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ask a psychologist anything
>>676846225
Why do you crave attention?
>>676846225
Why is OP obsessed with putting dicks in his ass?
>>676846560
It is a natural part of the human psyche.
>>676846728
Quite the assumption there. Perhaps there is something you are afraid to admit to yourself?
>>676846225
How do I help my depressive gf who doesn't want any help?
>>676846982
TALK HER INTO AN HIRO'ING
I can't stop talking to bitches, it's started to cause strain on my relationship. Why do not not feel guilty for it all?
>>676846982
Build a support network, be encouraging and show support.
I like to emotionally abuse my girlfriend. I tell her she's worthless and nobody will ever love her as much as I do and she believes it and I degrade her further and then I get off to it. She lets me do anything to her. Why do I enjoy this?
>>676846225
Why couldn't you get into med school?
>>676847159
You may not feel connected to your current relationship, and it may be time to let go.
>>676847260
Seems to be some sort of fetish, see an actual psychologist
>>676847287
lafd
>>676847315
Nah I feel super connected were perfect together l. But don't feel guilt so cheating and talking to bitches
>>676846936
No, that's just the way it is. Birds fly, fish swim, grass grows, OP is a massive faggot.
OP here guys, sorry meant Astrologist* not psychologist
What can i do to manage anxiety without the use of prescriptions/getting high
>>676846225
How's the first year psyc course treating you, champ?
>>676846225
How do I beat insomnia and fight off insanity
So my gf of 8 months let me borrow her laptop. In the case I found a journal of hers from years back. I read it and deeply regret it . She's very open and honest in it about being molested as a child. She has never brought this up to me. What should/can I do. Don't wanna tell her I read her journal but can't stop thinking about what was in it. I'm lost at what to do. Pls help
>>676846225
How's high school kiddo?
fucked any pacients, bro?
>>676848216
Dear lord i'm not even a psychologist and even I know damn well you don't admit to seeing what you weren't supposed to. Put the thoughts away in a deep part of your mind and lock them away forever.
>>676847944
the dodo bird didn't fly... chickens don't fly...
>>676848216
>Hey bb lets roleplay
Reenact everything that happens in her journal to the very last detail.
She'll get the message.
>>676848143
That's just the way it is
Is Bucky a real badger?
>>676846225
practicing psychologist, current or graduated psych major, or just some loser who has taken an intro to psych course and now thinks they know the intricacies of how the human mind works?
>>676848807
chickens fly idiot
>>676848216
put it away until she brings it up, then never admit to seeing it beforehand, just be ready for whenever she brings it up.
>>676846225
Have you felt yourself change?
I guess that's all I can do. Is just be as open and honest as I can and wait to see if she ever want a to open up toe about it . Sucks though.was thinking about considering proposing. I'm 30 she's 25 and was thinking she was the one I wanted to try to spend the rest of my life with. Worse part is it makes it sound like it was her dad (not positive ). And I've met this mofo. If it was him he still is in her life. ...fuck me
>>676848216
Just don't bring it up. You make it sound like it hasn't affected her life, so just forget about it.
>>676849588
How can you be ready?
>>676847260
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pFeDOqgoE-k
This should help you a bit
>>676849693
Dude, i swear like half of all chicks have been raped or molested and like an eighth of all guys have been molested.
Grow the fuck up.
All social sciences except economics are shit tier
>>676846225
why do i like loli porn?
>>676846225
How does it feel to be a glorified behaviorist without a shred of relevant scientific background?
You're not even the nurse to the doctor. You're the front desk intern in the psychology/psychiatry analogy.
>>676849997
By not acting like some stupid whiteknight irrational fuck who vows to kill whoever harmed her. That's how. That isn't what she wants when/if she ever tells you.
>>676846225
Why do you like pretending to be a psychologist?
>>67684622
fiance of 4 years left me on valentines day without a word and without taking anything, changed her number and supposedly is in a nother state. There was literally no sign of anything wrong, she simply walked out the front door while i was cooking a special valentines day dinner for her.
Why would someone leave 4 years out of nowhere and will she ever come back or make contact again?
>>676849997
you just listen and dont say anything
my gf was molested as a kid too (so she says), i just didnt say anything because i dont really care and now she doesnt bring it up any more
Why do I hate myself?
>>676850207
You may be a pedophile
>>676846225
Why do I talk to myself a loud all the time
>>676846225
Are you rogerian?
>>676846225
Sometimes i rage with no Reason.
Explain.
Im always sad and tired
wouldn't mind death/10
why?
>>676846225
Why do I like incest porn?
>>676848143
Try meditation
>>676850436
>Why would someone leave 4 years out of nowhere and will she ever come back or make contact again?
youll never know dude, so who the fuck cares?
bitches are crazy, they don't do rational things. you're looking for a rational answer.
delete her number, delete her off everything, move on with life. save up for a trip to central america or something and enjoy fresh new hotter pussy
>>676846225
Do you like dicks?
>>676850436
She left you for another guy and considers you a chapter closed on her life.
You're a cuck.
>>676846225
Why cant i upload images using the app on my iphone?
>>676850322
Would never harm anyone but would confront her dad if it was him and cut him out of her life. ...but fuck....she still has one with him after all these years. ..that's why I need professional help....
>>676846225
Why are you trolling /b? Provide necesary details, and if femme, show /b your bosom.
>>676847260
How did you find one of those mate? I tried this twice and both girls run away. I just want a loyal gf to emotionally abuse and never let her out of my sight
>>676846225
why don't i have any self control?
