Long Distance Relationships...Discuss
Bad Idea or Good Idea?
>>674566035
Bad faggot
Bad newwwwws my lad. I've tried it twice. You need someone to hold and appreciate in person. It was nothing but arguing and depression.
It can be better than nothing if you keep it lighthearted/fun. But you should be looking for a replacement close to home (cause that's what she will be doing).
Unless you're in serious love (which you're not, else you wouldn't be asking b for advice)
Currently in one... Get to see her this June for 4 months. It's alright. It doesn't help if you are insecure. Yeah you'll get hit with a wall of loneliness every now and then. Especialy if you live in totaly different time zones. But if she's special then why not. Been with my ldr for 1 year and a half. Cant wait for June.
>>674566035
terrible idea anon, only leads to paranoia and heartache
I remember when "internet girlfriend" was something you fucking laughed at people about.
Now faggots think it's completely normal.
>>674566666
Checked
>>674566666
>>674566666
>>674566666
>>674566666
NICE QUINTS
if ya cant fuck her, it aint a relationship
>>674566666
>>674566666
FAGGOT STOLE QUINTS ON SHITTY THREAD.
>>674566666
wasted quints
Won't work. Don't waste your time
>>674566666
The quints have spoken.
>>674566035
I guess you could say I'm in one currently but then I'm old and married for 10 years. Not really the same thing. Wife took a job back home (living with my parents, lol) and I'm still 5hr away remodeling the house for sale. We see each other every few weeks.
Generally speaking, bad idea. Depends on how mature you both are and how strong/committed your relationship is.
>>674566035
Can work out. Had a long-distance relationship for years (500km). Visit often, phone often, have nice things to look forward to, be honest, never take liberties, be committed.
After four years we moved together, she went abroad a few times (for some months each time) and since two years we are married and happy.
Can be frustrating and long-distance arguments are really not nice. But if you both are determined, it can work out.
>>674566035
Been in one for 4 years. Now she moved in and life is great
If you have a trustworthy woman and youre both not dumb people who think with their genitals, you can give it a shot.
IMPORTANT NOTE:
Visit eachother. LDR without visiting is bullshit and you might as well give up now.
>>674566035
If you love her and keep it as an open relationship, it will benefit you until you eventually reach the time it's not ltr
>>674567183
Kek are you me >>674567193
>>674566035
If both of you are free to fuck who you want while you're far it may works.
>>674566666
get back to us in june when she tells you there's someone else
>>674566035
it's great.
As long as she's isolated as fuck on some all female nature faggotry sluts-without-borders trip where all of the local population has "teh AIDZORS".
Then you find something close to home, you keep up the romance via Skype, and you train her to make good amateur porn for you.
Once she's back home..you're set! it's actually quite good but you're going to need something local to empty your balls into.
>>674567317
this
>>674566035
She may be loyal physically but she will cheat emotionally and when you finally get together you'll realise you lost a part of her and it can never work out
>>674567202
>>674567317
>LDR open relationship
Great idea, dumbshit. If youre not wanting to commit to eachother when youre apart, you wont commit when youre together.
Worst advice ITT
>>674566666
FIVE SAME INTEGERS
>>674567255
Seems so. Nice it worked out for you, bro.
Good idea, I love the thought of my gf fucking other men
>>674567407
says the guy who has never been in a LDR and has no good advice for OP. gtfo bitch
I was in an LRD for 3 years before we was able to live together. It was pretty tough at first but you get used to it.
As long as you have a goal of actually being together in the end then it doesn't matter.
>>674566666
checked
she's banging someone else
>>674566035
Bad idea generally. Doesn't often work well if your relationship is relatively new; more chance if relationship is already well established, both parties are experienced and the separation comes as a result of something like a job posting away (particularly if it's not permanent)
>>674567348
>but you're going to need something local to empty your balls into.
Low IQ dumbass who thinks with his dick detected
Be a man and fap until your girl manages to move in
>>674567560
Sure thing dipshit. Im >>674567193
Had a LDR of 4 years. Visiting back and forth 4-6 times every year, few days upto 2 months every visit.
