>Be me
>Have 7/10 girlfriend, been dating for about 3 years now, love of my life
>Start texting a friend a couple days ago whom I lost contact with some time ago
>Friend is 8-9/10
>Great ass and tits. Pic semi related, similar ass
>Friend and I want to hang out a my house while my girlfriend is out of town in a few days
>I'm deciding whether or not to have sex with her
>Haven't had sex with my gf in over 3 months
>Really needing it
>I'm 75% sure friend is DTF with me
What should I do, /b/? I love my girlfriend very much, but I just need to fulfill my sexual needs, and masturbating's not cutting it for me. Any advice?
Also ITT: Cheating stories
Is a 10 minute sexual release worth losing the love of your life?
Don't do it bro, an easy fuck isn't worth losing someone you've built a foundation of trust and intimacy with over the last 3 years. She might be hotter and she might be down to fuck, but don't think with your dick on this one.
>>677050943
This tbqh.
>>677050780
Why no sex in the first place? Take command of that shit at least.
>>677050780
Trick question. Set up a threesome after you fuck her to cover your tracks.
>>677050780
New pussy is tempting.
> you fuck this bitch
> gf finds out
> heartbroken and tears
> dumps your ass
> ignores you
> you find out she had sex with your friend
> you become depressed
> masturbate and cry alone
> she posts sexy photos online
> she lets everyone she knows she is single
> she uses tinder
> she fucks random alpha you don't know
> you consider an hero
all for new pussy that might not even be that great
>>677051288
this
>>677050943
>>677051359
Fuck, man. I don't know. I'm 100% sure we won't get caught, because if anything does happen, I already have a plan. So I guess there's that
>>677051288
Thing is she usually doesn't want to have sex, and when we do, neither of us finish because she gets tired in like five minutes, and if I keep going, it hurts her.
>>677051292
Girlfriend hates my friend, and she doesn't know I'm texting her.
>>677050780
>>677050780
>No sex 3 months from girlfriend
>She's out of town
Cheating on you
>>677050780
be a man, don't do it.
>>677050943
Yes
Do it if you can get away with it op.
don't throw away an ass like that. For all you know there might be a reason she hasnt fucked you in a few months. Fuck her op and post results.
>>677051710
/thread
>>677050780
Are you me OP?
>>677051840
Could be
>>677050780
Not worth making an advance and chancing it
I've been caught cheating a few times and shit always sucks
big time
>>677051949
hold up. is pic related?
>>677052047
How often do you cheat?
>>677051710
ding ding ding!
This OP, I rarely want to fuck my gf anymore, it's just not really one of my main interest anymore, but I still make sure to do it at least 1/2 times a months to make sure she's not fucking around, somewhere in their head it's fine to fuck another dude but fucking their bf as well is wrong.
>women are crazy, fuck your friend
>>677051949
You're pretty much in the exact same spot as me, except my gf isn't cheating on me
>>677050780
Who's this pic of?
>>677050780
>I'm 75% sure friend is DTF with me
Only drop suttle hints that you want to fuck her so you dont fuck up op
>>677051640
Does she blow when you need it? If she doesn't then you're good to go.
>>677051640
You "don't know"? You're a rook and don't know what love is. So since that's your outlook, tell her you're going to fuck another girl and don't be an std spreading douchebag.
Let me tell you something else man. Regret is a fucking dagger you can never remove from your heart if you really love her, gtfo of here with that nonsense, get your shit together and tell your old pal you can't meet up.
You sound 15 and full of shit
Man the fuck up
>>677052152
this. if shes not fucking you she's not attracted to you case closed
>>677052293
To your knowledge
>>677052293
Denial
>>677052275
oh. in any case, if she has a body similar to this go to fucking town bro
>>677052344
this OP.
Imagine this
>you and friend at house
>our hero, OP, leans in for kiss
>wtf you have a gf you asshole
>>677051949
Got anymore of this?
>>677050780
Do it if you think you won't get caught and you have enough mental fortitude not to feel guilty. Also please don't fuck the friend and then confess to your gf.
>>677052396
>>677052411
I understand why you say that but I literally know her whereabouts 100% of the time.
She goes to work and comes home, any time she's out I'm with her.
>>677052507
>tells ur gf u tried to kiss her
>gf rages
>beats you up (op sounds like a beta)
>says you raped her
>you go to jail
Does anyone know the name of the girl in ops pic?
>>677052370
>regret is a fucking dagger you can never remove from your heart
>Calls OP 15
>Can't deal with his own emotions
gtfo fag
>>677050780
>>Haven't had sex with my gf in over 3 months
LOL?
Why NOT?
Time to leave that sinking ship
>>677052293
Lol, mine isn't either. I know this for a fact.
>>677052302
I've no idea
>>677052345
She does not blow me. Hasn't given me a blowjob in years
>>677052370
Well, we're really happy together, to begin with. Secondly, I know to wear a condom. I'm not that much of a retard
>>677052344
I know. I have been. And so has she
>>677052508
No, sorry.
>>677052544
That'd be dumb of me
>>677052648
Life is harsh
>>677052776
She's.. different. Sexually
>>677050780
unless you know she's fooling round (whys she out of town, why don't you two fuck much??) DON'T do it.