>>676849997
I'd just want someone to listen, not say anything, not offer to solve my problems, just sit there and listen. When I was done it would be nice to sip wine and loaf on the couch in my significant other's embrace. Just me though, your results may vary but if you admit you know and force her to face her problems when she isn't prepared she'll just resent you for pushing her.
>>676850541
You may be depressed. Talk to someone about it
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ni-Gqp9-
>>676850799
You could have a personality disorder
Talk to someone about it.
>>676850845
Depression
Talk to someone about it
>>676850856
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7U8bhJHlrVI
>>676851317
Elaborate
For the past 5 years I'd been pushing every that ever loved me or grew up with me away. I refused to acknowledge any new associates as friends or go out with them. I acted like an arrogant douche and eventually found it wasn't just because I wanted to push people away but that I also seem incapable of forming meaningful relationships anymore. The first thing that I consider when spending time with a person is how they benefit me or will benefit me in the future. I haven't talked to any family in 3 years.
That's all.
>>676846225
im having trouble getting to sleep.
any over the counter medicine i could take?
>>676850799
You have poor self-control.
Possibly inspired by narcissistic personality disorder.
>>676851133
>and cut him out of her life.
see, you are a stupid whiteknight faggot. if she wanted that she would do it herself. if you were to be her hero, she would have told you already.
file it away, forget about it, don't be a douche and do anything you consider rational. you don't need professional help, you need to not be a fucking blue pilled faggot.
I've met this guy online, and so far he's been too good to be true, even going so far as to pay a bill I couldn't afford for me. It's scaring me because he's from a different country and I've read so much stuff online about people going over to a different country to meet their lovers and never be heard from again. How can I get passed this? It's taking a huge toll on our relationship...
>>676846225
how much student debt did you or do you have, and how long did it or will it take to pay off? and what is your salary? would you do it again? thx
Two twins walk into a very infectious disease. Only one gets the bad disease. Joseph mengela watches as one die of the disease and the the other is put down. Niether were successful of curing memgela's boner
>>676851447
Thx for that advice /bro
>>676850207
probably because you seek innocence stolen from you when you were a child yourself.
< not OP btw.
>>676847260
OP here. in my professional opinion, youre fucked in the head mate
>>676851645
and then you don't do ANYTHING.
got it? its her life, not yours.
>>676851457
>>676851317
I'm a lazy fuck. Won't wake up early, won't stop masturbating, won't attempt to get a job, can't just sit and read for a solid 90 minutes without distracting myself. Pretty much every area in which a person lacks discipline, I lack it. I want to give a fuck, I just can't.
>>676851522
Zquil
>>676851625
Congratulations https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IBsOu44Tj2E
>>676851844
You just lack motivation. You need to find something to give you a reason to wake up early/look for a job/do anything
>>676851844
Depression.
Seriously, talk to an M.D. I've suffered my whole life these are textbook symptoms dude.
>>676851496
Any conscious reason why you decided to isolate yourself?
>>676848216
25% of girls are molested, it is very common. tell her your last gf was
>>676851496
I'm sorry you feel this way
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3Rw5i8ZkrNg
>>676852095
>>676852037
I appreciate you guys caring enough to answer my pathetic shit. I probably am depressed, but I don't believe it's clinical, I've tried SSRIs to no effect. Lack of motivation stems from an existential sense of futility mostly. Probably negatively affected by the people I live with, but not really able to escape it either, as things are.
>>676846225
hey really need some help getting through some shit here. my girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me cause she wants to do porn. and i found out recently that my bestfriend has been trying to fuck her behind my back since we broke up. im afriad to confront him cause i dont want to lose my bestfriend after losing the girl i love but its eating away at me. i guess what i want to know is how do i get this cranberry juice stain out of my favorite white t-shirt?
>>676852640
Talk to her. Tell her how you feel. Tel you best friend too.
>>676851686
>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ni-Gqp9-
Doesn't work
>>676852477
A reason to wake up helps but you likely suffer from major depressive disorder. Unless you were taking four pills of SSRIs a day you have hardly tried them.
Talk to a doctor. Listen dude, today I broke down and bawled my eyes out to a new doctor begging for help. I'm a grown ass man too. This problem doesn't go away and the years and years you ignore it just the more the problem grows and your life slowly wastes away. Don't be like me anon, get help, and don't stop trying to better yourself.
Also stay the fuck away from drugs and alcohol.
>>676852477
I know it's cliche but try to find a passion, its super easy to find new things to do with the internet and all. I'd just recommend not spending too much money on it until you know it will stick around.
>>676852397
>>676852037
>>676851457
>>676849998
>School of Life
So how long have you been pretending to be a psychologist?
>>676852477
are you overly anxious or stressed?
the combination of severe anxiety and stress is what causes depression and a high lack of motivation
>>676852951
I just think that they're helpful. I'm not OP.
>>676852891
>take SSRIs
>don't take drugs
sure yeah man whatever you say, SSRIs are totally not drugs and will not cause any kind of euphoria, addiction or withdrawals
>>676852640
Good Housekeeping has you covered:
http://www.goodhousekeeping.com/home/cleaning/tips/a16665/stains-cranberry-juice-sauce-may07/
>>676852778
nah i cant talk to her, i still care about her a lot but i know that if i talk to her anything she'll say is going to hurt me more than she already has. and i guess i just feel pretty betrayed by my bestfriend cause clearly he doesnt respect me enough to not go for the one girl i care about when theres billions of girls on this planet
>>676852239
Well that's another problem entirely.
I really need a therapist. There's a lot of things I need to talk about with someone. The problem being I don't think I could face to face discuss this with someone.
