/b/ I come to you for real advice, not people telling me what I want to hear.
Thing is, i'm kinda chubby, and I'm dating this guy, he's awesome and all but he pressures me to lose weight sometimes and yesterday he told me he used to be a bit ashamed of me but not anymore. When I asked him what he meant he said he didn't want people to look at him and think he must be really desperate but now he'd make out with me anywhere. That really hurt my feelings. Should I forgive him? Dump him? An hero? Thanks.
>>674896208
An hero is the only option.
>>674896333
Yeah that's what I figured too.
>>674896208
I don't mind working out but I don't want to because of the cameras.
>>674896208
Atleast he's being truthful to you. I think you should consider that aspect.
>>674896208
Dump him, by admitting this he is basically admitting that your looks have improved to be on his level, if you try you can do better than him and find a hotter guy.
yeah atleast he is truthful about something. now nice. i am so glad for the truthfulness
if you like him enough do what he wants, if not dump him
>>674896572
No he meant that he finally accepted it and it's no longer a big issue. I'm scared to dump him, I don't want to end up a 30 year old virgin.
>>674896208
Look at it this way: He was complimenting you on your great progress and determination to keep trying to lose weight.
truth hurts gril, the positive you take away from this is he's still with you so the attraction is more than superficial
if you're pissed off then take a dig at something physically he might not be comfortable with, i.e. his dong
the alternative is he might just be one of those redpill negging faggots and needs his ass trashcanned, your call
how long have you been an item?
>>674896845
About 2 months. He's had 10/10 so far but all of them were bitches or stupid and he hasn't experienced love til now with me. We're really compatible personality wise. I know he would prefer it if I was a bit thinner and I'm really tryig my best to do so, but i'm one of those people that don't eat much but it still sticks to them a lot.
It's one thing to encourage you to stay healthy, it's another whole ordeal if he is self-conscious on how people perceive him based on how you look and then pushing you to match his standards.
That's not love from him, that's just vain as fuck.
Dump his ass, chances are you can find someone who is supportive and not as superficial.
>>674897080
2 months is nothing, I was under the assumption this was going for a couple of years, it's only going to get worse
voting for trashcan, has he come out with any other stuff like this?
>>674897208
>dump him for telling the truth and helping her lose weight
Landwhale logic
>>674897208
We've been best friends for 2 years if that counts.
And no not really, he's all good with everything else.
>>674896333
Tragic Truth Trips.
>>674897314
that's not it, he's known me for 2 years and i've been the same weight, and he got in a relationship with me. Maybe he sould've considered that before getting into a relationship with a "landwhale"
So lets see what you got....
>tits or gtfo
>>674897470
Im not calling you a landwhale. You're obviously trying really hard, if your story is true. I was talking about that moron telling you to dump him over a single negative thing
>>674897562
Wow I was surprised there wasn't a comment like this til now.
>>674897634
Ah ok, nice thanks.
>>674897650
It had to /b done
>now tits
>>674897634
It starts with a single negative thing, he's testing boundaries for what he can get away with here. The choice here is to nip it in the bud, and see where things go before this all starts again or cut losses now and don't regret it in a couple of years
I would mention that the negative comments about your weight to him.
Communication is key.
Also 6/10 on that dress. Would wear if wasn't pregnant.
>>674897710
Talk to him. If what he said really hurt you he might apologize for his words. But dont punish him for speaking his mind. Men do that and often they dont even realize if what they're saying is hurtfull.
Well, you probably should lose some weight, it'll make your life better.
That said, don't be his bitch. If he starts commenting on your clothes, your wrinkles, etc dump the fuck out of him
Pretty sure people are forgeting th rules here....
>dump the goods femanon
Is bf's name Travis?
Also, tits or gtfo
>>674897956
Oh I didn't know that. Thank you that was really helpful.
>>674898105
get lost, you edgy faggot
>>674897872
Or he is just an idiot who doesnt realize what he said is really hurtfull. That's why you communicate in a relationship. Now, if he refuses to listen when you try to tell him what he said was dumb, THEN you can say he's actually a asshole.
>>674898162
Also this
>>674898245
If he refuses to about how it made you feel. THEN you can say he was trying to make you feel bad about yourself on purpose.
From what you've written I can only assume he's an idiot, you never comment on a woman's weight like that - at least that's what I've been taught. My advice is, talk it through with him in a respectful manner, and don't let the conversation escalate, just keep it cool and have a nice chat about it. It might clear up the situation.
You lost weight for a reason right? To look and feel better, so if he likes the look and feels better about your look as well then it's fine. Obviously, the statement was a bit shallow, but that doesn't mean there aren't other things about you he enjoys.