It's not worth it.. her bitchy friend can fuck up everything you've ever built with this girl you love even if you can hold the lie don't assume her friend will. don't think with your dick too quick, been there done that. I'll never get my girl back and it fucks with my head because its 100% my fault. And you'll feel the same way if it ends because she'll forever be the one who got away.
you need to let your gf know she needs to step up with the sex.. over 3 months is crazy. Fuck her brains out regardless of whether she complains!! show her you're the boss. Try organizing a 3some, idk? if none of it works be blunt and tell her you need sum fuk.
also this
>>677051359
>>677052641
>Implying she isn't fucking dudes at work
If you're even seriously considering doing this, then your girlfriend is not the love of your life. Dump her and fuck this other chick
>>677052776
Tbf I haven't either, but that's mainly because I've "gone off" sex, think she's prob not kinky enough for me but considering she at best tolerates a finger in the ass there's no chance of her getting kinkier.
I'm happy to spend my life with her tho so it's not that big a deal to me, sex is massively overrated, unless you just bounce gf to gf having a month of honeymoon sex
>>677051640
>Thing is she usually doesn't want to have sex, and when we do, neither of us finish because she gets tired in like five minutes, and if I keep going, it hurts her.
Sounds like a deal breaker to make.
Why is she out of town op?
>>677052858
Still you have to be 100% sure shes going to touch your wang and not just flirting
>>677052858
>>677051640
>neither of us finish because she gets tired in like five minutes
>She's.. different. Sexually
Can't get each-others rocks off and you're still with her. You're already too far gone.
>>677052936
If she's fucking dudes while working as a waitress then fair fucks to her, she's pornstar level whore
>>677050943
>implying op could last 10 minutes
>>677050780
You are whats wrong in this world
>>677052858
Different how
>>677052773
Biiiiitch...
You have no experience to speak of. Otherwise you'd understand.
Don't blame me for your parents short comings of raising another douchebag into this already fucked up world
>>677052776
Instead of fixing shit, jump to the next cunt. That is why our society became the way it is today.
>inb4 all of your edges
>>677052293
here too. 3 years, i really REALLY want to fuck other types of girls. Can't decide though.
>>677053065
I know, right? Sexual compatibility is like 20% of a relationship.
>>677053361
>you have no experience to speak of
>has literally no idea about me or my life
Gtfo fag
>>677053247
Probably one of the easiest professions to fuck at work
>>677050780
Fuck her.
you'll regret it afterwards, even if she doesn't find out.
>>677053020
^ This
>>677053387
Seems to be the 3 year mark that's the sticky spell, gonna slug it out til 5 and see if shit improves, I'll try to remind myself to properly assess the situation every 3/4 months or s
>>677052908
Not her friend, she's my friend, and she despises her. I've talked to her about the sex and everything, she barely changed, best results I've gotten, tbh
>>677053020
Not necessarily true. Lust is different than love
>>677053065
Ikr. But she's a great person, y'know?
>>677053067
Visiting family. All they do is smoke weed, so nothing to worry about. Stay home all day.
>>677053136
75% sure
>>677053245
Probably
>>677053285
Lmao, right? This guy
>>677053357
She only gets turned on every once in a while. And by that, I mean it takes months most of the time.
>>677053484
I might
>>677053020
This guy already knows.
>>677053020
This is the best post ive seen yet
>>677053528
Guilt fades after a couple of days.
Have you cheated mate?
>>677053467
>Gtfo fag
Only canned response.
Good job pal
>>677053717
>only canned response
>fails to acknowledge the rest of the post
Gtfo fag
>>677053693
Not for a real man it doesn't.
If you're a coward, I guess it probably does..
>>677053600
lol so blunt about the situation. 2 years more man? I don't know, I just want to fuck all types of different women before I settle with this one, you get what i mean?
Anybody have any idea about the name of the girl in OPs pic?
>>677053285
>>677053943
>real man
>can't deal with emotions
gtfo fag
>>677053644
a lot of people say this but I think it isn't true. I think it's more of a lust vs love thing. Have you been in a 3+ years relationship?
>>677053943
You didn't answer the question...
How'd you know how it feels?
It was a mistake but I don't torture myself daily for it, you know?
You ever make peace with your mistakes faggot?
>>677050780
Fucks like you are the epitome of modern socitey
> something is broken
> doesnt attempt to fix
> goes for easy solution
>>677053917
>>677053950
I think about fucking other girls too, but I love my girlfriend more than anything, so if a situation came up where I could chest and get away with it, I can honestly say I wouldn't do it.
Then again, I'm not obsessed with getting my dick wet like you teenagers seem to be.
>>677054162
I have tried, actually.
>>677054216
Maybe because you're beta af
>>677053950
The way i say it:
Staying:
>Pros: House, security, good company, intimacy etc
>Cons: little sex
Leaving her to bang sluts
>Pros: (possibly) lots of sex
>Cons: Losing all direction and purpose in life in order to satisfy my dick
>>677053608
If she rarely gets in the mood, and don't take your needs in consideration, maybe the physical attraction is gone for her? I would leave the sinking ship OP
>>677054172
Thus endeth you're contribution to this thread, thank you.
>>677054350
I'll ask her about t tomorrow.
TBH you've already decided to do it. What people say on here won't change your mind. Even if you don't do it now, you will do it eventually. Once the idea has been made it will stay there.
>>677054133
That's it pal.
Tomorrow.
After school.
3 o'clock.
>>677054446
Maybe you are right
>>677054303
>beta
Yeah, being a mature adult in a stable and loving relationship sure is beta as fuck.
Have fun never being being happy, because you're going to fuck up every relationship you have if this is your attitude.
