enter and we participate, we laugh and we cry, thus creates a sense of home to everyone, regardless of what their opinion about home.
All in all, regardless of what you think, feel or do, never feel helpless, because it is true that you are never alone yet you are, you are dead yet you're alive.
I've been a consultant my whole life, and I've told my patient who lost their home about /b/, a place full of mirrors and faces. This place produced a sense of home for my patient, it got rid of their insecurities and made them feel a bit normal. Most of them have not seen the world for what it is, I believe /b/ is as real as the world can be.
So, I just want to say thank you. That is all.
MSc in Clinical Gerontology
General Adult Psychiatry and Old Age Psychiatry
Consultant Old Age Psychiatrist for the Dementia and Cognitive Impairment
>>680302408
Anata wa doko to nande watashi wa shinitai deska.
>>680307802
I don't think so, no without any advice.
And this is what makes me really fucking sad, I have plenty experience on shit related to love I was able to save a few relationships but mine seems like a car without breaks.
>>680302282
yo that bitch is rude as fuck
>>680302160
algae doesn't melt steel beams
>>680303043
Holy fuck same thing is happening to me. I thought you were a guy at first. Yeah i have identity and trust issues, plus I feel like suicide is not an option but I think about it often. It is like being in purgatory.
You do realize that there's no point in posting shot now since no one will answer you right? Just wait for another of ""her"" threads to pop up.
>>680302762
Live off selling assburgers.
>>680308151
no wonder we have an influx of retarded people during summer. You must have been working overtime during then.
>>680301973
sometimes i feel like im batshit crazy..not sur eif its a mixture of boredom, anxiety, depression, pervertedness and an overthinking mind. I feel who i am around my mates and my family and myself are all different yet im all three..i dont think i have split personalitys but i sem to be a different person in all ways yet they are all me? im not sure if im going nuts but i constantly think about it and im seem to be in my own head a lot yet im quite talkative and out there. Im aslo in some weird way extremly extroverted an dintroverted at the same time. could you give a a sort of short crazy or not quiz or quesitons to answer?
>>680302749
>guaranteed replies and a lessened feeling of uselessness/lonliness
We should all try to help the psycologist back, guys
Anime.img
I have really bad mood swings at work, what do?
>>680309189
if it adds to it i do party drugs pretty much every weekend for a good yea rand a half now ive fucked with psychedelics prescriptions ampethamines you name it ive done it other then heroin and meth. although ive probbaly done both cut in stuff. I also smoke bud almost daily even though i dont enjoy the high as i seem to enter psychosis like highs evrey time. im now 19 days clean( not from weed but) as ive noticed my mental health is going down hill
>>680309437
How about this guy ?
i have been talking to this girl on and off for about 4 months now. we studie at completely diffrent places (24 hour by car), but we are from the same town. When both of us is at home, we talk alot and we have had dates. but when she is at det place where she studies, it is hard to talk to her. She says she have this bubbel, i dont know if i belive her.
But, at the same time, why would she let me follow her home, take a detour, talk to me for about one houre after we arrived and brake an appointment she had.
is she being nice to me, or is she interested in me?
Is it weird that I like to poop in public places with people watching me. I've been arrested several times but it's been totally worth it. Nothing like dropping a tight coiler while an audience of people watch in horror and disgust.
>>680309678
huh what about me?
>>680303018
>they are fair and petite
"schools of thought" you sound like a mega virgin
They have to share everyone's existential crisis, not just their own. It confirms those problems rather than alieviates them
Because you are a crappy asian.
Do the people saying you're weird bother you? You have to change them or your situation if so. "Above the influence/ignore it" is non realistic info.
>some half decent advice and soft trolling.
Mediocre asian at best.
I blinked and missed it again >_<
>>680309437
>>680309678
>>680309437
to add to it im only 19 started smoking weed at 15 fucked with harder drugs at 17 and depressiion an anxiety seem to be in the family
Angelic, are you here?
>>680303281
Hives? Where do you get them.
>>680301973
If you give a guilty person a blank page to write a new version of themselves, can they?