When I was 16, I committed sexual acts with my 2 year old sister. I was watching her afterschool and had to change her, and from there I lacked self control. I feel increasingly guilty for this every day, it'll likely be the cause of my suicide in the future. I exhibit multiple pedophilic tendencies, and have acted on them on numerous occasions. I lack the self control to prevent myself from acting on these desires. So I've isolated myself, doing nothing more than going to work, sitting on the internet and sleeping.
Penis?
>>676852891
Erectile dysfunction is not worth this unknown chemical that causes it in anti-despressants, I'll pass. I'd be even more depressed without a sex life
>>676853069
>the combination of severe anxiety and stress is what causes depression and a high lack of motivation
Not at all factual. Depression generally leads to anxiety. Depression is a biological problem with genetic predisposition. You are full of shit.
>>676853154
They are shit. And if a doctor prescribes it and you take it as told you aren't abusing them. Not all people are mentally or chemically well anon. Some need medication to survive.
>>676853320
Then just let both of them go
>>676853308
thanks /b/ro this has been really pissing me off
>>676853409
There are other drugs.
And the only side effect from SSRIs is being able to fuck forever before blowing your load. There is a reason they are prescribed for pre-mature ejaculation.
Stay depressed then. Enjoy your miserable life.
>>676850924
well said good sir thank you!
>>676852891
I don't have any problems with drugs. An occasional hit of LSD seems pretty beneficial to me though, in the absence of real emotional stimuli. Millions of people go to doctors for this shit and their lives are no better, I don't have a lot of confidence in that, but I value your advice and I will probably give it a shot in the next few months if I can't turn it around.
>>676852930
Sounds like the right idea, I just struggle creatively, will keep looking.
>>676853069
I'm definitley stressed about social interactions, failure, and the grimness of the future. I had bouts of anxiety for a while, and do get it about small things like driving, when I have to do them, which is stupid.
>>676853461
i mean not to be a helpless fuck but hes moving in with me in a month. i told him he could live with me before i found out he was trying to put a knife in my back but should i just tell him to fuck off and such?
>>676846225
What's it like to have a fake degree?
>>676851015
never in a million years i thought.
yes sir i am a cuck
>>676846225
How do you feel being bottom tier level in bottom tier health discipline?
>>676853750
Bring it up and talk to him about it.
>>676853386
Yeah, that'd be hard to talk about face to face with a therapist.
I'm not even sure how to advise you how to fight those urges.
>>676853666
And to that satan I will say millions more go to their doctors and get help and lead normal lives. You don't just hear their stories.
The last 15 years of my life has been on and off medication seeing doctors or not. Just do what the doctor says anon. They know better than you, or me. Be honest, spill your heart out, and let them help you to help yourself. You have zero to lose and everything to gain.
>>676853577
Hah. I hope your not op. Ssri has many side effects
>>676853386
Just talk to them about how you have tendencies and leave the pedophilia acts out
>>676854003
yeah i think thats what im going to have to do. but fuck wheres the loyalty. i mean we were friends for years before i starting going out with her and hes still going to try to get his dick wet over having his friends back.
>>676854183
OP isn't an MD so his opinion is irrelevant. In my taking them on and off again for a decade that is the only side effect. Attaining and keeping an erection has never been an issue, for me or the vast, vast majority of male users.
SSRIs are mild as fuck man. There is a reason millions take them everyday.
>>676853666
So break the whole situation down and analyze it yourself, because only you can, not some shrink. I've dealt with numerous shrinks and he will assume you're depressed right away, but why?
I think it's your lack of motivation that never ending and is causing you to feel like a failure that is making you feel depressed and anxious. It's just a vicious cycle. Lack of motivation - depression - lack of motivation
>>676850436
Don't know how to say this without sounding vague and insincere. But, it doesn't matter. Move on. You have lots of life left to see and this was just one leg of it. Look forward not backwards. Think positively and live your life. I know it sounds like a tumblr meme but take it literally. This is but a brief moment of your life. Change the channel and see what's next.
>>676846225
why do most therapists use canned phrases such as "and how does that make you feel?" and "wow, you're so smart." or shit like that? I feel it's a cheap go-to that means "I cant think of anything right now".
also I have an issue with therapists not believing me about things. Yeah I know I'm well adjusted and happy, but that doesnt mean I dont have problems. They also dont want to remain objective I've noticed.
How do I find a therapist that remains objective and who will help me sort out my problems logically and methodically while giving me feedback that's not repetitive questions or agreeances?
>>676846225
why
>>676850436
i know it sucks man but enough time and everything stops hurting. clearly she wasnt the one. look at it this way, when you split she got to keep her and you got to keep you. that means you got the better end of the deal man. chin up and keep chuggin along. but i really am sorry to here that /b/ro i hope you find a girl whos ten times better
>>676853874
Not OP but well enough.
>>676854559
This response seems legit. So here's my thoughts moving forward.
If I can get through that barrier and really look at myself instead of submerging myself in escapism all the time (not so easy, why am I on 4chan?), I still fear the complexity of my life is more fuckery than I realistically overcome. And at bottom, nothing in life may really appealing to me, so how the real question is, what keeps a nihilist going?
>>676854409
Try stopping cold turkey. Possible serotonin syndrome. Also cognitive decline is very noticeable with use. As is apathetic and unhindered actions without moral
restraints
I'm stuck between going into engineering and going into psychology for college, what do you recommend I do?