>>677054446
Inception style
>>677054446
This tbf, if you ask it egenrally just means you're wanting someone to say "it's okay, go do it"
>>677054216
Speaks the truth
>>677054425
We need pics of the friend for proper advice.
>>677054492
>drops bag
>>677054559
Okay, thanks for your cooperation. Every little bit helps
>>677054651
No
>>677054216
hmm I guess we're on a different boat then. it's been roughly 3 years and 4 months, and lately I've been wanting to fuck almost every hot chick I see walk past. I just imagine myself plowing them. Did not used to think of it much. It's really bothering me lately lol. I mean, what's the harm, just gonna fuck some chick for lust, come back to da one cause I love her.
>>677054322
kek'ed
>>677053020
Some men are not wise. Some men very.
>>677050780
>I love my girlfriend very much, but I just need to fulfill my sexual needs, and masturbating's not cutting it for me. Any advice?
Yeah dumb the frigid bitch and get a new g/f because that shit never ever fucking changes.
Don't do it /b/ro. I fucked my crazy ex (who I loved before) while being in a relationship with an awesome girl. Now I sit here alone and talk to neither of them, every day regreting the moment I did it.
>>677054719
So you gonna do it, I'd say no man, happy relationship w no sex >>> losing gf and maybe sex
>Anon who is also living your life
>>677054350
3+ years here. Yeah, if she rarely has sex with you, definitely need to leave that sinking ship.Or alternatively, fix it OP. To have a healthy working relationship there has to have some sexual attraction/sex, no joke
So you gonna post a pic of the two girls or what?
What part of the world are you situated in?
>>677054809
I don't really want to. Best pal I've ever had.
>>677054922
Lmao, good point on the maybe sex, lol. Props
>>677054913
How'd it all happen?
>>677050780
Speaking as someone who learned the hard way, it's not worth it. I've been on both sides of it. Cheated, and also been the one a friend's significant other cheated with. You risk losing what matters.
>>677054441
Do that. How old are you guys anyway? Maybe just say it as it is. That you been thinking about leaving her because it means alot to you, being intimate.
>>677054719
>No
Could be a faceless pic, just to know what you're risking your relationship for.
>>677050780
your girlfriend has sexual needs too anon.
go get yours. she prob is too.
HA HA HA HA WELCOME TO MY WORLD GADGET I TOLD YOU NEXT TIME ALL ALONG!
ALL ALONG GADGET
HAHAHAHAHAHA THIS TIME GADGET
T H I S T I M E
Lol at all these betas in this thread
>>677053065
you sound like you suck at sex
do it faggot
>>677055339
Game recognize game, eh?
Poo butt ass nigga.
Does the other girl have a boyfriend?
>>677055326
Don't listen to Dr. Claw, Anon
>>677051640
If it hurts when you're fucking, then cut bait and run. If sex is tough now. It'll only get worse after marriage.
I speak from experience. Find someone you want to build a life with, but more importantly, can lay the wood to.
Fuckin wife is tripping out on over jerkin it to porn. Its not my faumlt I cabt get a finger in without it hurting. also never wants to fuck. Never get married faggots. Its a trap. Im ganna go fuck my friends wife. I already asked her if shes dtf and she said yeah.
>>677055165
I haven't been thinking about leaving her. That's the last thing I want. I just want to be more sexually active with her, but we're so different in our sexual needs, y'know? I get horny much more often than she does, and it's bothersome. We've talked about it , too. We're both 23
>>677055180
No. Besides, the pics don't do her body justice
>>677055541
Yes. She cheats, though, so, doesn't really factor in.
>>677055599
Almost got me
>>677055640
I'm planning a lot in my head rn
you're a fucking idiot for even considering this. dont boast about how much you love your girlfriend and then go off and fuck someone else. pull your head out of your ass and
talk to gf about more sex
masturbate
either way dont be a fucking idiot
>>677055770
If it gets to do or die time, ask for an open relationship, if nah then try to end it amicably
>>677050780
>I just need to fulfill my sexual needs
I can't control myself and rather than talking about it with the so called "love of my life", I'd rather cheat on her with some rando I consider hotter.
You're either 16 (and yes, I read that "for 3 years" part) or a complete asshole or even both.
>>677055527
The fuck does that even mean lol
>>677055821
Sorry for not meeting your expectations, anon.
>>677055948
Lmao, neither of those will ever happen
OK has anyone noticed how many trips there have been in this thread holyyy fuck. Btw the pics he is posting now are Danni Meow.
>3 months no sex
This is NOT normal OP. How much do you love this girl? Can you really spend the rest of your life in a sexually deprived relationship? Because unless you foresee marrying her, I really don't see any reason to stay committed.
Shit or get off the pot.
>>677050780
1 in the hand is worth 2 in the bush. Never forget it and you will live long and prosperous. It's a long game, and yes, some that take chances do find reward, but most do not. Please, take my advice and use your mind to make decisions instead of your penis.
>>677050780
Obviously fucking fake- if yall were in love, and i'm guessing younger, youd be fucking a lot. Either way, you'd have sex and not be in a dry spell with the supposed love of your life. If she was all that, you wouldnt even be thinking of sneaking around to fuck someone else. Bitch ass.
>>677056035
Exactly.
>>677050780
since you accepted to see her at your house when your gf is not there your fucked up your life with your gf do fuck your friend if possible and dont ever to your gf because whoever happen if your gf know your friend come at your house she would never believe anything than your cheat on her... so fuck your friend that's the better choice OR see your gf out of our house
>>677055121
Sry for the lack of greentext cba now.