>>680301973
Do i need to stop smoking weed?
I feel guilty because my friend's mom killed herself and I don't know what to say or do I cant even talk to my friend I just end up crying. What do?
>>680301973
why do I like fighting, beating up people and punch my wall? pic related.
hi alice
Hi OP.
I sometimes randomly get a surge of emotions out of nowhere. It's sometimes sadness, anger or fear.
My head gets real heavy and i find it extremely difficult to breathe and when i'm angry and someone tells me to chill i almost feel a murderous anger.
What's wrong with me?
inb4 autism
>>680310308
Nowhere to be found try later.
Who the fuck types a goddamned stutter
>>680310836
Mill yourself, obviously. You're a huge faggot and have no emotional intelligence at all. This leads me to believe you're autistic. Suicide is the only cure.
>>680310988
I hate coming to these threads...
I have anxiety, depression and ocd (all diagnosed by psychiatrist).
Sometimes I have memories but I'm not sure if they're real or I dreamed them or made them up.
I hardly ever remember my dreams, maybe 10 per year.
blood chan
>>680311173
How to mill myself? :^)
Teach me to be edgy
>>680311288
Still, you're here every time, like a moth drawn to a flame.
>>680310083
I am talking about the picture you braindead junkie
>>680307549
Really need some advice here
>>680311685
oh kokodil the drug? nah and yeh i am brain dead thats why i be quitting to fried need to start long journey back to being not a disabled junkie im not takiing offenc ebroi am
I have issues with my looks and body. I am fit but i cannot stop staring and flexing to a mirror so mire myself in it.... How can i be less narcisistic?
>>680311456
We've met before, right?
>>680310308
Demn apologizing someone is the very hard thing.
I can't connect with people anymore, I only feel dread, like it's just rising up inside me but I can't express it, I can't cry how hard I try, on friday I got really drunk, like lmoa drunk, and I had like 14 "friends" and I just cried for a hour straight, I was feeling so terrible, and fuck, it wasn't for the first time, I am just getting worse and worse, started loosing weight, idk how and I just feel bad, so my question is, how do I make my self happy, like forcefully happy?
>>680311456
Don't you mean Ikaros?
>>680311609
Because I want to tell someone something important
>>680312108
-sighs-
>>680312006
possible
>>680312222
oh yes of course ikarous
hello again
howd you sleep
< 20 > Today I will be leaking these 3 videos which I think /b/ will enjoy/ https://www.dropbox.com/s/jr0nqjh4pz5ezs2/4CHANWIN.zip?dl=1 Few minutes and it will be removed :)
>>680312435
I don't sleep
>>680312222
Hold your explanations, you told me what the story's all about yestersay. Can't you remember?
>>680301973
My psychologist says your full of shit
>>680312556
silly
hows your brother then
Why were we cursed with consciousness?
>>680312435
Yes you are the guy that was in love for the dog slaying girl. Welcome aboard once again.
>>680312602
I didn't tell anyone the story yesterday
>>680311854
Just find something to get busy with, something fun that will help you move away from useless shit like this.
How come everyone I talk to and try to make friends with thinks I'm just a desperate piece of shit?
How can I talk to people without coming off as a desperate piece of shit?
Why does every person I talk to end up hating me one way or another?
>>680312653
He's feeling better
>>680312660
we just got unlucky
make the best of it anyway
>>680312715
no, im in love with blood chan
kazura is cute tho
>>680312783
good very good
>>680312773
You must be an asshole or something
>>680312852
How do I stop being an asshole then anon?
>>680312836
please help me this is me
>>680309189
>>680309437
>>680310253
>>680312836
How are you?
>>680312773
I feel the same way honestly, all trought i have just stopped giving a fuck, you should just move on because you are the person you are and you should't give a flying shit what others think about you, be yourself man.
>>680312719
Does this ring a bell?
>>680312929
-gives you a charismatic mask- wear this where ever you go and people will like you
>>680312954
well im not op, but my advice is do things to help other people. doing that gets your mind off the pain and makes you feel good in the process. volunteer, work, help random strangers. it'll help volumes.