>>676850436
she cut you by the balls, she never cared. don't let pussy do that. i know it's easier said than done but be a man about this situation and show her you don't fucking need her to be happy. show her she's fucking nothing to you. stop dwelling
>>676855760
well do you want a job and to be respected or do you want to apply to starbucks in a few years and think youre better than everyone else. your call
>>676855093
Not an MD but it's probably to gain the patients trust that they can tell them anything. I never felt like I could trust my doctors as a teenager, so I barely talked to them or told them anything I didn't want people to know.
As for the "How does that make you feel?", there's nothing wrong with that one.
>>676855689
You can't get serotinin syndrome from CT SSRIs dipshit. You get that from an OD.
Try again.
> Also cognitive decline is very noticeable with use.
sauce
>As is apathetic and unhindered actions without moral restraints
nigger pls. tens of millions of americans take them every day. the white ones at that.
ive had two serious relationships since i started going for girls and both ended kind of shitty. id like to just fuck around and hook up for a bit but have no clue how since ive only done longterm relationships. any advice? also im 21, 6'1 and athletic so i think i got what it takes i just dont know where to start
>>676855517
Good enough*
Your making this too easy
>>676855760
Well what makes you happy?
>>676855689
>Possible serotonin syndrome
Selective. Serotonin. REUPTAKE INHIBITOR.
When you stop using you have a serotonin deficiency, not excess. Can you even google?
>>676853386
OP here, tell me more about what happened with your sister. Be specific, I need details if I'm going to help you.
>>676846225
i feel like a pair of curtains
>>676856242
We feel like everyone is meant to end their lives with a family and a marriage, but it's not for everyone. Keep doing what your doing. Use hook up sites vs actual dating sites
>>676856470
What color are you?
>>676856335
stupid. work is work. enjoyment is not meant to be work. that type of idiocy is why people are in debt and get gender studies degrees.
>>676855934
>>676855760
engineering. school sucks. life after is posh as fuck. my psych major best friend drives a forklift. i have an office and make 70k a year out of school. which would you choose for future you?
if you do psych you need a masters at minimum.
>>676856534
nah nah i really couldnt care less if i end up married and kids or die alone. i mean im glad i had the relationships, definately learned a lot about women and myself. hook up sites such as?
>>676855093
First: Not OP
Second: True objectivity is unobtainable in the human mind.
You very likely do have issues you want to talk about in a comfortable place, but you have to see it from their perspective, most therapists and counselors deal with some deep dark shit on a daily basis, it's hard to keep balanced when you hear firsthand about the worst of humanity on a daily basis.
Its a tough gig so give 'em a bit of a break. And the canned phrases, especially "How does that make you feel?" are pretty useful for getting at the core of the matter at hand.
"Wow, you're so smart" is kind of demeaning I admit but at the same time some people close to the edge do need to hear a little positivity.
>>676846225
One day I was at work (I'm an armed security guard) and I was at a new contract where I had to stand in one place for 45 minutes every hour for 8 hours. I'm already not great at standing still and in fact I fidget and move a lot.
A couple hours or so into work, after I had had my coffee, I started having really high anxiety and even thoughts of me doing terrible things (like shooting people) that made me really uncomfortable. I'm a positive person a lot of the time and I basically never get angry.
I don't even know what I'm asking you about this but basically is there anything I can research on my own that might lead to an explanation for this? Maybe some sort of anxiety caused by standing still not doing anything? (I already have no problem sitting at my computer for long periods of time as long as I have something to read or whatnot). Also having weird thoughts of things I would never do in real life that make me uncomfortable has happened to me before.
Thank you for taking the time to read this.
>>676856577
flesh coloured
>>676847260
I think this sounds like fun. I love emotionally torturing women with self -esteem issues.
>>676855957
I dont really have an issue opening up to people and being honest with them. I think it may be that the therapists want a close relationship built on trust.. when.. I talk better to a disinterested stranger frankly. I want to hear blunt truths.
I think maybe what I'm searching for is a psychiatrist instead of psychologist. I'm schizophrenic and I want more explanations and biology related theories and methods than emotional coping skills.
I've been told twice that I dont need therapy. But I have to go once every 3 months in order to get my meds.
I'm just not sure how to utilize my therapy to its fullest extant. I need to explain something long and complicated and then get feedback towards decisions regarding long and complicated things.
maybe I need a specialist? Then again, I dont know how much help that'll be.
maybe I just dont need therapy. Maybe I just need a peer.
>>676856715
Are you stupid? Tinder.
>>676856105
the whole anti depressant shit is marketed towards people who think or are depressed, yes, but it is a fraud to make MONEY. It gets you hooked, and when you stop, you feel more depressed and they make ya go back on it again. There's other ways of conquering depression. Why put something in your body that you know nothing about?
>>676856843
Who says you don't need therapy?
>>676856864
no tinder is fuckitty fucked i aint going on that shit
>>676856660
Work is work, but you don't have to hate it.
>>676857054
If you won't go to a site because it's "fuckitty fucked", then why are you on 4chan?
>>676856381
>>676856105
My bad guys. I worded that badly. I meant stopping cold turkey will sure you how powerful these drugs actually are. (Brain zaps, vertigo, psychosis) . Serotonin syndrome was supposed to be a different topic regarding side effects of prolonged use. I'll find a study on cognitive decline if you'd like. I take razadyne to combat this side effect. Also regarding the sight apathy I thought that was common knowledge
>>676846225
how do i not be such an asshole? at work im friendly and outgoing to all but a couple that burned ther bridge with me, but when im outside of work, im a fucking asshole and i didnt ever really care until recently. i want to setle down but no woman will put jup with my bs.