Basically, I had a 1.5y "relationship" with that crazy bitch who was 'depressed' for basically the whole duration of it even tho we were pretty compatible. Not once we had sex because she wasn't into it. Btw she was 10/10 by my standards (petite, blonde, perky tits, great ass). Enter new girl, smart, 7/10 with great tits, redhead, loyal af. She was everything I needed after that failure I had. Thing is she was from another town, and even though we had great time together and always sex'd we didn't see eachother as often as we'd like. After 6m or so enter crazy bitch with promises how she'd be better etc. the usual shit. And since she was available at the time i just had to stick my dick in it (now I know why you never stick your dick in crazy). Best sex I ever had. Fast forward a month, decide to try it out again with the crazy bitch since she was there with me. Breakup with current awesome gf. Crazy bitch becomes depressed again and leaves. I end up alone, fucking up my life and life of a girl i started falling in love with for a piece of pussy.
I am everything that's wrong with this world.
>>677056048
A HOLE FOR ALL OF AFRICA
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HFISx1j0kak
>>677054723
Then you're stuck keeping the friend happy.
Chicks who are side chicks want attention too and get jealous af.
That one fuck may be a potential mine field for years to come.
>experience.
>>677055770
OP, just make a fucking decision. I don't know what the fuck you expected asking 4chan to solve your damn problems, unless you're just that much of a betafag. Sex is an important part of a relationship, and if it's not working out in the bedroom, it probably won't work out overall, as a general rule. Plus. Women get horny a lot more than you might think. If she's not interested, you're probably getting cuckolded.
>>677052047
its because you're a sub tier human
>>677050780
>Haven't had sex with my gf in over 3 months
>love of my life
0/10 bait, not even mad
>>677053608
Is your gf on birth control OP? Sometimes that dramatically lowers a gal's sex drive. If it takes months there has gotta be something wrong that you should probably figure out before drastic measures.
>>677055770
But you have Been thinking about fucking some1 else. If your Girl loved you she would satisfy your needs. Right?
>>677056009
Just because you can't get your dick up doesn't mean you have to bash on those who can, man. C'mon
>>677056105
I do see a better future for us somehow
>>677056119
I'll try
>>677056204
Lust does not equal love
>>677056214
Maybe
>>677056291
God damn....
>>677056335
Huzza
>>677056455
I'm asking for advice, not for them to make a choice for me
>>677056575
Not on BC
>>677056654
Like I said, she's different
>>677056455
I have a question for you then. What if it ONLY works out in the bedroom? like the sex is incredible and fun and she makes you so horny all the time but whenever you arent fucking you seem to bicker?
My girlfriend is ONLY horny on sunday mornings. its the weirdest thing in the entire world. I still dont get it.
>>677053608
Sauce???
>>677054723
you don't seem to even realize how much you'd be hurting your girlfriend (and relationship) you're undermining her intelligence by thinking she won't find out, either. they always find out, they can smell it on you. AND IT NEVER ENDS WELL. IS IT WORTH IT? IS IT REALLY?
>>677053693
nope just not that type of person
>>677050780
do it broheim. coming from a guy who is still with his highschool sweetheart after 9 long years. ive cheated on her twice she on me once. itll either force you two to be closer, or itll viciously tear you apart and show that you guys arent that compatible because you cant handle a little bumpy road. fuck the friend like youve never fucked before. blow your own mind with the moves and the duration in your sex romp. then "break down" and tell your gf about it. go on the rant of how you couldnt handle it, you had no ill intent, didnt mean to cheat but that she made the move and your 3month build up took over. tell her you regret it and youd change it but that you see an opportunity to grow as a couple through this.
put your own spin on it of course, you guys might end up taking a break. but itll probably work out, especially if youre younger.
so not only will it bring you two together, but itll give you a chance to bring up your sex life and what you expect out of it. the things you need in your life ad the things you want to try yaddayadda, that you shouldnt have to deny an entire part of your life because thats not really living.
>tl;dr: Pros: you fuck a hot girl and ultimately bring your real relationship closer.
>Cons:you fuck a hot girl and potentially gain a new relationship.
youre young. live it up and make some mistakes.
>>677056933
Haha girls are fucking dumb. Unless your a total retard it really couldnt be easier
>>677056818
Dude my brother is the same way.
>>677056818
That's more often than mine, lol
>>677056851
Wish I knew. Maybe Google Image search
>>677057053
I've read about that pro of cheating. It convinces me in a way.
>>677056745
Then it might not work out. It honestly depends. If one out both of us is willing to compromise on things, there's a chance. I will admit, my general rule has a lot of exceptions. It's usually right in these types of cases, though.
>>677054809
You sound pretty young. So I'd better say this, from experience.
A good relationship has to have a reasonable amount of (preferably good) sex. Without it, the relationship will inevitably die. In your case, what I'd guess would happen is: you go on the way you are. You get more frustrated. GF won't budge, won't get help, see a doctor or shrink, whatever--that's if you even press her, which you probably won't, because you don't actually believe that you deserve a good sex life. But you do. Anyway, sooner or later you will come to the attention of some woman who is less complacent and a little smarter than your gf--or at least, more worldly-wise. She will set her sights on you, and she won't stop until she has you.
Whether or not that relationship works out will have a lot to do with whether you're just overwhelmed or if you really do fall for girl number 2. You will grieve for hurting your present gf and you may even miss her now and then. She will go on to make some other normal guy sexually frustrated.