>>680313121
Yes but that's not telling the story, it's no one's business
>>680313083
Believe me anon I have, although I think I've lost all respect for any form of boundary or limitation
I've literally lost all forms of respect for authority and feel I need to be constantly rebellious now
How do I learn to know when draw the line?
>>680313174
Faggot detected,
>>680313080
im fair. been having a lot of fun posting on /mu/ instead of those stupid circlejerks all the time. much better place for me. how about you?
>>680307549
Emulate the traits you envy in others. Try to be less self serving and more empathetic. Ask your gf if she thinks you're worth it. Based on how childish her response is, keep going or drop it for your non codependent health.
Genuine anons ask away. Promise not to give those lukewarm "here for you" responses.
What the fuck, this thread is utter garbage, I came out with my actual problem, and you weeaboo fags started roleplaying as this anime trash? What the fuck how the fuck is /b/ even relavant
>>680313360
im sorry you feel that way
>>680313174
I already wear a mask anon, I call it my IRL Persona, it's who I am day to day to everyone around me, maybe I should just hide who I am entirely and wear it everywhere. I just feel like the internet is the only place where I get to be honest with myself but then I become an asshole in the process
>>680313274
At least i was right about something.
>>680301973
Having depressive rushes lasting like 30 seconds, no matter if im with people i know or alone. I live alone btw. Shoot darling
>>680313360
shhhhh
>>680302408
Fuck off, Randy
How did your first semester go?
>>680313360
>random
>relevant
Ask your question again
Why do i have a hard time with not understaning if something really does suck, or if its just my perception that it sucks? It ties in with not asking for help or allowing myself to complain, and makes my life hell.
>>680313298
Virgos come off as faggots... I know..
>>680313345
That's wonderful. /mu/ is actually a better fit for you. And you should stay away from those toxic CJ threads. I'm blah... I don't know how I feel
>>680313360
-politely sits on your lap and wiggles-
>>680313493
Maybe you're just really blunt about things :/
Are you tried being more polite?
>>680313231
i will look into trying to be better to people. Do i sound crazy to you?
Who's your favorite 2hu op
>>680313495
What were you right about?
>>680313606
Yeah as in thread relevant, nobody does even do what they told they will do
>>680313493
^This is me
I keep having rushing thoughts about how I may have different mental health issues like ADHD and Bi-Polar and have even done self analysis/comparisons to myself and the symptoms in the past
Can't see a psych atm either
>>680312773
This is gonna sound gay but...don't be desperate. Concentrate on building pride in yourself and daily life and good friends will come to you in time. Friends you have to seek are always fairweather friends.
>>680313680
that's okay. you have a lot of big changes coming up—how do you feel about that?
>>680313738
good, and no, you're not crazy.
why can't i get these panties on!
>>680313775
About the fact that we had a conversation.
>>680313680
I feel like I am way too polite sometimes, I concern myself about others and always wish to ask about my own things, I think I have just so much shit on my mind 24/7 that I need to push on others which I guess means that I'm blunt as well, every day this week so far I've tried to talk to someone but I always say something that pisses them off and they just leave without any explanation :/
Not to mention that I have co-dependancy issues from what I can see
>>680313922
Hey i come to your thread every time its up. You helped me a bit ago when my fiancee left me after 2 years and i had not eaten in a week. dont know if you would remember but i just wanted to thank you. im doing better now. Have a good day at work!
>>680313922
I still feel down about not getting accepted in the military. So now I'm thinking about becoming a tattoo artist but i don't know
>>680314000
Who are you? And nice get
>>680313907
Thanks anon, I have self-esteem issues among much other shit really which definitely doesn't help but all the friends I do appreciate or had just got pissed after a while
Even longstanding ones
explain 'projection' to me.
thx
>>680313852
Everyone needs their own things and time. No one matches society's image, so I guess we all wear a mask sometimes anon. A hobby is a really good way to get out of this thinking loop. A loop as in, you can't solve it by thinking more about it.
