How do I stop being clingy towards a girl who has clearly lost interest in me, and is only using me as a backup when she is not talking to other people. It should be easy to just stop caring, but I can't stop getting anxious and checking her twitter and things to see if she is ignoring me. I always get into depressed moods because I'm being ignored and I can't help it.
How do I stop it?
>>675434001
Delete your social media. Move on with your life.
By stoppimg being a creep fuck, ffs there's plenty of other sluts in the world
>>675434091
Good advice
>>675434001
Start shooting heroin. You won't have any other concerns over anything other than where you are getting dope and how you are getting it.
Eventually you'll be in jail or dead, possibly both.
It'll work though 100% gauranteed. You're welcome.
>>675434091
I don't even have twitter, I just can't stop refreshing her page...
>>675434682
I'm trying but I can't stop being clingy
>>675434001
Oh to be 15 again
Distract yourself, do everything you possibility can to avoid her or her social media, you'll feel a million times better when she's out of your life
Get tinder, fuck tinder birds.
>>675435031
I try but I can't stop. I'm doing 2 assignments for uni right now, but I can't stop checking and it's really hard not to send messages.
I get headaches and shit when I find she's ignoring me and posting somewhere too. It sucks..
>>675434846
I'd try to argue this but I really can't. Heroin would solve this problem. Then again several other drugs would too.
>>675434910
Eat mdma, fuck rave bitches
Easy.
Once you're over her start smoking weed.
Simply leave her alone for a week. Try it. No matter what don't try to contact her for a week. 1 of 2 things will happen, you'll either get over her after you realize she's not the only bitch in this world or she'll realize that you can live without her and she'll want you more, I'd focus on the first one happening though cause girls like that are bad news bears.
>>675434001
Walk away now and find a better day.
>>675435658
I want to try this but I don't know if I could
>>675435658
Also this
>>675435907
You can trust me. Test your willpower. Also get some friends and go to a strip club.
>>675435975
I don't really have many close friends. I'm really bad at meeting people or making friendships/relationships last as I'm pretty introverted, so I get clingy when I find someone I really like..
I guess I could try it, but I'm not sure what will happen..
>>675434001
Kill her
>>675435907
You defs can, felt the same only 6 months ago now idgaf about her and she always talking about me to our mutual friends.
I went trough this phase op.
Took me about 4 yrs to completely lose interest in here. Hope you will have a better time.
Make a goal of.masturbating as many times as you can in a night. Make sure it's to some girl (s) who are nothing like this bitch.
Then, eat a spoonful of nutmeg, drink some water. You'll be good to go the next day, I promise you.
start fucking other girls and use her as a backup
>>675436230
You can do it man. I went through this shit with a sexy blonde who was a minx in the sheets and she started fishing around after a few weeks but kept me hooked cause I was clinging to her and I could tell how clingy I was so I said fuck it and didn't talk to her anymore. After the first day she texted me "thanks for not talking to me today..." All shitty like and I kept it up and eventually got over her after about a week. Now she texts me all the time asking if I remember how much sex we had and if I liked it blah blah and I don't even feel like going back.
Look at her bikini pictures on Facebook, whenever you feel yourself getting an erection stab yourself in the leg with a tack
You'll be cringing at the sight of her in no time
>>675436297
Really this is the only way. The guilt and depression is the absolute worst thing you'll ever feel, but than she just is gone. Off your mind. Worked for me.
Or you can convince her to hate you. Less trouble and chance of regret.
>>675436326
>>675436671
I'll give it ago. Maybe for now I just won't send anything until she does, and just answer briefly without long winded messages, or messaging whenever I feel like I'm being ignored or when I don't get a quick response..
Though I'll try just not talking to her altogether too
My brain is just really shitty in that I get really clingy, and I get really bad anxiety, so when I feel like I'm being ignored that's all I can think about, and it stops me from doing other stuff (having fun, getting work done, etc). I hope I can stop this stuff soon though, as much as I like this girl...
Vida games.
Or jerk off like 7 times a day
This thread and its ancestors unequivocally validate the existence of /b/. Three similar threads helped me get through a similar situation a year ago. Pro tip: study the stoics/read Marcus Aurelius (Meditations)
>>675436850
That's a good start. More women will come. Better ones, they're getting freakier and freakier.
>>675437086
I'm just so bad at meeting people, not just girls. I doubt I'll find another person who I like for a long while. I don't like most people in general either..
>>675437145
Just work on being the most kick-ass version of yourself, and both bitches and brothers will come.
>>675434001
Simple, stop talking to her.