The alternative is you get assertive, sit your gf down and make it clear to her: sooner or later your relationship will tank if you don't get your needs met. Encourage doctor, shrink, whatever.
Her behavior isn't normal. You need to do something.
Fuck this other girl if you need incentive to work much harder on your relationship with your gf. Maybe you do need a reminder of what you are missing to make it worth your effort.
Don't make cheating a lifestyle. If you like your adventure with your old friend too much, bear in mind you'd be at risk of doing it again, and again, instead of working on your relationship.
Also: are there any perverts in your gf's family or family friends? Getting molested as a kid fucks women up sexually. Whether they're frigid or nympho, it does affect their sexuality. Unfortunately that shit's pretty common so if your gf doesn't have an actual medical/hormonal reason for her issue, well, there ya go. Or--is she closeted?
>>677052858
Lol get rid of your girlfriend, you really wanna spend the rest of your life with that? Never pleasuring your self? She obviously doesn't give a fuck about you if she doesn't take sex seriously. Fuck your friend bro and then dump ya gf. Too easy
>>677056737
Then take her to a doctor OP! What do you want us to say or do? That its okay for you to cheat if long enough time has passed?
>>677057053
???
>cheat on your gf
>everything will work out
>you'll get closer
do people really think like this? 4chan fucking terrifies me.
>>677056699
All I'm (>>677056009) saying is that, in my experience, communication is everything. And before cheating on a girl he claims to love, he should maybe talk to her and try to work the problem out together. Because that's what, you know, adults do. If he doesn't love her (anymore), then the only fair thing would be ending it and THEN starting something with the other chick.
>>677057210
well, we mostly fight because i say something retarded or i get jealous and she gets stubborn. but we always work through it.
Look, you break up with your girlfriend, this friend will no longer want to fuck. It's just how females function. On the other hand, you fuck her without ending stuff, you're a massive piece of shit. You say you're happy with your girlfriend but you obviously aren't compatible, sexually speaking. A healthy sexual relationship in which both partners are satisfied is important for anything to be fun in the longterm. So break up with your girlfriend and receive what repercussions may follow like a man. Don't go crawling back if the friend doesn't want to fuck. Basically, be a man. A man takes care of his business.
>>677056699
The point was that you are not in love or care about this "girlfriend" when you act and think selfishly. Sex is not THAT important--but go ahead and use your dick as the head to follow; that usually works ::that was sarcasm by the way::
>>677056699
Op im literally in the same exact boat. Honestly i think your me posting from the future. My GF hasnt had sex in 3 months either barely does anything and never ever is in the mood. Its the fucking worst shit ever and i want to leave every fucking day. I say do it, you've given her plenty enough chances to fucking change. Best of luck anon
>>677057480
Only dudes who have never been inside a girl think that way...duh
>>677050780
Gaaaah someone must know this, who the hell is this girl?
>>677057480
most of the time it does not work. dont go into a relationship saying "im gonna cheat on her to make her my super GF" but sometimes the oppurtunity presents itself in such a way that you can grow from it, rather than close a chapter/open a chapter.
>>677057457
I might do only one of those things then keep on with my life. It'll probably give me closure somehow, lmao
>>677057463
Not really, just advice on what to do and stories
>>677057487
We've talked about it. Multiple times. Barely changes anything.
>>677057518
Basically am, haha, The pussy way, if you wanna call it that
>>677057718
Best of luck to you too, my distant friend
>>677057730
Reverse image search
>>677050780
If you haven't fucked your girl in over 3 months and you're not in your 60's I've got some bad news for you....
At this point you might as well move on. She already has, you're an ornament.
>>677057921
I have reverse image searched its just a bunch of spam sites.
>>677051640
wtf man how can you love such a piece of sexual trash
>>677058088
Fuck, bro
>>677058103
Sorry for your loss
>>677058128
Personality changes everything. Plus love is blind
Hey OP, Sounds like you're in a tough dilemma. I feels bro. I was in your shoes and I'll tell you exactly what I did and how it played out.
>Be me with love of my life 2 years strong
>Join military and have to move a thousand miles away
>Talks everyday with gf, have some rough spots but remain in love
>Meet a girl very different from current gf, hot ass, DTF
>Gets in fight with GF, result in going through with fucking other girl due to not getting any for a few months.
>Fuck this girl like 7 times in a month, all while maintaining relationship with gf.
>Other girl asks if I will leave my gf, I say no so she argues with me and our fuck buddy relationship ship ends. Never talk again.
>Realizes that GF still loves and cares about me even though I am a piece of shit
>I am now married to this woman and I get times when I regret what I did. I wish I didnt. It was fucking stupid and wrong and now I have to love with that. No I will never tell my wife. And no OP, don't fucking do it. But if you do, keep it to yourself. Don't let your girl suffer.
>>677057203
Found sauce from reddit. allysaamour
>>677058495
I'll suffer before she ever does, anon. Thanks for sharing your story
>>677058240
her personality cant be that great if shes not willing to satisfy you; personality and sexuality belong together, its nothing separate. she MUST be willing to give you what you need to be happy and you need to tell her what you need to be happy
>>677058495
Ignore my typos, I'm on my 7th beer. Hope my story gives you some insight.
>>677057921
If the rest of your relationship is amazing, it's not worth ruining. Just have to find the right line of communication to improve the sex bit. I'd give anything for a relationship with more depth than just sex. That's all I've had.