>>676856749
Not op but it was probably just the stimulants in your system causing your anxiety because you weren't doing anything with them
>>676856406
I licked her pussy, put about half way to the first bend in my finger inside her, and masturbated myself with her hand, and finished on her butt/stomach. I did this for about 2-3 months, then the conflicting side, that truly does exist, that resents these urges and acts got me out of the situation by acting out until I got moved to live with another relative.
>>676856743
That makes sense.
I just need someone that doesnt invalidate my experiences but at the same time doesnt enable or mindlessly validate things.
I'm schizophrenic, so .. as an example..
Lets say I hallucinate a cat with two heads. I *saw* that cat, but I knew it wasnt real. I was unnerved and confused and want to know how I can either express or reject this event in a positive manner.
>>basically talks like this to his therapist.
then my therapist replies with "wow, you're really smart!" and I wanted to punch him.
they also said "well. it looks like you dont need therapy. are you sure you still need medication?"
and I was like.. holy shit. fuck you. You /do/ realize that some people it's biological and not necessarily just psychological.
>>676846225
is there a good online test to see if I'm a psychopath?
>>676855760
Engineering for the money
Psychology if you're passionate about it
or double major if you have the stamina for it.
>>676856968
I know all there is to know and I know depressive disorder is not something you can conquer. The rich, famous, and elite blow their brains out too. This is a chemical imbalance in the brain. If you can fix yourself by not being a lazy fuck then you aren't actually medically depressed in the first place.
SSRIs are beyond mild and any side effects from cessation of use is a joke and lasts a few weeks. Try dope sometime anon and grow a pair.
>>676857236
haha 4chan i gore and weird porn i can deal wit that. tinder is cancerous morons. plus ive never heard of a succesful tinder hookup that didnt involve a landwhale or a nig nog
>>676856979
My ex therapist did, and my current therapist said it too.
>>676857258
>Brain zaps, vertigo
To be expected, they are temporary in nature
>psychosis
Beyond rare.
Serotonin syndrome is from overdose or a drug interaction and NOT a symptom of prolonged use.
Cognitive decline is debatable, and apathy is a known side effect. SSRIs level out the peaks of emotions, good or bad. Anyone who takes them should know this. Overall quality of life increases for nearly all users.
How do I get referrals for young people to attend drug and alcohol counselling that isn't through juvie?
Does your subconscious know that you're a faggot?
>>676857499
Yeah I kind of had the same idea, really. Coffee usually doesn't have any adverse effects on me though.
>>676857499
Been there brother. Absolutely do not go prying around looking for self diagnosis. It will send you towards an existential crisis. Just treat that one time thing as a traumatic event as try cbt techniques to stop them before they spiral out of control next time. Do NOT dwell on this.
>>676856749
daydreaming about shooting people? Sounds like your mind got a bit bored and you just started running through imaginative scenarios. try turning the thoughts to productive things, like billion dollar ideas.
>>676857713
Then you should take their advice and stop therapy
>>676857704
If you took someone from reddit, what do you think their first impression of 4chan would be despite never going to the site? You'd hear "CP, Anonymous, and Nazis" While all of those things are true, there's much more to the site than that. You probably don't have any experience with Tinder, so you should just try it.
>>676856749
Fleeting thoughts of suicide or homicide are pretty normal man. If you feel you wish to act on them seek help. Otherwise its pretty natural.
>>676857588
Yeah. Your on /b/. You failed.
>>676858541
(person who's therapist said to stop going to therapy)
unfortunately, I'd like to stop, but the state mandates that I be in therapy in order to get my medication which prevents me from going batshit.
should I just treat it as a check-in procedure? or is there more I could get out of therapy?
idk. I guess I just feel like I should be talking more about things. But nothing's really bothering me, and I'm rather happy with my life.
>>676846225
Should I kill myself
>>676858564
Yeah I don't really feel like acting on them but I think I was just stressed out a little bit more than normal that day. Thanks.
Why do I feel responsible for everything that goes
wrong, even when I had nothing to do with the
situation?
>>676858448
More like daydreaming of shooting myself, come to think of it. Also for some reason, seeing all the overweight people come in to the building I was guarding made me upset. Like I was repulsed by their existence. Lol.
>>676858980
>but the state mandates that I be in therapy in order to get my medication which prevents me from going batshit
uhhhh...you're not american right? or do you mean for them to pay for it?
>>676857586
You always have the right to seek other psychologists. Sorry I can't offer much more advice than that but I agree your concerns are extremely valid and just because you can be level headed about it doesn't mean you should be thrown out into the cold.
>>676852477
Oh no shit. You think any antidepressant actually works? Your pretty delusional mate.
>>676859375
ANSWER OTHER PPL U FUCKING PIECE OF SHIT>>676857465
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>>676853755
Its a real degree man, its just puts you at the shit tier of society. The manual trades have more esteem and usefulness.
>>676858050
Serotonin syndrome I guess is an overdue buy one that takes several months to achieve. Not like taking 10x your usual dosage 1 time.
They are very helpful but are way overprescribed. They are life sentence. Something that is rarely relayed to the patent. A hormonal teen doesn't need them. Therapy should be mandatory before they are prescribed imo. Just saying overall they more potent than you believe
>>676859327
I'm american.
the state mandated that because I'm schizophrenic, I need to be medicated. (they pay in full for my medication) but in order to get my medication, I have to see a therapist every so often.