>>674898245
they've known each other for 2 years prior to hooking up, he obviously knows which buttons to push
>>674896208
TITS or GTFO
fucking hell /b/ standards have fallen low
TITS or GTFO.
>>674897114
seconding to an extent
>>674898467
If you want /b/'s tits start a bingo thread
>>674898368
You would be surprised in how many ways a man can fuck up in a relationship without realizing or having bad intent.
>>674898368
>implying this means anything
They could know each other for 10 years, guys speak our minds without thinking how it might make girls feel. It's just our nature.
>>674898617
Oh. Then I don't wanna be that girl that punishes him for it I guess.
>>674898617
This
>>674898706
>It's just our nature.
all my keks
>>674898617
maybe if you're clinically retarded
>>674896208
fuck him off, if you wanna lose weight lose it but if someone is "ashamed" to be with you then it's not gonna work in the long run.
>>674898727
You can surely show you're not amused. Make him sleep on the couch for a night or something. But dont instantly dump him over a single comment. That's dumb.
>>674898827
You haven't had a relatioship last longer than a few months, have you?
>>674896208
>>674896572
>>674896515
>>674896584
>>674897080
>>674897208
Go back to tumblr or reddit you faggots. fucking hell this is /b/ never forget rule no.1
>>674898827
Some might say men are retarded on a emotional level. I completely agree.
>>674898905
Yeah you're right. Thank you everyone for your advice, it's been really helpful. I didn't know some things but I do now.
>>674898932
I'm currently in a relationship on the cusp of going on 10 years, nice try though
>>674898993
Again, you're speaking for yourself here
>>674899035
No problem.
Now show us your tits you bitch.
>>674896208
This is why I became a lesbian lol.
>>674899095
Sure buddy whatever you say friendo :^)
>>674898949
OP never said they were female anon
>>674896208
>>674896208
I've done that before, i cringe to think back on it now.
> I'm scared to dump him, I don't want to end up a 30 year old virgin.
you haven't fucked yet? is this some shitty bait? also you are probably fat as fuck and he should be embarrased to be seen with you.
>>674899207
yeah because angry self hating dykes are the answer
>>674899207
>became a lesbian
Confirmed early 20s bitch that will be back on cock within a year
>>674899209
So is it dawning on you that you're socially retarded then and it has nothing to do with you being a man then?
>>674899317
No, fuck dykes.
>>674899242
We've been together for 2 months, I don't wanna fuck yet. We're both inexperienced virgins anyways. It's not. And thanks for assuming shit about me. I don't know why you would say that, but then again this is /b/ and I'm not sure why I even ask that.
>>674899370
>>674899370
I love chicks like this. they come back to cock with a vengeance, and after a few drinks they will eat out Jill from marketing while you pound her from behind.
>>674898949
>tits or gtfo
Did I miss the fucking timestamped tits or something? Faggots follow rules or go to reddit
>>674899400
Lmao so you're actually autistic.
>>674899547
>>674899370
so according to you, every lesbian just turns straight after a while?
>>674899528
he already said he was embarrassed to be seen with you. you are clearly fat as fuck or
1) you would have gotten laid 16 years ago
2) you would post a real pic of yourself
look - guys get judged really harshly by the women they date. It is part of the pecking order ok? Dating a fat girl is shameful.
On top of that you are both kissless virgins, so he is going to be extra sensitive about it and even less socially able to deal with it.
do both of you a favor. start fucking working out. get over the cameras. go fucking jog.
>>674899692
no, juts lots of them.
>>674899692
Did you read what she said?
>this is why I became a lesbian
>became a lesbian
>became
I wasn't aware you could choose what sex to be attracted to
>>674899910
that's what the jews want you to think
>>674899756
16 years ago? I'm 18 what the fuck. That's just really rude, I mean shit I know this is /b/ and all but just because I don't post pictures of myself or my tits (i don't because a lot of my friends browse /b/ and i don't want to be seen).
>guys get judged really harshly by the women they date
i'm sorry, that's not true at all. maybe it's because you're dating the wrong women, or you know you're the problem. It's kinda ironic you should say that, you're calling me a pig and making such rude assumptions.
>>674899528
how about you post your floppy tits, I get off to that thing. Or that grilled cheese sandwich pussy of yours.
>>674900127
wait what
>>674900166
He said she should post her floppy tits or grilled cheese pussy
That depends on you. The type of person you are. Or the type of person you want people to perceive you as. Do you.
>>674900108
thought you were 30.
>i'm sorry, that's not true at all.