>>675434001
grow a pair of balls
first you'll have to remove your vagina
that will have to be another thread
then come back here and we will tell you how to get some balls
/protip stop sucking dick
>>675436850
Ignore first message when she texts you.
If she doesn't send a follow up message within 20min reply.
If she does send a second message then reply a min later.
Replying too fast shows desperation, slide it back and make her want to talk to you. Show her you have other things to do, but dont be rude, she isnt your first priority, maybe even not third but if she thinks your playing with her its all over.
Girls love to play with people but despise the reverse. Gotta play the game without them knowing.
Girls are hard, you have to be just close enought that they know your watching, but far enought to not know when you aren't.
>>675437145
Yeh, but, do you NEED to be liked? Can't you just cut ff contact with everyone and stop caring about pussy for five fucking seconds? You're a human being, pal. Show some willpower.
>>675437395
The thing is that I respond to everyone quick no matter if I'm into them or not. Like instantly. I'll have to intentionally wait 20 minutes. I'll try it though. It seems like waiting a bunch will make me seem less needy and she will stop taking me for granted. Or something like that..
>>675437246
90%. Of introverts are that way simply because they lack a modem of comfort outside their own home.
My suggestion?
Spend all your time somewhere innocuous; a book store, comic store, bar, gym, fitness park.
Somewhere where you can be alone to develope a medium of comfort but where enought people dwell that you can still bummble into a conversation on occassion.
I like the gym. Its rare that people try to talk to me there, but that I could get enough into it to step in to help people about to lift themselves into an inverted colon.
>>675437145
Well yeah if you think about it like that you'll never meet anyone. Believe in yourself and keep an open mind. >>675437524
Set a timer if you have to just don't respond back immediately.
>>675437524
I should mention not to do this for every message, just the first. Bump it down to 2 or 3 min between successive messages.
>>675437788
Yeah I'll do that. I've actually met a bunch of people since starting uni so it's getting better. Going to make sure I respond after 20 minutes too.
>>675437854
Alright
>>675437877
College isn't like high school. People in college actually like meeting new friends. Give it a go.
>>675438043
Yeah I just went up to a random group with someone I knew and somehow ended up having a conversation with people I didn't know
>>675435471
>solve
you meant "substitute"
>Eat mdma, fuck rave bitches
Easy.
YEEEWWWWWW! high five mah nigga.
That's what I do, going to a 4 dayer over easter
Four days of doof, psytrance and EMDEE
>>675439435
>needing drugs to get over bitches
How autistic are people here?
>>675434001
Fucking grow a pair, Sally...
>>675434001
>is only using me as a backup
Confront her about that and tell her to fuck off
>needing drugs to get over bitches
>How autistic are people here?
Waiiiit up, there is some confusion here.
I'm just passing through -my raving and compulsive psychedelic drug use has nothing to do with getting over bitches whatsoever.
I just saw old mate here liked drugs and raves and so do I.
wew
>>675434910
Honestly, start smoking weed. I used to be that way, it made me not care as much. As you grow older, you won't care as much
>>675434001
Browse for other chicks, troll dating sites, find some online flirtation.
You're obsessed because your focus is single minded while hers is split. Even if she isn't using you, this is a good lesson. You could simply be smothering and obnoxious, we don't know your personality enough to say which one of you is being the shittier human being.
Split your focus and your obsessions won't overextend though. You'll have to do some social juggling but you won't ruin any chance you have at a future before you get past the bonding phase.
>>675441543
Extension of Pro-tip: you probably watch a lot of porn anyways. Go watch camgirls anonymously and stuff in cam chat sites. It will numb some of the sexual appetite and social loneliness at the same time.
My girlfriend lives 2 hours away during semesters sometimes because of her program, I watch them sometimes instead of porn, she doesn't give a shit.
>>675434001
i knew a bitch once that had me or her hook after i figured it out i quit being a beta bitch told her to fuck off and now im rolling in pussy im not even kidding man get rid of her and dont worry about her. hit the gym get toned and fuck every one but her
>>675434001
Hire a hooker, it'll kill the idea in your mind that she's worth it.
You don't. I wish there was some cure, because I was stuck in that hole for two fucking years mate. You just eventually reach a point where you realize how unhealthy it is, and how badly she treats you. And once you reach that point, you're too bitter and full of hate to care about anyone.
stop being clingy and her interest to you increases. And why would u get "rid" of her? Just stop caring and only be with her if he says something to you and at that time you wanna do something with her. Simple as that. Dont get attached to anything or anyone.
Relationships are shit
Find a different crowd and you'll realise she's not as great as you thought her out to be.