>>680314217
Pretty much self explanatory. Nah, kidding just a person that loves this kind of threads.
>>680314170
im not op but good for you anon. just as long as youre doing your best thats all anyonr can ask.
>>680314217
well, youre swimming in time and have lots of options, so hopefully you dont feel worried. i know youll do great whatever you choose. dont rush into anything
>>680314576
Oh shoot. i saw the thread and wanted to post that before OP left so i rushed
>>680314151
You write too much >_<
Oh I see you care about people too much and you end up suffering in the end. You should try meditation and maybe hypnosis to help yourself relax. You're too frustrated and you're doing too much at once and you take it out on people by mistake
also niggers
>>680314485
What is your name? Your internet name I mean
>>680314449
I really find it hard for myself to get into things nowadays, and when I do I REALLY get into it and get burned out or get myself ejected out of it by others by being just too enthusiastic
I guess I'm just a desperate person in general with co-dependancy issues :/
I live a floor above my parents and every time they ring it, I get insanely mad and annoyed, seeing as I have to stop whatever it is I'm doing to go see what they want.
I also cut the skin off my feet and eat it what the fuck is wrong with me fam
>>680314576
I have to rush, once I'm 18 my mom is kicking me the fuck out
>>680314808
Do you hear them having sex every night?
>>680314748
Ohhhhhhhh i get it. Call me Colorful Cat.
>>680314398
As you felt yourself slipping you may have leaned on them more and more instead of facing that your lifestyle needed changing. Unfortunately, leaving was the best way your friends could get you to realize this. It is tough love, but any friends not scorned can still be reconciled once you're healthy. Why do you think you have a poor self image?
>>680314704
shell be back
>>680314850
do you have enough saved to get a cheap place or working on it?
>>680314748
That I do, apologies but as I mentioned I can get really trigger happy when it comes down to it >.<
Thanks for your suggestions, I'll try them out later and yeah, that pretty much explains it I guess
>also niggers
Explain? I'm an Ausfag but I aint no nigger
>>680314972
Hmm... do you come to these threads a lot?
>>680314988
Lol all my money goes on food and I can't find a job here v.v
>>680314414
A mind trick to transfer self diagnosed guilt to another individual by seeing the exact flaws in another that you subconsciously percieve about yourself.
It works in the dame way that you see someone less fortunate than you and feel better about your lot in life.
>>680314988
8PM east yeah i saw, thanks though!
>>680315091
hmm. wEll i havent had to worry about that in my own life, but certainly many have. im sure youre doing your research on options once that happens though
>>680315091
Yes, those threads are like a school bus, i's easy to meet interesting people, having conversations, this kind of stuff.
>>680315048
Don't let parasites attach to your conscience mind during your meditation... they're very hard to take off
>>680314987
Yeah, I used to be really good at keeping everything inside but as soon as I found how much better it felt to let it all out I must've kept doing it more and more, you saying I should try keeping it in more? And I think I've done too much damage with many of them
I have a poor self image because i legitimately am just a useless leech that sucks the life out of others and can't do anything for myself, as well as I just generally am not someone desirable in any way
I've had the talking too much issue since I was really young >.<
>>680314758
You mention co dependancy a lot. I'm going to level with you - this makes me doubt you have a problem with it. But what you are describing DOES sound vaguely bipolar. Apologies...gotta give you the standard "you should probably talk to someone". Trying to self meter your energy is quite difficult.
>>680315323
When my mom kicks me out I'm going to live with Alice since she lives like 10mins away from me lol
>>680315384
Oh are you an extrovert? I'm jealous >_<
>>680315567
haha interesting. if that shakes down let me know how it goes.
>>680315396
I do hope that's sarcasm anon o.o
>>680315536
>You mention it therefore it mustn't be a problem
I don't think that should be how it works, you think I WANT to bring harm to others like that or just exist to take from others?
Believe me, I do really want to talk to my psych about all this but I just can't since we're away somewhere else for at least the next week :/
>>680315680
I won't be there for too long, just until I can find work... shouldn't be too hard.... v.v
>>680302408
Fuck off
>>680315567
I'm not totally an extrovert, let's just say that i'm kind in the middle .