>>674900108
nigga this is some bait, I'm out.
>>674900166
cmon gril don't b shy.
>>674900261
that's disgusting
>>674900329
shut up and post your nasty bits already, only reason anyone gives a shit about you anyway
Dump him, then get skinny. sounds like douche fuck tbh, fuck his friends tell him that they didnt mind the meat
>>674900304
It's not bait.I said I don't wanna die a 30 year old virgin because I'm scared if I dump him I won't find someone else.
>>674900329
Lmfao. I love /b/
Helping a woman without her posting tits../b/ has fallen this far..
>newfagsshoulddie.jpg
>>674900470
you will trust me, how much do you weigh?
you:attractive as
this photo: taco
>>674900380
I second that
>>674900480
omg lmao something so not funny i luv /b/ u guyz XDDD
>>674900543
that's kinda hot though
>>674900470
you sound like a fat horribly needy cunt. you clearly need attention, so post your tits with a timestamp. we will tell you hot how you look, and your pussy will get all warm from the attention.
no one will recognize you. your tits looks just like every other pair of tits out there.
I'm gonna give you a serious answer. Dump him. He's a fucking dick for saying that. I would lose weight and get in shape, then send him a pick with another dudes dick in your mouth. If he was actually into you and cared about you he wouldn't care. Tell him you're embarrassed by his small cock when your freinds are talking about their boyfreinds packages and how his doesn't compare
>>674900542
176 pounds
You're a woman and wouldn't understand what guys talk about amongst friends. Being judged or ridiculed for dating a fatty is 100% true.
Now post them floppies, bitch.
>>674900684
how tall
Post dem titties bitch
>>This right here >>674900672
>>674900672
> If he was actually into you and cared about you he wouldn't care.
sounds like a chick or fatanon
>>674900720
so fucking true ull get roasted
>>674900746
5"7
>>674900720
You must hang out with some really cool people. i bet your all just a hoot at parties
>>674900720
>>674900880
what kind of people do you guys hang out with
>>674900933
Males
>>674900890
ok so that translates to 5'5 185 lbs am I right?
>>674900850
Spotted the virgin who comes to /b/ acting like he knows what having a gf feels like.
>>674900720
oh sure, go out and get a 10/10 girl and be the coolest guy in the party and admired by your friends, then come home to a loveless bitch and live for other people
>>674900720
Must be nice to have a life where the only thing wrong is if your dating a girl who's fat and your friends might make fun of you. this is so fucking highschool
>>674900933
normal boys. Trust me. Nothing much but they will absolutely point out that u could do better
>>674900989
find me an 18 year old male who _doesn't_ judge his girlfriend at least partially by her looks - maybe some fucked up homeschool kid?
>>674901059
>this is so fucking highschool
they are literally in highschool
>>674901059
yeah, who even does that anymore? then your friends must be really immature and stupid
Just looae some weight you fat fucking cunt
>>674900986
5"7 176 lbs
>>674901076
>normal boys
>>674901238
just post your fucking tits already
OP you realize where your asking this right? You'really asking a bunch of little dicked anime fags about what a normal relationship with a woman should be like. LMAO. This place is full of NEETS who hate women becuase they can't even get the town whore to fuck them. Good luck
>>674901076
what do you mean do better?
"Wow dude you guys get along well laugh have fun but dude look at her fat you could do better, what about that 90 pound slut that has the personality of a toaster, she seems better"
Your all going to be divorced if your picking a girl just based on looks and friend approval
Is it just me or /b/ is kinda fucked. You have these people actually offering advice and other people calling her fat and demanding tits. It's weird, this place used to have more of the second.
>>674901373
thanks, I come to /b/ for marriage advice all the time
>>674896208
>"Now i'm in better shape i'll have no problem finding someone more handsome than you"
>Dump his sorry ass
>???
>Profit
>>674901405
lots of sad weeabos who want to whiteknight fatty mc fattington here
>>674901341
I just thought people would be more real here. I don't want people to tell me what I want to hear. Like "you're beautiful the way you are."
>>674901423
Then do click on this thread fuck ass
>>674901373
i completely agree
>>674901059
28 yo, male in US. will make fun of friends for dating fatties. At least until it's serious. Like longer than 2 months. Also, to all the ppl telling her to make fun of his tiny cock, she hasn't seen it.
Floppies, bitch. We did our part and gave u advice. It's only fair. Have the ppl that u know that visit /b seen your floppies?
>>674901497
we are. go lose some fucking weight. and post your tits.
you won't do either, so fuck off.
or go slick to some twilight novels, where no one judges you on how you look.