I've just been treating it as a "okay here's a checkup"
I also receive food stamps so in order to keep my geese lined up, I have to do paperwork in order to keep these things going.
and b4 "get a job faggot" I have a job, I have my own apartment, pay my own car insurance, and pay all my bills on time. All due in part to me being medicated. Because previously I was wandering about on the streets babbling about whatever the fuck.
>>676846225
What is the most fucked up thing you heard and/or discovered in someone?
>>676859298
Sympathy to others. Etic worldview. Closer to God than you think.
>>676859375
Thankyou! I really appreciate it. I'm probably going to have to call the insurance and see if there's another company I can go through to seek out different therapists.
>>676859748
>Just saying overall they more potent than you believe
I suppose that depends on perspective. For those that are actually ill they are the most mild of any medication, but i agree, no one should take them unless needed.
>>676859978
well your shit is free, i pay to see a doctor every month for a "checkup" that takes one minute to get new scripts. keep on keeping on anon.
>>676859706
geez, fine. I'll give it a shot.
So lets break this down
Problem: Is an asshole to people to the point of it affecting relationships.
Desired outcome: Overcome your idiosyncrasies and have a successful, meaningful relationship with a human female.
So.
What kind of "asshole" are you? give me examples of what you mean by it.
>>676860461
(this is free shit anon)
yeah thankyou! I'd say, go check to see if you qualify for SMI (serious mental illness) or if you qualify for the behavioral mental healthcare that's on the expanded medicare. Each state is different, so some suck some dont. I'm in arizona.. and if you can stay on the ball with tons of paperwork and applications, its pretty good. It just takes a LOT of paperwork.
>>676860144
You're welcome, I hope for the best.
>>676860104
Is there any way I can stop feeling guilt over it?
I've never seen a therapist or psychologist or whatever but
I show symptoms of anxiety and depression and I feel
as though feeling guilty all the time doesn't help.
>never got help as a kid because parents never sought it
>planning to see one soon, however
>>676860461
(also free shit anon)
If it were up to me, I'd forfeit my therapist sessions so you could have them. I feel bad that I'm probably taking up space with them anyway. All I really need is medication.
>>676860496
>Desired outcome: ...meaningful relationship with a human female
who the fuck says I havent had one? all i fucking said was that im an asshole outside of my workplace and i dont know why, and that i've never cared before now, because i want t setle down with a woman but feel me attitude will drive "the one" away.
if i dont fucking know why im an asshole, isnt that what the fuck youre here for? to tell me why im an asshole and how to fix it?
fucking nigger.
the best thing i can come up with is some bullshit i was once told after a failed suicide attempt several years ago... "you are the way you are because u dont believe u deserve other ppls time" or some bullshit like this, but the bitch never helped beyond that.
how the fuck do i not be an asshole and shit?
>>676860949
Nah, I make 90k a year man, fancy house, fast sport cars, etc. Nobody is giving me any money. I just know how to put on a pretty face and fake it despite how I feel on the inside. Doesn't mean life isn't a constant game of living on the edge like you however.
>>676861161
Don't work that way. Even if you have the money. Every month, a check up. Money, insurance, or welfare. Don't fret it man
>>676861161
Not anon you responded to but it would be a good idea for you to keep those quarterly sessions, with your condition you could go off the rails if your medication quit working or if you accidentally went off of them. They're a good way to make sure you don't end up back on the street or in an unstable state.
>>676861064
Start with a talk therapist. Avoid rx for as kind as possible. Just accept that you think differently than others. Instead of feeling guilty try spreading positivity. Practice test: tell 10 people or objects that you love them tomorrow. Either out loud or internally. If you feel a bad thought counter it with a thought containing the word love. "I would Love To see Jim get better". You seem to have a good heart. You're still finding yourself. Don't be afraid. It's people like you who can change the world for better.
>>676846225
why are relationships so dam hard, I litterly hate my gf right now, she hate me being on 4chan and right now im so fed up with her. I think i ended our relationship tonight and quite frankly dont care
>>676862332
Thanks, I'll try that. I love you, Anon.
>inb4 faggot
>>676862764
They're not you're both too inexperienced. Give it time and learn from the past
>>676863146
Feels goodman. Seriously try it. I love you too /b/ro
>>676846225
Why do I wanna Fuck the bunny?
My worst nightmare is also my sexual fetish. Is this uncommon? It causes me a lot of anxiety. Is there anything I can do?
>>676846225
Are the same op behind these threads that is sometimes "depressed" themselves?
>>676857615
'medically depressed'
some sort of pseudo term shrinks use these days?
im too nervous to talk to any strangers, i have almost no friends, whenever i talk to some new my face turns red and i get really nervous, what do?
>>676864137
*Are YOU the same OP...*
>>676861363
Have you contemplated a serious suicide attempt since? If so what sorts of thoughts were you thinking at the time?
>>676863765
because the bunny is fucking sexy.
>>676846225
is it normal if i look at this?
http://www.streamboobs.com/brighteyes024/
>>676864217
I'm not OP, I mean you suffer from major depressive disorder as described in the DSM-V.
As in, you know, someone who is actually depressed and needs medication to be normal. Not "i'm sad cuz life suck or im a hormonal teenager."
>>676864217
it means you don't have a chemical imbalance causing your depression.
>>676863801
Pointing this out again because I'd like an answer. I figure my best bet is to stop masturbating to it. But it seems so pointless. When I stop having orgasms it just makes me feel like I'm missing out on one of the few good things in my life, and it often makes me dream of my fetish which causes me a lot of anxiety (since I can only deal with it when it's fake, a dream is too close to being real).