>>680315837
finding work shouldnt be too hard for someone like you :]
ttyl
>>680315822
It's not, I had two attached on my upper back for a year, it was very painful
>>680315950
Do you have an account on Alice's chat?
>>680301973
I'm trying to adapt a more confident and happy mindstate, but sometimes for what feels like no reason I just hit complete rock bottom. Anxiety and sadness out of literally nowhere and I don't know what to do. I have trouble making and keeping friends, probably because when I get too close I start freaking out and I block people out of my life completely. I hate being alone but I hate having my heart fucked with more, so I'm stuck in a state of 'fuck everyone I don't care, but I'm so lonely and could do with a friend, partner or whatever the fuck'. I don't know, maybe I just suck at this
>>680315974
please don't leave me...
>>680316149
.ok im still here
>>680316099
Considering the fact that i don't even know what that is probably i do not own one of these. Anyway what's that?
>>680316253
<3
how do i stop the cycle of drinking too much, then eating shitty food, then staying up late drinking whilst my gf goes to sleep in our bed without me, then feeling fine for a day because im hungover and and didnt drink and then get drunk the next night and repeat
>>680316335
have you seen spirited away?
>>680301973
i'm 27 years old, broke up with GF 6 months ago and start dating with GF 5 months ago, new GF it's 9/10, smart and great at sex but she has a 6 years old kid, i don't know if i'm not happy with her because of her child or because i still think a lot (like 90% of the time) in my EXBF, i only want to be happy and i don't know what to do. BTW my ex have this new BF and she says she loves him so much but keep leaving messages for me in twitter
I like to mentally abuse my girlfriend for no reason
>>680315465
Happy medium anon. Having secrets is...in a fucked up way, part of being content/happy. Never show your entire hand. You'd like to think you "know" things right? Well, most times when you fully disclose with people, all they hear is you calling them stupid or inadequate. Most people do not prepare facts/conversation for the next person that they meet. People want to be part of your life/conversation...not a side note or tool to be used.
You have to realize most "stable" people do not cycle between happy and sad. They anchor a few steps above sad and drop anyone who tries to bring them down.
You are able to realize it and that means you're growing, changing. You can change, just not tomorrow.
Your current design may be undesirable, but not the person underneath. If you're really interested in self improvement (but afraid of rejection) start journaling your days and maybe critique yourself/change a little bit at a time. Then you can literally monitor your progress and have confidence in it. Plus you won't feel the need to talj so much about the stuff you already wrote down as you won't be looking for others to validate it.
>>680316487
That sucks!
>>680316487
I did this to my ex
welcome to narcissism, friend. Enjoy your stay.
Why I don't feel anything for anyone anymore? I was pretty normal before I starded browsing 4chan, 8 chan, deep web and wierd porn. And how can I fix it? But I can't stop browsing all these things.
>>680301973
I have aspergers, should i kill myself?
>>680316563
not op but thanks for being here doc
>>680316106
Lol I was 15 once too.
>>680316404
No my body and conscience mind or (soul) are always attached with a string. Parasites see it and like to feed off the energy from the string. The string can stretch through trillions of light years across the void of space so you'll come across a few parasites in your lifetime
>>680316487
Can you abuse me?
>>680316908
>>680316908
whaa?
>>680316808
You'll have to get away from those dark places and detox from it
>>680316815
Absolutely not
You must seek real help
Psychology isn't a real science is it?
>>680317099
Obvious bait is obvious
>>680315822
>don't level with people confirmed
You THINK that arguing is going to get your questions further answered when asking for help is a form of submission?
I THINK your self diagnosis isn't useful because it obviously hasn't helped you combat anything new.
>>680317166
excuse me but i wasnt talking to u
>>680317098
Hm? You didn't write anything in your reply anon
>>680317099
hm?
>>680317160
No
>>680316106
try talking to your parents, once you talk to your parents on the same page life becomes more clear.
