Can you help me /b/ros? Is there any way to get rid of insecurity? I've got a little story if you have time.
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>>674776298
of course, also saved
where is her bum crease where is it why does she have no bum crease i am so confused where is the crease of her bum
>>674776298
go for it.
>>674776695
She's flat-assed. Jesus, how new are you
>>674776298
Yes OP. Went through all those feels about 12 years. happy to listen. happy to help.
Ok, so I'm 20, and I've only been with one girl (relationship lasted for 2 months). Now I've met a girl at my university, and I like her a lot, cont with greentext.
>>674777017
bump
>>674777017
bro, know the rules. you gotta write this shit out first and copypaste it. this is taking forever.
Instead of thinking of yourself, think of other people, and what other people think of them, not you. If you think of what other people think of you, you become insecure, but other people think that as well, just not as much most of the time
>>674777325
He's right, thread will die.
>>674776298
Aids is not an insecurity fam.
>>674776298
there's something wrong with her butthole
>>674777325
yeah it's always good to just greentext it in wordpad or something beforehand. threads on /b/ 404 very fast if there's no decent reponsetime
Here it goes:
>Be me
>First year in new university
>See this girl everyday in the bus stop
>We start greeting everyday
>She's kinda nerdy but has great ass and tits
>I think I know her but I'm not sure
Fast foward to last month
>See her at a costume party
>"Hey! You're the nice guy I see at the bus stop"
>"Hey! You're the cute girl I see at the bus stop"
Cont
>>674777670
Niggers got to it m8.
>>674777677
>>674777325
Been here for a lot of years. Never thought of that. Never mind.
>>674777824
ok thanks
>>674777736
i'll bump that puss.
>>674777947
>Been here for a lot of years.
>Never thought of that.
Choose.
Someone says EVERY time this happens.
>>674777736
>I ask her name
>Let's call her Veronica
>I know that name
>"See you later!"
>Later, I go to the bathroom and just before entering a hand reaches me
>It's her
>We start dancing
>"Do you know Marta?" I ask
>"Yeah"
>"I know who you are"
She is a friend of one of my best friends (Marta)
>Keep dancing until she says "well, my friend is looking at me, I better go talk to him, see you later ;)"
This happens 3 or 4 more times
Cont
>>674776298
yes, do drugs!
>>674777947
>674777947
it's not a huge deal just saying it so you can get your threads going faster. i know it definitely helped mine if i pre-write it. also allows you to take your time and get the phrasing and details right.
bumping/going to go look for a webm thread while you type...
monitoring this thread
For fucks sake get to the bit where she sucks your cock clean after analizing the fuck out of her
>We start dancing again
>Get pretty close
>We look in the eyes
>She stops and goes away without saying anything, I go back with my friends
>Later she comes to me and says that she had a lot of fun but she has to go
After that we kept greeting each other everyday, until two weeks ago
>She starts talking to me
>We keep talking in the bus, she asks me to have a coffee with her before going to class
>Next day the same
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>>674780102
fucking beta fag its obvious that she wants your dick why dont you go for it
>>674780102
keep it comin op
>Last week of class before vacation
>Thinking about asking her to have a coffee on Saturday afternoon
>Only see her Monday and Friday
>Friday
>We both miss the bus
>Go to class together in a taxi
>Ask her if she wants to have a coffee after class
>"Ok sweetie :)"
>While we are at the café I ask her if she wants to meet this weekend
>She says she has to work on Saturday, and that she goes on vacation on Sunday
Soo... What do you think? Does she want it?
>>674780960
you are so gay right now
>>674780960
Wear protection.
>>674780960
>"Ok sweetie :)"
just be smooth and fuck her
>>674780960
you obviously are a rookie and will not satisfy her. better to leave her for a real man.
>>674777736
delicious.
>>674780960
Oh man, rape charges incoming.
>>674781372
I want to beat her with PVC pipes.
>>674781506
Ain't rape if she can't say no. I would know I'm a lawyuur. Yup .
>>674780960
Whoa, hold up.
