Feels thread ?
I dont have much to offer but Id love to be cheered, best friend just broke up with me.
i'm also looking for cheering up because my first gf broke up with me yesterday and i still wanna kill myself
>>678329131
Why did she break up with you ?
>>678329244
she said she just cant be in a relationship... when we got together after school she just
>hugged me
>said we needed to talk
>we sat down
>she put her head on my shoulder
>stayed like that for 10 minutes or a bit more
>i was asking her what was wrong
>told me she isnt what i need
>she had to catch a train
>stood up
>her phone fell
>i pcked it up
>she just took it didnt even look at me again
>left
i dont even know how to feel
>>678330019
She let you down easy man, it didnt end on bad terms, be happy about that.
>>678330019
sounds like some song lyrics
>>678330370
i know that it didnt end on bad terms but eventhough she said that we can be friends i just dont know if that is possible because i still have no idea why
>>678330406
i guess it does yes - maby i'll try puting a song together if i dont manage to forget her
Help me out /b/..
>>678330814
just put the greentext on the average journey music and its done
>>678331203
dont know any songs where i could d that - listening to black sabbath right now and id just doesnt add up with those lyrics
OP here, ive given up, /b/ isnt good today.
>>678331994
it aint just today - it's like thist for almost two weeks now
>>678328839
My gf broke up with me this morning for pretty much no reason at all. I loved her a lot and she was the only girls I ever had these feeling toward. She would push me away to "test me" to see if I'd still chase her. So ig its for the best, she realized its not fair to keep abusing me ig. But it still hurts. I thought she was someone else. Still kinda in the denial phase, still thinking about how it could have been. We met in a very weird way tho. I have a story if anyone is interested.
>>678332910
tell the story man
and if you want i'll tell you how i met my gf i'm>>678330019
>>678330814
I can make instrumentation.
>>678333382
great - just please make it rock
>>678331349
Try "In The Woods" by Ghost Brigade. I have no idea what the hell I'm going on about, but it might work if you find a way to do so.
>>678332372
>>678332910
All of those are decent reasons, my best friend of 12 years and more literally cut all contact with me because I came out to him at 22 years of age.
>>678333722
ok this could be done
>>678332910
It all started last September..
>Feeling deppressed
>go on /b/ and find a feels thread
>shit is pretty normal for a feels thread until someone posts his kik
>a group is soon created
>We all get to know each other pretty well, share sad stories, feels, memes, etc.
>People add their friends, new people come
>Group starts having some drama, people leave and come back, etc
By November, we have a group of OG regulars and we become very close knit.
>mfw some asian girl joins
>mfw when we start flirting
cont?
>>678334261
continue
>>678334261
go on
>>678328839
>Feels thread
>be cheered
I want this thread to keep going
>>678334261
Do continue.
>>678329131
I felt like that too before pic related happened when I had a breakup. Hang in there.
>>678334474
>we start talking
>things start getting intense
>both of us start catching feelings
>By now, some dramtic shit happened between people and group is shrinking/people are fighting.
Its december now
>This girl is really special.
>mfw ik a LDR will never work.
>mfw I try to break it off
>mfw its too painful for both of us and we decide to continue. (Terrible mistake.)
>Both have faith that it will work.
>We talk a lot, have a real connection
>She tells me how much she loves me all the time.
January.
>Still smooth sailing.
>The group is rebuilding and we join again.
>Pretty uneventful
Around February, common sense/doubts start to come
>She tells me everything is fine and she loves me a ton.
>even though we don't have a plan for meeting yet, we both know it could be a LONG wait and are prepared to wait.
>I am skeptical, but she makes me feel like I've never felt before so I decide to keep going.
>In early feb, she starts telling me how she's no good for me and she's better off alone.
>Shit comes out of nowhere.
(Should've taken it as more of a warning.)
>mfw I cant even function or think of anything else besides her that night. I got no sleep.
>She comes back, saying that she's too in love with me to get out now.
>Think "Oh shit. I'm in too deep. There's no choice now but to make it work!"
>>678336435
so i should just hope for a happy ending? doubt that that is my faith
>>678337114
No. You should look for one. I was without hope anon. What happened to me was fortunate, no doubt, but it could nevee have happened if I closed myself to possibilities. You risk nothing if you have nothing. May as well be open.
>>678337087
one day everything is fine and she is saying she loves you and the next she is ''no good for you'' yup that sounds familiar
continue
>>678337546
i dont even know how to start looking for one
>be me 18
>beta kissles virgin
>only 2 friends
>never talk to anyone outside school
>go out probably 4 times per year
no hope
>>678338135
You really think i was much different?