As for advice, let's be honest: you either have empathy or you don't. If you think it's okay to cheat, nothing anyone says will really change that. Since you came here to ask, you clearly feel some measure of guilt about it.
>>677050780
find gf
>over 5 years now
>only had 1 partner in life
>starting to feel urge to have more
>gf works at night shift
>gf promises her old coursemate crash at our place
>frustrated coursemate
>equal face
>worse boobs
>better stomach, ass, legs
>gf at work
>coursemate at door
>make the bed
>see her undress
>touch inner thigh
>end up with rough sex
>literally the best feeling to see someone else moan and get off my dick
Results:
>had 2nd sexual partner
>massive confidence boost in bed
>realised how much more effort i put in fucking her coursemate that i felt bad that don't do it with my gf
>openly tell about it to gf
>tells that its acceptable for one time only
>still together
>lessons learned
Just change the way you think. Put more effort in it. Communicate and solve problems.
>>677058696
She does give me what I want and need... Temporarily
>>677058775
I do feel guilt already, just for thinking about it
>>677058631
Not the girl in OPs thing.
>>677058889
well if youd be sexually satisfied, banging that girl wouldnt be an issue, would it? dont tell me you've not wanted sex in the past three months or a bj in the last years..
>>677050780
Gota beol 100% sure
>ask for nudes
>post results
>>677058240
>cute as fuck
Would tap dat ass
>>677056933
It's just so tempting to fuck a hot bitch, sigh
>>677059034
It is the one in the gif. /r/RealGirls/comments/3fva9r/cute_teen/
>>677050780
From what i have learned from past experiences..
> 3 months and none sex? Out of town? Gets botes after 5?
Neither she's cheating on you, or already have done it and didn't have the balls to make a move.
> she hates tour friend?
Normal thing, bit sometimes, hides something else. It's like an afraid to know that you can do cheating as well as hell.
> no one can said that never cheated. Just make a balance if is worth the risk.
>>677059268
She's actually camming right now surprisingly
>>677058859
I feel like doing this will actually make me treasure my girlfriend more, somehow. I'll just feel more... Liberated
.>>677059081
Haven't said I haven't been wanting sex in the past three months. This whole thread is about me wanting to have sex but need to cheat in order to do so.
>>677059249
Already have them. Not posting resounding results
>>677059271
She is afraid that I'll cheat on her with that friend, lol. And right now, she has all the right to e
>>677057836
you have mental problems
>>677059627
>>677059249
Then fuck both of them
>>677059627
BREAK UP WITH YOUR GIRLFRIEND
she deserves better than someone who would cheat on her so easily, and its not going to get any better after you do it, dumb fuck.
>>677058240
It is what it is man. No reason to dance around it. If you respect yourself and value the limited amount of time you have in this life it is your duty to correct the situation.
Ask your gf if it would be okay to have an open relationship seeing as how your sexual needs are not being met. I have known plenty of guys that have an open relationship even after years of marriage and children.
>>677060119
Don't know until I try. That is if I try
>>677060152
I've tried
>>677060229
It'll be a no
>>677053285
I barely have sex but it takes me 30. I wish I could only last 10 minutes
Really there's no dilemma.
Leave your gf, you're not happy anymore. Leave her before kids stuff.
Then take care of you: workout, work, find yourself, know what you want and what you DO NOT want anymore. When you will feel happy by yourself chicks will come to you, don't worry about it bro.
Take care of you and be true to yourself.
>>677060410
Best thing I've read in this thread, tbh... Thanks, man...
>>677050780
>Haven't had sex with my gf in over 3 months
She's already checked out of the relationship and is probably banging someone on the side - especially if she is out of town for a few days - either she is banging a co-worker or she will pick someone up.
Fuck your 8-9 friend as a rebound thing and leave your GF- in whatever order - 3 months without sex isn't a relationship - unless she is pregnant or some shit.
>>677059627
Of course. sometimes the woman's sixth sense, actually make sense. Tell me something, how's she in daily? You live together? Is a fighter?
Sorry for mistakes, dumb huawei's spanish predictor
>>677051782
This. Don't listen to all the pussy whipped round table over here. Cheat on girlfriends but never a wife/babymomma
>>677060518
This is OP, btw
>>677060537
Lmao, she isn't pregnant. Haven't cum in her in a long time
What do you mean by how she is daily? No, we don't live together. She can be. And it's alright, my pal
>>677060304
If your needs aren't being met and there is no way around it you should just break up with her and not waste anymore of either of your time or hers. If you have needs that aren't being met it will put a strain on your relationship that won't go away. Is your relationship romantic at all? Is it basically best friends with slight romance?
>>67706090
It has romance, but no sexual adventures or anything of the sort.
>>677050780
dont do it ,
she will find out and your relationship will never be the same. 6 years together, cheated on my fiance, she hasnt been the same since, very quiet, doesnt say cute things to me anymore and seems overall " down". I wish it was back to how it use to be... i dont even know why i cheated.
>>677061175
Don't make me cry, man....
>>677050780
Sounds like you're girl was like mine, 3 years of blue balls couldn't wait any longer. She did go down a fair bit
>>677061270
Did you cheat on that
Or with that?
