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Am I fucked up?
Im always like this with girls. I always turn them away because I know that there are way better alpha males out there.
I dont think I deserve a relationship in general.
>Also General Feels Thread
>>674556203
she sexy? what do you rate her..?
>>674556395
A decent 7.5 asian
>>674556203
Post feet
>>674556454
Fek i dont have
>>674556203
>>674556203
Op just stop being a little bitch fucks sake this is what happens to people pre-cucking
>>674556564
I actually never thought that this would be considered "pre-cucking" :(
Fuck I really dont have game
>>674556203
Is anyone else like this on /b/?
I know im not alone
>>674556203
fuck her man whats your problem
>>674556436
Get together with her then, if she wants to be with you, then do it see how things go&everyone deserves to be in a relationship if your treat the person good just see how it goes
>>674556203
tell her you read it and think you never worried about not answering calls, don't make her important, sounds like she wants that, probably will start wanting to fuck u more, keep being urself though just do that to
>>674556748
I treat her well and she treats me great as well.
But I dont think I deserve all the good from her.
I dont think what I do amounts to what she does for me.
>>674556854
oh lm not good enough for love uuuuuuuhhhhh my feelings, look at yourself.
>>674556950
Yeah Im not :(
>>674557038
why
>>674556854
Well if you treat her well like you said and what you do for her now and she wants to be with you then your all good..should just man the fuck up mate and make her time worth being with you..even the little things will make a girl smile just be you self and be happy
>>674557091
Because Im a piece of shit. Im 20 and I still cant go to college. All I can do is work (Gym & Auto Mechanic). She goes to school.
Btw shes very nice to me but all I do is turn her away because I know she deserves someone much much better, someone who will love he way better than I do.
>>674557277
Her*
>>674556854
then fucking ditch her then you dense retard
>oooh i want to be with her
>oooh i'm not deserving of her love
be a bigger beta
>>674557277
please kill yourself you attention seeking beta fag
>>674557277
OP you r just like me...
starting problems out of fucking nowhere. You have a girl that likes you and you like her. But for some reason you just make a problem and she dumps you. I did that verry often. I said "yeah you need someone better than me" 'n shit. stop it thats gay as hell just overthink shit. If she likes you why would you fuck up?
go cry somewhere else. Here nobody can help you. You're on your own
>>674557417
Why? How am I attention seeking?
Im still a sack of shit. No matter where im employed
OP you sound like a bitch. Please stop being a whiny fuckin bitch.
>>674556203
You are way too insecure you little pussy
>oh no you probably don't even want me
>I don't deserve you
Stop that bullshit. Stay cool and relax.
I think you've got to become a confident man first before you try to start dating
>>674556649
You don't have any game and you are a whiny, insecure pussy.
>>674557786
>You are way too insecure you little pussy
and girls hate insecure guys. that's fact.
I didn't even have to read the texts to know you talk way too fucking much. If the ratio of shit you say to what she says is that bad, she is not interested at all. Ease up faggot. Girls do not like walls of text.
>>674556203
the fuck is wrong with you anon...
>>674557277
You are focusing on things that she probably doesn't care about.
She likes you. Accept that. Don't worry you cuck. Develop confidence you little piece of shit.
>>674557786
this. If you keep telling them you're not good enough they'll eventually agree. Stop fucking fishing for reassurance like a needy child and grow some balls. She's with you, not somebody else, have some fucking confidence.
Then how dafuq do I build confidence?
>>674558090
stop being a whiny bitch. The mere fact that you have a girlfriend who presumably likes you puts you so far ahead of a shitload of other guys out there.
Join the army.
Or fix up that waining self esteem of yours and get jacked.
Same thing really
>>674558045
Im not fishing for reassurance. She does reassure me but it does not make me feel any better.
I feel worse as a person
>>674558090
Put yourself outside your comfort zone. If you do it enough that builds confidence.
>>674558255
Exactly.
But im still waiting for my green card.
The wait & status adjustment brought my life downhill (no job & etc)
I just recently got my jobs back because my EAD card came in.
>>674556203
You sound like Alan Harper on his period.
Stop being aa beta whiteknight and be an alpah who can say, hey, how are you? I will pick you up, or when you see her, you speak with her like the motheefuckee guy you are. If you still being and obnoxious talkative cunt 24/7 thats your problem.
>>674558333
bullshit. There are two reasons and only two that a man would say the words you said to her:
a) you are fishing for reassurance by being self-deprecating
b) you want to break up with her but want her to do it
so which is it? If it's the second one grow a pair and leave her instead of trying to drive her away. It'll be less painful for both of you.
>>674558546
I agree with this assessment. Those are literally the only two reasons in my view too
>>674558546
We already broke up a year ago but for some fucking reason rn we have a "thing".
I really fucking dont know man.
>>674557549
Okay. Why are you staying a piece of shit? Why don't you work on becoming someone you can be proud of? Being full of yourself is hot if you have earned it.
Why don't you go running every morning, do 50 pushups several times a day and hit the gym every other day and go swimming the other days. That's like 1-2 hours per day that you would usually waste in front of your pc.
Sport and sun (along with a healthy diet) help to raise your testosterone levels which makes you more confident, motivated and mentally strong. Also stop fapping and don't watch any porn. This makes it easier to connect to girls.
Go skateboarding or something similar at least once a week. Doing something dangerous is great to conquer your fear and to learn how to deal with pain. Seeing that you've improved yourself is also a good motivator. If you can take a huge kicker you can also approach a hot girl.
Maybe learn a instrument or another outlet for your creativity.
Become a producer instead of being a consumer. You no longer passively listen to music or watch movies. Start to understand and analyze them. Nothing you do should by time wasted.