Worked great, moved in 3 months ago and life is great
You fags who cant commit to one woman are pathetic.
any idiot who doesn't think their girl is at least thinking about fucking another guy clearly doesn't need to be in a LDR. a year? without sex? yeah right
You might want to block each other on social media or you might be tempted to lurk
>>674566035
I lost my virginity to a long distance relationship.
>>674567847
"You fags who cant commit to one woman are pathetic."
Your balls aint your heart bromigo.
Sometimes you need a slut for practice.
Like Odysseus.
He had many island whoruhs before returning to his 1-and-only.
>>674566771
/thread
>>674567847
the idea of being in a relationship with someone who you can't even see on a weekly basis is not something i would ever do and for good reason.
Inless she's a horny slut and needs dick when ur not there to give it to her your golden
>>674566035
Tell us more about your cuck life
>>674568129
Hey if you dont want to make that sacrifice to end up with a good woman (which are hard to find, theyre all shallow liberal cunts now), then fine
I personally did think itd be worth it, and it is. Whatever floats your boat though, what works for someone may not work for another
>>674567914
>LDR
>a year
These people are doing it wrong.
A normal LDR is about keeping eachother updated and planning moments to see eachother
>>674568531
our good sailor has me there.
Good women ARE hard to find.
currently in a long distance relationship (over 8k miles) and I think it's a good idea, It's motivated me and given me something to work towards. Plus a little love can be good.
these faggots never heard of female masturbation
I did it for a year and a half. Now we are happily married with a daughter being born in May. 10,000 miles between us and I'd see her for about 6 months of the year (I'd travel there twice per year).
They can work. Just have to trust each other and make it want too work.
>>674568774
fell for a Thai street walker did we?
>>674567407
This is really really really stupid. Men need to have sex, and if both of you are not allowed to do that you'll live stressed, repressed, anxious and super gelous. It's bad to have an open relationship, don't get me wrong, but I't's generally the only way to make it work
>/b/
>relationships
funny guy
>>674568531
the odds are not in my favor is what i'm getting at. and why take a chance on someone 3000 miles away when there are college freshmen ripe for the picking? and before you ask, if i was looking for a relationship it wouldn't be a "serious" one therefore no long distance. i'm not committing myself to anyone atm but if i did find that special girl tthat gives me the butterflies in my dick i would try to make it work but still even then the LDR would be out of the question. there's too much at stake and i'm just not willing to put myself at risk of being hurt again because she wants to make it work long distance.
>>674566937
are these creatures still alive?
it's like you bought a car but you can only drive it 6 times a year.
>>674569424
and you have constant maintenance to do on the fucker because it's an older model.
Bad bad bad idea. I know a dude who has been in a long distance relationship for 4 years. They have never met. Ever. They're in different countries. Across the Pacific Ocean from one another. And he proposed to her last year. Let me repeat, they have never met. Ever. He has passed up a lot of good pussy for a chick who he has never met. Yet she is his fiancé. She has many many mental illnesses. Gender dysphoria and so on. Makes my femurs cringe.
There's nothing inherently wrong with them as long as neither of you takes it too seriously. You have to know going in that one or both of you is going to sleep around. Trying to remain faithful when you either never see each other or only see each other once every few months or more is foolish, it won't work.
Basically just manage your expectations. A long distance relationship will not result in marriage without the long distance part being resolved. Ever. So if you're really serious, pack up and move before she finds someone local. Because it's inevitable, she will, whether you know about it or not.
I've been in a VERY Long Distance Relationship for one year and a half. We decided to keep it open to live without stress and jealousy. Icould ho out with my friends and live my life at the best of the situation every time without feeling bad. My GF probably did the same and I honestly don't care. We talked a lot and every time we did it we knew is was just because we loved eachother. Because we could have fun/sex with other girls so what's tha point of keeping in touch if not pure interest? When we met we started a closed relationship of course and we're really happy. (We never talk about what we did)
>>674570308
that's how it should be.