>>677061451
Neither. Random girl
>>677060518
You're welcome bro
>>677050780
Which one of u has the pussy? Take ur gf and fuck her in the ass. Don't be a betafag.... I also wouldn't do it I did a similar thing and it fucked up a lot of shit
>>677061588
Like this pic man
>wish my girl was bi
>huge FFM fantasy
>girl is super Christian
>2 years
>no sex of any kind
>>677050780
no sex in 3 months would justify a lot for me to get as soon as I can
why hasn't she fucked you for that long?
and who said she will find out
>>677053950
For your sake lets hope SHE doesn't find out about you experiencing all these different women
>>677061867
they always find out girls are like FBI or some shit .......
>>677062025
my ex never found out
>>677061832
I'm not a rapist
>>677061853
My fav pic
>>677061867
No one will
>>677050780 how do u kno she's not cheating on u? 3 months with no sex and she's out of town? Op she's with a huge alpha right now kill urself so she knows it was her FUALT
I call bollocks on the whole 3 months no sex but our relationship is very much ok. Obvious b7.
Also, I get the feeling there are girls in this thread, Lots of reddit-like shitposting advice sideing with the gf, with no images ( bishez don't save reaction faces or keep a /b/ folder).
>>677052641
Then y u not with her now? Ur a fag op she's like a 2/10 if this story is even true
>>677061338
>one flew over the cucks nest.pdf
>>677060518
You're welcome bro>>677062283
BTW I'm sorry to use my brain and share my experice dude.
>>677060844
Ok, if she's cool most of the time, of she is jealous for none reasons.. How she react with the lack of sex, are you her first s.xual partner? maybe i have carlos sainz's bad luck, but the third year in a relation is jinxed, it happened twice to me and really sucks, no matter your effort
>>677050780
>no sex in 3 months
She's already cucking you. Believe it or not, girls desire sex as well. For her to go 3 months without release, don't you think she might be giving Laquan a call?
>>677062678
She doesn't really care about the lack of sex, lmao. And yeah, we're each other's first time
>>677062781
Eh
>>677050943
Honestly probably
>>677062252
Great ass!!
More?
>>677055770
>we're both 23.
Here's the ticket. She's not the love of your life. This relationship is over, except you both think that you're "supposed to be with each other" but you're not. You've grown apart but are so "we've put so much time in" and you're both too chicken shit to pull the plug. Do it. You'll both be happier in the long run
>>677055770
How big is your dick? Do you think you're bigger than her boyfriend?
>>677056699
Op it's just a fucking dry spell everyone goes through them get the fuck over it. Is this a one time thing? Bc I speak from experience and side chicks are not a good idea....
>>677062878
Maybe that's the reason of why sex is not working with you two. Thought about trying to make her hornier before sex? Maybe she didn't got all way down and you (unintentionally) hurt her cause of not quite humid vg. Maybe i'm overreacting, but its a possible. Try gaining some experience with this gal
>>677063272
This
>>677054446
holy new fag
>>677063373
Oh damn op, you got a small dick?
>>677059627
dont do it man.
>>677050780
>cheat
>>677050780
Talk with your gf?
>>677050780
Based on reading all of these posts, I think you've already decided.
K
>>677062283
THIS IMAGE
DELETE IT
TRIGGERED
>>677051710
this
>>677065282
definitely.
probably bait thread.
Trophy lay, OP. You said she's a 9/10 you have to do it.
>>677050780
Your girl is cheating on you anyway, so fuck your friend. Your girl isn't putting out so get it elsewhere. Gotta fuck while we can still get it up! Use your cock my friend, my advice? FUCK YOUR FRIEND! I wish I was in your situation to be honest. My girlfriend and I NEVER fuck anymore. Last time we fucked was January 8th of this year... before that? Sometime in October. All I ever do is jack off. I have no female friends, but im telling you if I did? And she was DTF? I'd fuck the shit out of that friend with no regrets. For now? I'll live vicariously through you. Fuck your friend for the both of us!!
>She does not blow me. Hasn't given me a blowjob in years
>Cuck Norris.VHS
>>677053315
>>677053528
>>677054216
>>677053020
Your reddit is showing.
>>677050780
>>677051640
You can't even get her off lmao
>>677052858
>I know to wear a condom
OP just do it with your friend. Your girlfriend is trash and you're a retarded virgin, but you might actually have a chance with your friend.
>>677050780
Have you tried actually talking to your girl about the lack of sex?
>>677050943
/thread
If you are even thinking of fucking the other girl, you were never really in love with your current GF to begin with. Don't make other people sad because you are not happy.
>>677050780
If you REALLY love your girlfriend, don't fuck your friend. Sticking your cock in another girl you don't love just for the sake of cumming isn't worth fucking up your relationship with your girlfriend. Honestly.. she hasn't fucked you in 3 months? Cry me a river.. my girl hasn't put out in over 6 months now.. ALMOST 7... shes older than I am.. and lost her sex drive as far as I can tell (that or shes cheating, but I have found ZERO proof of if that's the case). Either way... I love her.. so I stay faithful to her... and you should too with your girl.
>>677067373
femanons, femanons everywhere
OP, you are pure alpha if you fuck the 9/10 slut. Powerfuck her too, for me, I haven't had poosie for a full year.
Whisper to her ear when your bringing the pain, "this is for anon", I will instantly telepatically sense this and it will be like me fucking your dick. We will be eternal dick brothers. Good luck.
>>677050780
Hey, im in a similar situation. Just imagine that i have a 10/10 gf and a friend 10/10.
This goes now for 11 years. (I know my friend for a longer time than my girl.)
Believe me, i had thousands of opportunities to bang her. But I did not. And how thankful I am. Life changed everything so that my friend is now working together with my girl. And I am cool as ice. Imagine what would be if I would have done her?