>>674901534
I'm here for the floppy tits
>>674901485
for what? what do they get out of it? tits? obviously not
>>674901630
feeling smug and like their shitty success with women is because of those mean alphas
>I'd never mock you for your cankles m'lady! dump that rogue!
>>674901585
so you call me fat basically but still ask me to post my tits? How does that work exactly?
>>674901702
normally it would mean you post your tits, but you might be learning disabled or something, I don't know.
>>674901696
hey i'd rather date guys like that than assholes
>>674896208
Lose weight you cow.
>>674901753
No I meant, you like fat chicks or something?
>>674901702
Well we don't want to date u like that loser u r currently with. But we always want floppies, dumbass
>>674898467
>>674898949
>>674900073
>>674897754
>>674897562
>>674898105
>>674898142
>>674898398
OP didnt state they were fem.
OP is not screaming for atttention.
fucking new faggots
>>674901838
this
>>674901838
Op clearly stated a reason SHE didn't want to post HER tits.
>>674901809
is that why you're single?
>>674901838
op posted pic of fat girl, clearly is woman. clearly is needy for attention.
>>674901807
sure, just don't like to be seen in public with them. I've fucked abunch of fatties, I mean who hasn't.
also - we can't tell if you are really fat or not.
Sounds like a dude I knew. He's just really insecure if he's that afraid of what other's think of him. What a pussy. Dump.
>>674901807
>>674901807
I love a fat nasty pussy too, so post that shit
>>674901702
Again....do you know where you are right now? 9 out of 10 people on this thread are talking out their ass and are playing WoW in between posts in mom's living room while shes watching Dr.Phil and making pizza roles for her NEET son
>>674901950
Both of u are the newfags for allowing this to go on as long as it did without demanding tits. Go back to R/eddit.
>>674902049
oh shit its pizza rolls time! I didn't know I had enough GBPs!
uh oh maybe its because there is bad news maybe uncle steve is moving in with us. I don't like him, he and mommy play rough wrestling all the time and she doesn't love me as much when he is around.
REEEEEEEEE
>>674901994
oh so you would prefer to be seen with a 10/10 in public even though there's no love in your relationship, but you know, for other people's sake
>>674896208
Tits or gtfo
Also time stamp
>>674902161
yes 100% that is why famous men literally hire models to go out with them in public.
For a girl you have a shit sense of how public appearances work
>>674902118
>new fags calling out other new fags kek.
Do you guys think the girl in the picture is fat?
>>674901982
Well I'm not single, I'm also not attractive to fatties. If the choice was be single or date a fatty, I'd be single. I also like my women to be confident and have self esteem.
>>674902253
so what are you? famous then?
you care more about public appearances than your happiness? no wonder why you're on /b/
>>674902304
I like them needy, and crying to online forums asking "Am I fat? really? You aren't just saying that? BOOO HOOOOO IM EATING BEN AND JERRYS RIGHT NOW
>>674902304
have fun dying alone
>>674902276
Yes.
whatever, I'm out fattie. enjoy your shit thread, shit boyfriend, and shit life.
>>674902043
>I love a fat nasty pussy
>nasty
See that can't be true because you're still using a negative adjective to describe it.
For instance, I don't say I love disgusting huge balls.
I say I love huge balls.
This has been a public service test of the Children Under Christian's Keep programming, have a terrific day.
>>674902304
don't women with confidence and self esteem tend to make more problems and leave you easier than ones without?
>>674896208
Get ready to have sex with him, and as he's about to cum, "swallow it" then spit it on his face and dump him
>>674902502
says the one on /b/
>>674902506
you literally have no idea how to talk dirty do you.
>>674902471
As compared to dying with others?
>>674902500
what the fuck
Post dem fat cow tits or get the fuck out.
>>674896208
forgive him
>>674902471
You sound underage bro
>>674896208
Loose some weight you fat bitch.
Also.. . Fuck titx or gtfo
>>674902612
i'm just saying, if you're too picky or an asshole like that, no woman would want to marry you
or she would just get tired of your sorry ass and divorce you and take everything
>>674902370
AHAHAHAHA yes i love this
>>674902605
>Current Year
>Safe Spaces running rampant
>Implying talking dirty is still "in"
Get with the times gramps, everyone's keeping it squeaky clean these days.
>>674902540
If you're a dumbass that doesn't know how to keep them happy. I'm confident, I am happy with how I look and where I am in life, why shouldn't the women I date be too?
You're all beta's anyway's
>>674902814
>I am happy
>on /b/
>>674901950
>>674901838
Samefagging this hard
Next time you bang start squeeling like a pig and say "I'm your slam pig, give it to your piggy".