I talk on the phone with my dad 2 or 3 times a week, allways puts things in perspective.
>>680317115
I cannot seek real help
>>680317271
have you seen spirited away
>>680316106
I hate you, don't leave me
Amazon.com
>>680317253
Newfag save yourself while you still can!
>>680317318
Why not?
>>680317327
No I hate movies
>>680317444
dude stfu
>>680301973
how do i stop the cycle of drinking too much, then eating shitty food, then staying up late drinking whilst my gf goes to sleep in our bed without me, then feeling fine for a day because im hungover and and didnt drink and then get drunk the next night and repeat
>>680316898
Thank you for thanking me :)
>>680316563
Thanks anon, although I do prefer being honest with people if I can, it's just that no one wants to be around me and in some cases use me instead
I guess in a way I have been monitoring myself, just more mentally then physically doing something about it
>>680316106
This is pretty much me as well anon
>>680317506
i rly like spirited away. you should watch it
>>680301973
Why is it that I become so attached way too easily? Like talking to a girl for 3 days who understands me makes me fall head over heels for them. I hate it and I want to know why I do this.
>>680317271
I didn't because sometimes a picture is worthy hundreds of words.
>>680316411
When her kid turns 18 you can fuck her too, don't be dumb
>>680317506
My parents wont allow it, they cannot accept that their son is mentally challenged
>>680316317
Ask Alice to make an account for you since you're hear all the time
>>680317518
K go ahead m8
>>680316393
Hypnosis can help with addiction
>>680317572
Lazy cognitive excuses, if you want me to be honest.
Honesty is relative to the feelings of the person you're giving it to.
>>680317228
This is true, I really am an argumentative prick when it comes down to it honestly although that may come from me just wanting to know everything and thinking that arguing is the best way to go about it idk
oh well bye for real
>>680302536
I have problems spacing out. A lot of people ask me if I'm okay because at work I will get real quite and not talk. I can't stop thinking. I never have a moment of not trying to plan or figure stuff out. I have these super in depth scenarios all the time in my head of different stuff and it can cause me to have adrenaline rushes and stuff. I have violent fantasies of kicking the shit out of people sometimes killing. But have never had serious intentions to do so. Because I know it is wrong. I do not want or like these thoughts but they happen. And when I was a kid I thought I was god trapped in a mortal body waiting this life out to see how it is from this perspective. Anytime I drive a car I have schematics in my head of all the moving parts. Or so I think. Because clearly I do not have that information. Am I crazy? Oh also I have hella bad anxiety.
I had this dream about me fucking a hot chick. But after some point, she began shitting and I was eating all her shit with a passion. And even helped her to get the last turd out with my teeth, which pleased her very much.
What does this dream mean?.
>>680317592
im not OP and im not making a joke here but are you a virgin?
its allgood if you are, but that mindset of falling in love with someone that agrees with you will disappear once you learn how to talk to women without thinking about sex
>>680317579
I'll check it out in two weeks lol -puts it on my to do list-
>>680317691
Oh I can't see imgs on my phone
>>680317712
That's really fucked up. When you get out of there seek help on your own. You don't want it to get worse and please don't kill yourself, I will never forgive if you do
>>680317765
Sure i'll add that to my to do list!
Too many fucking people
No wonder Alice always lashes out at me
>>680318003
That was a succubus
>>680309800
any help or?
>>680317880
It's likely because you have control issues, not because you're trying to know things. A rationalization.
Who micromanaged your life? What important figure broke your trust?
These are good questions.
>>680301973
I feel so tiny and worthless, my life serves no purpose and nothing would change if I weren't here.
I feel like I have to make something great or I've lived in vein. How can I get over this
>>680318048
Be careful around her Alicefags.... they're overprotective
>>680318020
Nope, I've fucked 8 girls or so. I had a one night stand the other night with a girl who I thought was immaculate. Her and I were talking for like 4days and I couldn't stop thinking about her, but then she just kinda distanced herself even though she said the sex was incredible.
>>680301973
my teachers bully me
