Alright /b/tards, I need your advice/ help. I'll greentext it cuz why the hell not
>have gf of 3 months
>I was super nerdy beforehand and still am
>both 18
>we have sex
>it's my first
>she's had sex several times before
>I get her super wet and make her cum several times within 15 minutes
>I'm fucking the shit out of her
>she says to stop because she's worried someone might come home
>we stop, I didn't finish tho
So my problem is this. When I masturbate I finish in like 10-15 minutes easily. But when I was with my gf and having actual sex I wasn't even close to finishing anytime soon by the time we needed to stop. Wtf is wrong with me?
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Easy. You've desensitized yourself from fapping too hard/too often. You're used to the coarser feeling of using your hand, so it'll be more difficult for a girl to get you off.
Reduce how often you're masturbating and the intensity of your strokes to increase your sensitivity if you want to be able to finish more easily.
you are used to masturbating, stop it and it will go away
>>678417443
Will bump as I have this problem as well. As sad as it is, I usually tell them to tell me when they're about don't so I can try and finish because I have to really concentrate to do so for some reason. I have gone for like 2 to 2.5 hours before without getting close until I really focused on it.
Happens to me too. It's in your head. Desentized from overfapping. Stop watching porn and jerking off. Youll need a good 3-4 weeks to recover so you can perform normally. It takes willpower though. Google nofapping
>>678418010
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>>678417443
Contrary to the stereotype of cumming ridiculously fast shown in TV/movies, it's not exactly uncommon to fail to finish your first time.
>>678417443
finish yourself or tell her to, cumming inside isnt smart anyway
>>678417443
dont use condom
OP here, thanks so much for the advice guys!! Any idea how long it takes to resensitize?
>>678419168
depends how persistent you are
>>678419911
OP here yet again, I thought in order to resensitize I just need to stop masturbating altogether for awhile. Is there something more to it that I need to be persistent at?
>>678420255
yes, just be persistent. people dont do "no fap february" or whatever because its fun, you will probably fail a lot at first