Life is strange.
>>677068386
>*fucking with your dick
there, fixed.
>>677067373
Hahahah
Do you even polyamerous?
>>677068386
this
>>677068497
End your life
Fuck your friend, and if someone ever finds out. Accuse her for rape
>>677068497
No one enjoys time they have to spend with you
>>677068923
F U 2
>>677068553
>polyamerous
Things people say to justify cheating for 400
>>677068497
Nice trips
Here's the thing OP, you need to learn how to fuck a girl so she wants more, the problem is not with her sexdrive, it's with you man. I used to be in a relationships like you (4 years - she ended up cheating on me) were she didn´t have the same drive as me (we thought). Honestly I wasn´t being alfa enough, I didn´t have my own thing going (like a passion / hobby). We broke up after she cheated and I went on to fucking around with meaningless girls until I found one worthy of me. I also had started playing the guitar and loved it. Me and this new girl have been together for 4,5 years now and even tho we don´t have sex several times a day, like in the start of the relationship, we still fuck like crazy when we do. I fuck my girl like she is my slut and plaything today. I decide when and who is in charge. I don´t fuck her everyday, sometimes not even in a week, but this is because I have other things to do that are fun also. That keeps her wanting me more then me wanting her, but as long as I fuck her brains out when we fuck, she is fine.
TLDR: Learn how to fuck your girl, the right way, like a true alfa, and don't cheat.
>>677069006
You never clean your foreskin so your dick smells weird
>>677069060
You are not even close to the best lay she's ever had
>>677069228
>being this insecure with cuck tendencies
fuck her no balws
>>677050943
Actually this anon is right, if you have built a good relationship with your current girlfriend and honestly think she's the love of your life don't be a fucking idiot.
Fap twice and you will sea how it's not worthy. I'm in a relationship for 6 years now, don't listen the permavirgins fags here.
>>677052152
Yeah, but lets be realistic here.. I am only expelling the effort to say this because you have 3 years under your belt with your gf. You need to ask your friend if she has ever gotten cold sores. If she has it is highly contagious and is actually herpes and will fuck with your health. (and im not just talking about a simple mark on your face. If your gf gets it and later down the road you decide to have a kid, your infant kid has a high chance of complication due to the herpes. I am not trying to scare you, but you need to be a little more closed minded about who you decide to have sex with; their are mishaps with vaccines that has caused an unintended effect that was spreaded via sexual contact/bodily fluid exchange.) their are people who purposely infected themselves so they could over time infect the mass population so aliens would have no choice but to kill them and reap all the "pure" intentioned left overs.
>>677069499
Cut the faggotry, you homo. OP is probably nailing the slut as we speak. And stop trying to cockblock strangers on the internet.
>>677069228
I really don't care who she counts as the best lay, she is addicted to my dick now. Thats the whole point. And she is the best sex I have ever had.
Whats your name fellow anon?
>>677069895
> permavirgins i was takling about
Turn her on to black cock. This will reawaken her desire for sex. She'll leave you but you'll get to witness the reawakening.
>>677071579
>trapped in shitty marriage with a 4/10
>relationship guru and sex life expert
>on the internet nobody knows I'm a dog
>>677071943
This always reawakens a person's lust for life in general.
>>677050780
Not worth it OP.
Take it from someone who did it, and paid the price.
I would literally give anything I own today, just to have her back.
Just talk to GF about why no sex, and propose for sex to be reintroduced. If she really does feel the same about you, there shouldn't be any issue or conflict, and you two should be like rabbits again.
>>677054322
>
this post is gold
>>677071943
Black cock is the answer to most problems. Lack of black cock is a problem.
>>677050780
Pro tip:
> Haven't had sex with my gf in over 3 months
She isn't the love of your life mate if she isn't satisfying your needs. Lifes too short to not get fucked right.
>>677051766
No, you're a retard.
>>677050780
Its been 3 months since your gf drained your balls? Fuck OP shes cheating on you anyways you should 100% go for it and enjoy it you deserve it for being such a sap.
>>677073407
triggered?
>>677050780
Just be human. If your gf won't find out, what's the lose? You only have an estimated 20thousend days to fully enjoy my friend, you better make them yours.
>>677056933
They cant smell shit, girls are emotionally driven idiots.
>>677050780
Or, you could just have, you know.. The talk.
>>677052370
True about the dagger thing bro.
I've cheated my gf after 2 years of relationship. We broke up after 6 years and it's been almost a year now. I still feel regrets about doing it even tho we aren't together.
The problem is, the sex was fantastic.
>>677050780
3 month is a really long period. I understand it can be disturbing since fucking regularly with someone and filling her needs is the basics of every relationship.
the rest is a fucking lie made of complexed, low-self esteem girls who pretend to be "better than this"
but everyone wants to fuck. so everything is fucking normal.
being in loev with someone and being sexually attracted by someone else is not specially wrong, but love is about caring for each other. if you gf does not care about your needs, so you're torturing yourself while she's on someone else.
possibilities for you:
>fuck your old pal, realize youre ine love with your old pal, dump your gf and be happy
>fuck your old pal, jizz in seconds since youre sexually frustrated by gf, being a slave of your love and regretting this immediately, and stay with your girl in a shitty situation you wont dare to question because of guilt
>fuck you old pal, feels better, start not giving a fuck about your weird gf, eventually cheat on her again since she seems to enjoy it