>>676846225
I'm hyper self aware and introspective, however I cannot overcome my anxiety and depression; Despite figuring out the mechanics responsible for a good deal of it. Wat do?
what do i say to a psychiatrist to get adderall
i want those fuckin csgo skills
Poorfag here (born being poor but doing shit for myself and slowly getting some money), surrounded by rich people. How do i overcome the envy for those who haven't had to work for shit? (english for bad sorry)
>>676846225
Recently ive been starting to think that girls find me creepy, Like ive spoken to a couple and whenever some see me ive noticed they start snickering or whisper to eachother like " oh its anon" Am i being to anxious? or is there something wrong with me.
You think you're cool OP? I'm in AP psychology and jui jitsu, jealous?
>>676846225
how do i ask my psychiatrist a stronger med because the current one is really not good enough?
>>676865554
talk to them like you talk to anyone you aren't sexually interested in. Treat them like a human and not a girl. This drops the panties.
>>676865705
tell them the one your are taking isn't working. they will probably up the dosage and tell them it still isn't working and you would like to try a new med.
>>676846225
I want to kill myself, I have a plan, but I recognize that this is going to fuck shit up for a number of people. How do I stop being a pussy and force myself to get help?
>>676865189
It's a paradox. Personally I'd choose the fetish and get over the fear but if it's truly your worst fear then try to find other things to get you off, surely there isn't only one thing that can get you off.
>>676863359
its been 2 years, we got in a fight because i was doing homework due tomorrow and making chiken noodle soup, and i checked the chicken it was still raw, went to do continue doing hw and she started shouting that i did it on purpose so she would starve, keep in mind i went over to cook for her because she often forgets to eat.
>>676866076
crazy bitch is crazy move on
>>676864814
and how are the meds going for you
>>676865311
it's not something you overcome by recognizing how it works, if you can recognize the causes you can cut them out and hopefully feel better but I don't know your situation well enough to recommend any real course of action.
>>676864376
now, really, how is this going to fucking help me not be an asshole? give me something to go on for fucks sake u goddamn wind bag.
just give me advice and stop trying to analyze me.
>>676847944
he is correct OP. OP is faggot. always.
Im the smartest kid in Ap psychology
>>676848030
kekadoodledo
>>676846225
My dads been diagnosed as bipolar years ago (when I was young ~10yo). There was always something so off about him (way too much to explain) which could in no way be described as being bipolar, and I am now almost certain he is a psychopath (as in actual DSMV definition, not the average persons 'crazy murderer' definition).
Since I know its an inheritable thing, how would I know if its been passed onto me? I know you will doubt what I think, but I can guarantee you he is, he was way too smart to ever show his true face to his psychiatrists/psychologists.
If you have any questions about certain traits, ill be happy to give you examples.
thanks.
>>676865906
It's fairly difficult to get off to anything else. I need at least a hint of my fetish. And I won't ever overcome it and I don't want to. I want to be rid of the fetish. I'll be 26 in April. I've been wanting to kill myself most of my life. I wanted to get to 27. I don't know. Somehow joining Kurt Cobain seemed poetic. But it's getting harder. I can't hold a relationship because of my fetish. I don't think I can make it another year. Every day thoughts of my fetish consume me. They cause me great anxiety. I honestly don't want to live on this planet because of my fetish. I sometimes wish I was a different species of another world where my fetish didn't exist and I could be free.
>>676865899
well you're halfway there. You recognize the problem you just need to get the motivation to go find someone to help, if you have insurance call them to see if you have psychological coverage and with whom.
Seek help anon, if nothing else call the suicide hotline at 1 (800) 273-8255 they're always there to talk if you need it.
>>676848563
OP has been fucked by all his male patients because OP is massive faggot
>>676866424
Constant battle anon between depression, panic disorder, and alcohol and drug abuse. But then again, life is always a balancing act.
I'd rather be addicted to whatever the doctor prescribes than live another day sober at this point in time. What fucks me is whenever i feel "okay" i stop my meds and a few months later the process repeats.
YMMV. good luck man.
>>676849295
OP just got a B+ in Psych 101 at his local community college and thinks he has an opinion.
>>676866424
>>676867489
*to a few years later the process repeats
it just amazes how fast my life falls apart when the cyclic depression sets in. stay on your meds if your doctor tells you, even if you hate the side effects. stopping your meds is a sure sign you are unwell.
>>676866584
I can't advise anything without a deep analysis of your mind and your circumstances.
But if you want a short version the best way to stop being an asshole is to take interest in others and feel empathy. Get a dog or a cat, its hard to be a dick to something that just loves you outright. It's possible but harder than being a dick to people because with people you can always analyze the cost/benefit of having a relationship with them, with pets there is none of that.
>>676846225
>cheated on after 2 year relationship
>been 2 years and still cant quite get over it
>thought she was perfect, was the happiest I could ever be, realize I can never get to that state again
>No longer want her because upset
>Can't be happy without her
>depressed for 2 years
>wanted to lose virginity to the right person
>friend has wanted to fuck me for a while now
>tempted to go through with it and see if my depression fades away
what should I do guys? fuck the girl that's wanted it for a while JUST to see if it helps my depression or no?
>>676867146
Insurance isn't an issue, I am in canadia and just waiting to hear back about therapy. Unfortuantely it is taking forever. Here is where the problem lies:
Any time I am at the point where I am ready to do it I also feel like a worthless burden, and just can't make myself pick up the phone or go to a hospital, and when I'm not as bad a spot I downplay the shit out of my issues. I just need a way to get myself in front of a psychiatrist when I'm suicidal so I can just say everything going through my head without feeling like a melodramatic cunt.