He'll probably like how you were willing to degrade yourself to please him. Remember. Your only purpose in life is to please a man or many men if you're a slut.
>>674902722
Will be married in 8 weeks to solid 8/10. Been with her 9 years. She's probably outta my league, but I started dating her when she was a senior in HS.
>>674902923
>>674903003
have fun being divorced
Its always the boring guys who date boring hot girls, like cool you have sex with someone hot but what else do you do the 23.59 hours left in the day, im going to guess talk about sex and how hot your girl is, witch btw no one gives a flying fuck
>>674901951
OP just wanted real advice like they said, if they said "i am fem", then i would be all for tits or gtfo.
>>674902118
and its cancerous candyass niggers like yourself who ruin everything
>>674896208
OP you want real advice?
stick it out with your bf a little longer but keep an eye open for the red flags that he might have shown already.
he might pressure you to lose weight in order to benefit yourself, he means well, im sure he wouldnt mean to hurt your feelings on purpose.
make sure you are cautious though, the dude could turn out to be a controlling asshole, him telling you what to wear, questing your everyday routine, what you eat etc 'might' be red flags. at the end of the day if your bf continues to hurt your feelings, upset you and somehow put you down, then obviously he is not what you are looking for in a boyfriend/relationship.
gl op.
>>674902949
goddamn that gets me hot
>sqealing shes my little slam piggy
>piggy needs shit
>piggy needs shit
>she starts licking my asshole
who doesn't love fat chicks with self esteem issues?
>>674903020
> proxy
> on 4Chan with computer and phone
> shoop
Which one anon?
>>674903112
same shit other couples do, just look better doing it.
>>674903112
/thread
>>674896208
how long have you been together? can we get a pic? dont an hero
>>674903157
Maybe u should read the other posts of OP if u still don't think she's a fem.
She's gotten enough advice. It's her turn to provide floppies. Should I give advice too? He will leave u once he finds better. Post them titties.
>>674903157
thank you that was a great advice
>>674903257
But your just dating them because there hot i imagine its not the best conversation
>>674903257
You mean have a shit relationship that's boring af and won't last beyond the sex life slowing down in the slightest.
>>674903443
They've been together 2 months. Do people read the posts? I'm surprised your not one of these cucks claiming she might not be a she.
>>674903649
just got here anon. have they fucked?
>>674903594
Why can't attractive people have fun?
>>674903468
>She's gotten all the advice
You literally have no idea how women work.
They are manipulative fucks. This is why tits come first because otherwise she'll get what she needs and bolt.
> enjoy the friend zone
>>674903594
this is true, then you guys get old and ugly and hate each other and boom your 45 and just offed yourself because your whole life was wasted with someone you only liked to put your dick into
>>674903755
Both virgins.
>>674903755
only oral so far
Well why can't you simply just lose fucking weight? It will be beneficial for both of you.
>>674903792
If you have children together is it a waste? Or is the point of dating or marriage?
>>674903766
Women that are above a 7.5 usually the personality has a dramatic dip in quality. Not saying all are like that but they are extremely rare and won't stay with you for long because they know they can get better than you.
>>674903815
>>674903842
just her to him or him to her? both?
>>674903944
dubs speak the truth
>>674904115
i think her to him
>>674903785
Well I showed up late. My first post demanded titties via Vader meme.
>>674903944
she mentioned she was trying to though and is
>>674903792
That shit only happens to people that rush into relationships or do what I just said anon.
Sounds like he's given you excellent advice, OP. Maybe you should take it and stop being proud of being unhealthy. Just join a gym and stop eating cupcakes. It's not hard.
>>674904002
This makes no sense. If you are both attractive and have fun together why would she leave?
>>674904230
My first post did too.
Other anons fucked us by being that new.
>>674896208
Lose weight, then.
>>674904229
and he still bitches about her weight. dump the boy. lose weight and then get with his friend.
OP. would you like some serious honest advice?
Loose some fukin weight m8. fat chicks are the worst
>>674904442
Fuckers
Is it summer already?
>>674904416
Anon women only stay faithful because two things. They know they couldn't do better
> You have tons of money
> big dick
> You're significantly hotter than them
or they believe they won't get caught.
>>674904763
Thanks for saying I have a big dick. I consider it to be average. But I do make bitches cum.
>>674896208
>/adv/
>>674904948
Then you're getting cucked or you're so far up her ass she can't get away with it.
>>674904948
cringy
>>674896208
show us ur box u fat fuk
>>674905081
She's not that into anal.
>>674905469
> not into anal
Yeah bro she's fucking someone else.