>>678338383
so since you have been through this can you give any advice on how to deal with it or just generally improve?
>>678338670
Generally speaking only a select few need to see you as you truly are. And if you can learn to play the part people expect, over time you become more like them and less like you. You're already miserable but you do not lack the capacity to change who you are.
Just remember that actions are always louder than words. Learn to put on different "hats" depending where you are.
>>678339108
that is exactly what i hate the most - people being fake and that is why i loved and still love my ''ex'' - she hated those people too and we were alwasy direct with eachother and talked things out
>>678337087
>get increasingly worried about the amount of risk we're both taking
>We have a lot of chats about it.
>We learn A LOT about each others lives.
>She tells me her parents start pushing her to marry family friends, I respond exactly how you'd expect.
>She pulls away again. Blames it on stress. Returns
>Her parents divorce
>She cries to me about it.
>Her ex contacts her again to ask for her back, she tells me she reassures me that its over between them.
>She introduces some of her family to me, tells me some know that she has a bf.
>She loves me to death.
>We watch movies together, have good conversations
>Mfw I actually consider wifing her. (and I go on /pol/ a lot, so I'm VERY skeptical of marriage.)
>In march, everything is going great.
>In late march, around the 20th-22nd, theres no contact.
>She texts me frantic, saying she was busy and hopes I didn't think she abandoned me.
>Tell her Ik she'd never do that.
Looking back, the amount of faith I had in her was autistic.
>it happens again a few days ago for 1 day.
Ik somethings up.
>She tells me everything is perfect.
This morning at 4am.
>She texts me saying its over and its for the best.
I feel autistic for falling for the LDR meme again. Its worse cuz I actually felt something this time and it was more than just sexting.
(Actually she only sent 1 nude and didn't like sexting. Probably part of the reason why I had so much faith in her. She seemed like a nice girl with values opposed to all the other women I met)
>>678340113
>nude
Show us
>>678340113
Ah shit son. Tough pill to swallow.
That's LDRs for you.
>>678340113
my end was almost identical - only she broke up in person not by texts - still fucking hurts man
>>678340265
Can't bring myself to look at that. The wounds still fresh
>>678340599
I'm still in denial. She was genuinely sad about it so maybe her parents or a friend made her do it. I'm still hoping for closure or for her to come back or it to be a bad dream. Ik before shes gotten depressed and pushed me away, but this time feels like its really the end. Ik i'd take her back in a heartbeat, but I know I shouldn't.
>>678328839
That hit me right in the feels.
>>678341388
i got broken up with yesterday and i feel exactly the same - i've looked at my phone for a text from her almost 100 times since than - literally couldnt sleep more than 2 hours tonight
>>678338135
I was just like that, weird kid at school, bullied when I was in middle school, bullying stopped when I went to college, but still no one spoke to me and I had no friends.
Funny thing is, I got a job and sort of opened up to people there, not in the telling them my feelings way but I could hold a conversation and so on.
Anyway, at work I met a girl. We pretty much hated each other the first 3-4 years, our conversations were mostly an exchange of snarky comments.
One day a mutual friend of ours invited us to his home to drink, we kind of hit it off then and spent the rest of the night tongue in mouth.
One party later, she's now my girlfriend of four years.
>>678341388
I keep thinking of how it could have been, how everything would've been so perfect, how great it'd feel to finally meet and get together against all odds. I fell for the love meme. I should have known better
>>678341657
Sorry to hear that. What happened?
>>678341853
Yeah. Never get married or trust anyone
I fucked it, guys.
I can't believe how badly I failed myself and the possibility of a relationship.
She fell head over heels for me and all I had to do was grow some balls.
Instead I just behaved indifferent, which drove her away. When I realised my mistake it was already too late.
I fucked up by not being assertive and clear enough. She slipped through my fingers and I won't recover that. I wanted her so badly for such a long time and then I fuck up.
Fucking hell. I don't even wanna talk about it, I just wanna numb myself with these mindless women that are my only alternative as I apparently can't keep the real gems.
Fuck my life, lads.
>>678341888
i'm not the bullied tipe - i have 2 friends and schoolmates respect us - we just dont socialize with them and keep to ourselves because we are kind of different than they are - we dont go to parties, almost never drink alcohol, never do drugs - i dont even know how i got my ex in the first place
>>678341853
I know who posted this. He's in China teaching English. Has a loving Chinese wife (at least I think they're married), and is doing well for himself. Met him on 1chan ages ago. Good, smart guy, who got really got screwed by his first wife. Makes me sick to hear some of the shit women pull in a divorce.