Leave you house at least once per day and just walk around, watch some people and try to talk to some. You need to put yourself out there to get social skills. Make some friends that invite you to parties and take you along to clubs. Make some female friends and get styling tips and tips on how to approach women from them.
Rip
Omfg.
I'm saving your conversation picture for the next cringe thread I see.
OP stop whining and just accept the fact she likes you. Will even love you at some point if she doesn't already. Stop creating problems when there are no problems.
>>674558369
Never take the easy way out.
There are stairs and an escalator? Always take the stairs.
You have to wait 20 minutes for the bus? Walk to the next station. Maybe you arrive earlier than with the bus
There is a girl showing interest? Approach her instead of worrying about rejection.
You've got to take a test? Learn instead of trying to cheat.
You have to do something? Learn how to do it instead of copying the work of others
You want to go partying with your friends, but you are afraid she won't let you? Just tell her you are going to do it and stand up for yourself
>>674558946
Okay im pretty intermediate in the gym. Im hit the gym and hit powerlifing/bodybuilding.
Im a sack of shit because I cant fucking go to college or enlist in the military. My friends who I graduated HS with is doing great shit with their lives
I just recently got my job back(EAD). Now Im waiting for the interview date for my green card
>>674556203
Your such a fucking tard. Just do it you stupid shit. This is so beta I can't bring myself to fully believe it isn't bait.
>>674559341
Stop thinking that you are a piece of shit.
I haven't had a solid job in 4 years and get laid constantly. I'm below average height, have a small cock, but I'm not a fucking pussy.
Confident = hot
Insecure = ugly
>>674556854
You sound exactly like my ex-girlfriend, and that is also the reason we broke up. I met a new girl now who hasn't got a shitty confidence and its great! Fucking be with her if you want to and stop being retarded. She does these things, whatever they are, for on reason only: she likes doing things for you.
>>674556203
The very concept of being deserving of something is laughable.
There is no meaning, no purpose, no fate, no objectively and universally right or wrong.
You have limited time to spend on stuff that is entirely irrelevant in the grand scheme of reality. Don't burden yourself with the delusion that anything you think, feel, do, or do not do is of any significance whatsoever. Just strive to maximize personal enjoyment for as long as causality permits before you will inevitably cease to exist.
If you just went for it, you could make the process of getting a green card faster by marrying her. Stop being a little whiny bitch(even though I'm totally like you and would do the same thing)
>>674556203
When op should die
l bet op never fcked her and whats this about greencard lol
>>674558468
wtf join the army in your native country
>>674560151
I cant because ive been living in this US Territory almost half of my life. I went from 3rd grade till i graduated HS. My parents are US citizens but for some fucking reason my paperworks are fucked up.
>>674560346
if your parents are citizens so would you be
>>674560502
My dad is not my biological
And my mom was a green card holder.
They started on my papers after i turned 16 which fucked up everything
My case is so complicated that we had to use lawyers to make statements in court and shit
>>674556203
Listen op, I have the same deal going on in my life right now. But I'm not as open as you. If she's with someone else and she likes them very much let her be with him. Once she realizes that the guy she was with isn't right for her she will look to other people, probably you. Don't pressure her into a relationship, if you force love it won't turn out good. Start valuing the friendship you have instead of the relationship you want and you will feel tons better. Feel better op
>>674556203
That's me except women in general don't like me very much
>>674557333
Checked. Nice trips anon
Not one image of OP's supposed Asian cutie girlfriend and you're still replying.
Y O U A R E A L L F A G S
just cut of your balls and kill yourself faggot!
>>674559888
>>674558333
>>674557333
Three sets of trips. Keep it going
>>674559611
This.
I do have a good job, but I'm fat. I do have a nice face though.
Got 2 FWBs. There's nothing magical about it.
OP you are retarded.
>>674556854
Dude you don't go buy a scale and weigh of everything you do for eachother individually. All that matters is that you are there for her when she needs you and vice versa. She obviously wants you so why not get with her and be happy and probably even gain some confidence wich you obviously don't have. You got a pretty shitty attitude towards yourself and as long as you're not actually an asshole there's no need to look at yourself in such a negative way.
>>674556203
Op don't think about it, stop beeing an edgy kid and be selfish, just fuck the brains out of her.
>>674561640
Yeah. As soon as you stop focusing on getting laid all the time you can actually end up getting laid.
Happened to me. Kept approaching girls all the time and got rejected over and over. I still liked the nightlife and started going out just to meet people, make friends and enjoy dancing and drinking.
Girls responded way better when I didn't focus on getting their number or trying to flirt with them. I was way more confident (because I wasn't afraid of rejection) and treated them as people and not a masturbation device.
Now I only go for it if she shows sexual interest first (body language, pretending to be clumsy, looking at me when all our group is laughing, trying to get my attention over and over) and I also enjoy the friendship.
Friends with benefits are way better than relying on random hookups or fuckbuddies.
>>674556203
You listen here you dumb faggot, don't you let this girl slip away from you. She could be the one true love you have been waiting for. And you DESERVE her just like she DESERVES you! Don't be a punk bitch OP. Listen to what I have to say and take this shit to heart. Get together with her.. Let loose, be yourself.. It will all work out. Trust me. This is the same thing that happened to me. Give it a shot OP.
>>674556203
Man the fuck up op and conquer that land.
>she wants your D
>>674562401
Duuuude. Thank you, not OP or anything but that's the best fucking advice i heard in years i'm gonna try this. I sperg out to much by overthinking how to be funny witty and shit and it's not like i sperg out at random people per se more when i aproach a chick with the idea that she looks like a nice person and i wanna hit that. So thanks man, Sincerely.
>>674558011
This guy gets it.
Thank you /b/