>>676867087
now I'm curious about what your fetish is, don't be shy I've gotten off to nearly everything so I've probably masturbated to whatever your fetish is at least a dozen times.
>>676868193
yes. just fuck her. Its been two years man, do anything that can take your mind away from feeling like shit about your ex.
>>676846225
Should I believe all the bad things the voices say about me?
>>676850799
The Donald detected.
>>676868193
putting your first time on a pedestal is fucking stupid. wear a condom and fuck whatever you want. no one cares about your first fuck except virgins. sex is waaaay overrated, but breddy nice when you can get it
>>676851561
or borderline
>>676850856
because you want your father to fuck your ass
>>676868056
.....the fuck? good thing this shits free. i already a dog. i love it to pieces but it doesnt help me not be a fucking asshole to people around me.
nvm sherlock ill figure this fucking shit out on my own. its just as good as youre doing.
>>676846225
Wow look at this beta. I never thought it was possible, for real thought people like you didn't exist.
I was wondering why I got all these girls so easy all the time. Then I see all these phony and then I realize that compared to you I'm like an 99/10 so there's no comparison hahahaha. Oh wow, here's a tip, get out of your parents house every once in a while and pick up some weights. If you can't even bench press your own weight you are pathetic. Hahaha oh man this is just too rich. I gotta go get my bros to see this oh my God.
>>676868467
Its personal shit anon, no one should care besides me. Only reason I didn't have sex with my ex was because it became a long distance relationship after a few weeks.
>>676868332
I forgot to mention that she's in a sorta serious relationship. Would it be worth any trouble it could cause?
>>676868273
Is it a long process in Canada? I'm ill informed on the Canadian healthcare system.
As for motivation I struggled with that a lot myself, I'd always put it off and then say next week for sure, but never did it. Eventually I wrote about a dozen notes for myself to actually set up an appointment and put them all over the place so I couldn't ignore it. You know you need to see someone so don't worry about feeling like a melodramatic cunt, they get paid to deal with melodramatic cunts all the time, just tell them honestly that you've seriously contemplated suicide multiple times and they'll be sure you have regular appointments to talk through whatever ails you.
Are antidepressants and anti-anxiety medications too expensive for someone without insurance and great income?
>>676851625
if you go to meet him you will never be heard from alive again.
>>676868284
I don't want to say because you wouldn't understand. I've talked about it on here before, no one understands. It's a subset of one of the most common fetishes. But it goes deep for me. Where most people's version of this fetish is more fantasty (like role play) mine is about it happening reality. And it has happened in reality. And even though it hasn't happened to me, I can't even live with the idea of it happening to someone else. I want everyone to die so the memory of it can be erased.
When I seek out stories of my fetish online and stumble upon true stories I freak out. It hurts. It's hard to put into words, but it damages me down to my soul. But I don't stop looking. I often wonder if anyone else is like me. I know I'm not the only one with this fetish, but am I the only one who is so bothered by it?
Anyway, I'm going to bed. My fetish actually makes me hesitant to kill myself. It affects so many aspects of my life. I would explain but no one ever understands and if you knew you'd only brush it off.
>>676868665
Okay. If you don't wanna be here I'm not gonna keep you. I'm not OP anyways.
>>676869264
Im assuming its something illegal that you dont want to admit to on here because you think the feds will bust down your door, amirite?
>>676868931
then fuck her
>I forgot to mention that she's in a sorta serious relationship
all the more fun. do it.
>>676869264
Goodnight then. I hope you feel better.
>>676869264
you cant at least give us a few words before you crash and 404 man
>>676869071
It's been over a month since a 15 minute screening interview for group therapy (they didn't even mention one-on-one as a possibility), and that was 10 weeks after the initial referral. Didn't even do any proper assessment or diagnostic shit either. Tell my doctor I'm depressed as fuck, referral is written, psychiatrist asks questions almost entirely related to sharing in a group and no probing questions about my problems.
Icing on the cake, all they have on record is my initial complaint of depression, but I have had symptoms consistent with manic episodes since then as well.
>>676869838
wtf canada.
i know people like to hate on the US and the healthcare system but you would be treated for free anywhere despite your wealth or lack thereof on the spot.
i'm sorry anon and hope you find help.
>>676868193
meaningless sex is meaningless, hat said losing your virginity isn't a big deal, and more than likely will be a disappointing experience since you'll likely be nervous as hell. You probably shouldn't have sex with someone in a committed relationship but maybe that's just my old fashioned ways of thinking, I can't keep up with the flippant attitude people my generation and younger seem to have towards relationships.
Anyways, if you're going to have sex just to not be a virgin anymore I'd recommend against it, especially if its with someone you know. It's your choice of course but I personally advise against having meaningless sex with a friend just in an attempt to get over not having sex with an ex. Find someone else to take her place.
>>676846225
Are you a psychologist?
>>676870360
You're right, I disagree with having sex just to have sex. At the moment, not trying to be dramatic or anything, I just feel like I'm going to be stuck with this depression or I'm eventually going to kill myself. Its been two years and I can't get over a girl I no longer want to be with. She was pretty damn amazing, made me happier than I could ever be again, and I can't have that shit anymore. Its not exactly easy living your life trying to find that same happiness and knowing you can't.
This isn't really about me being upset that I never had sex with my ex, I just want to get out of my depression. I can kinda see myself with my friend, but its no where near the same amount of feeling I had for my ex. Figured that if I did something intimate with her things might seem different to me, but at the same time I don't want to be a dick to her or ruin her relationship.