If 'it' is the D, slow down bro or you'll never give it to her.
If 'it' is some kind of relationship, then yeah, it's pretty clear. Just make sure you're both on the same page of girlfriend/boyfriend.
A good thing to ask her is, "Do you want to do this more often?"
Do you have her number yet? Get it.
>>674780960
You're borderline friendzone right now. Watch out.
I suggest going to a movie and lock hands with her half way through. Hug her when you separate for the night. Don't say something stupid. If you're lucky, the relationship will just happen. You kinda have to let it.
>>674776298
Work on it. If you can identify your weakness work on improving it. You're nervous in social situations then learn to remain calm and become more charming and charismatic. You're insecure about you body then work on it, lift weight and do HIIT. If its something more difficult to work on like a facial feature or some disfigurement learn either to draw attention away from it or find a way to own it. Whatever it is just work on it. I used to have trouble talking to women so I went out of my way to talk to them. Learned to be charming. Made them laugh and came off as interesting. I did it gradually and only went slightly out of my comfort zone each time to avoid spilling spaghetti everywhere.
>>674780960
Okay, i'll be serious.
Having work and going vacation could be a legitimate excuse. it could be a lie but only if shes not into you.
I would ask her again for the following weekend. If she says no, I'd just stop thinking about her in that way and just chat very casually, not giving her too much attention.
At this point, if she likes you, she'll make an effort
>>674780102
Dude, you don't even need to finish this story.
We've all been there.
This is what is called the friend-zone.
Insecure guys meet a girl who is
attractive and kind feel this:
"OMG THIS IS MY LAST CHANCE
TO DATE A NICE GIRL I CAN
INTRODUCE TO MY MOM! IF I
DON'T MAKE THIS WORK I SHOULD
PROBABLY KILL MYSELF"
A secure guy thinks this:
"Wow, she's super hot and nice,
let's see where this goes. If she
doesn't like me, fuck it. On to the
next one. I don't need more friends.
Especially hot female ones."
So, QUESTION:
What do? How to go from insecure
to secure?
EASY!
1. Read LOTS of books!
2. Find a therapist that is a successful
older male that can serve as a role model.
#2 you gotta find on your own.
#1 Here is your reading list:
FIRE IN THE BELLY by Sam Keen
IRON JOHN by Robert Bly
KING, WARRIOR, MAGICIAN, LOVER by Robert Moore
HOW TO BE AN ADULT by David Richo
EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE by Dan Goleman
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>>674782682
...cont....
So, why do all of this?
You need to learn how to be NOT ONLY
a loving, kind adult male, but also a
self-aware, assertive one with strong
emotional intelligence.
It sounds like you may have the first
qualities.
But it sounds like you are lacking the
second ones.
So work on it!
It takes time and it's hard work.
But it's worth it. Trust me!
I've been in your exact same position
MANY times before I learned that
I was the problem.
Now I'm in my 30s, married to a
beautiful woman and wealthy.
When I was 22 I was a depressed,
anxious wreck of a loser.
And then I promised myself to change.
And now all is right in the world.
So go get 'em, OP!!!!
>>674782058
I like her, so I'd like a relationship. And no, I don't have her number yet but I have her on Facebook (we talk very little and it takes some time to get a response from her)
>>674782062
That's my worst fear
>>674776298
That would depend on what you're insecure about, OP.
>>674782788
>>674782682
Not op but you're a nice guy taking time to write all that
This is why we need ww3. Less dicks to go around. We wouldnt need to try so hard to get the girl. Just like in ww2.
>>674782870
FAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAG
>>674783625
Thanks bro. There's a real crisis amongst young men right now and I know how it feels. So it's very important to me.
Soo... any more short-therm tips?
Its because weve allowed femminists to change whats socially acceptable. Getting shit kicked by our dad used to make us harden the fuck up. Now its illegal. Now we are expected to talk about our feelings instead. We are incouraged to behave in non gender specific ways. Girls are encouraged to wear jeans and act like boys. They are constantly told by media that males are worth less than them. And that males are expendable.